OMG I hate FAMILIES

Here is the just of this,,,,,,

I have one brother in law whom is dating this nice lady,, I so happy he found someone...  OK with that.. 

When I sent out invites to son's  graduation party,,, I sent one to him and his son and put Girlfriend name on invite..  Opps  I wrote the wrong address and got it back..  I called and told the him and sister inlaw( where BIL lives with), I sent one to her also and got it back..  OK  corrected address, and got just BIL name this time on envelope.  OMG

He calls the other sister in law and yells at her, for I am ignoring the girlfriend,  Yet try to explain I wrote the wrong address,,  I didnt even have my nephew name on it and he called and told me he is coming...

Then BIL  calls me and chews me out for forgetting her,, I told him again and again  I did it the first time and sorry about this one..  Also told him I personally invited her at my niece's wedding shower that she can come...

He went off anyhow,, yell because my daughter didnt invite the girlfriend to her daughter bday, and he asked her to come..  His words was that was an oversite once yet it should happen twice.  I try to tell him I had nothing to do with bday invites.. All I  got was dont let it happen again,,,  so now I sent her a personall one and hopefully thing will blow over. 

SIL is so hot about the whole stupid thing..  SAying how childish it is of him,,  and she wanted to tell him to take a flapping leap ,, I ask her to calm down and blow up after my son leaves,, it is his day , and he love is uncle,  I hate to see him or her not show up for my son for their stupidity,,

Thanks for the Rant,,,