Let Love Come...

Sure. You can look at it both from your point of view or as speaking at your partner. I meant the men in my life. (written long time ago, in Bulgarian, translated into English by me).
What I mean is that sometimes we have walls that surround us and don't allow us to surrender to love... We don't let love in, thinking too much what's going on, judging, fearing, counting... But all the sins that our lovers do are made inside their love - meaning, they do love us while making mistakes, and they make mistakes because of their own fears, etc. If we let the love come through the window (since the door is locked) and surrender to her, no matter of the fears, she will be able to make us feel loved, adored... But we have to forgive the mistakes.

Thank you both :-) Don, you can also check other places where you've left a question for me - as the Sunflower. I am answering at the page.

Hey Nataliya!
I love this and especially ur elaboration thereof.
It makes perfect since, but I am not perfect.
Although my door is always unlocked, not open, yet unlocked, I do choose a bit wiser as to which types of love come a knocking, that I decide on letting enter!
There's love at my door now. It's unconditional, but it is also blind! Blind meaning, it doesn't actually wish to realize what is in sight, therefore, missing the big picture. So I do not allow it to come inside. On a warmer day it can be found peering through my open window, because as nature would have it, love finds it way inside. Wanted or not.
So, aside from my rambling, I do agree, I am thankful for this article but I stand in a position where nature hs my door shut yet unlocked but quantum matter has me cautious as to what loves I grant entry to.
Makes any sense????

Yes it does... However you may not know from the very beginning how the love will unfold... Sometimes it takes letting it in to see it/or the person changing. They sometimes need a reason to change, and we being open can be the reason. However, I can see the wisdom in self-protection. The only problem is that with protection it comes also separation and with separation we sometimes miss something really beautiful, and maybe, The IT.

True, true!
But we can be responsible for the change and/or growth of another adult. I feel once you are given the proper guidance and advice, and continuously disregard it, for whatever the reasons may be, you are left on your own. I can not waste time and energy on correcting wrongs within another adult when they fail to realize that there needs to be some sort of correction.
My last quote may have been so much of a ramble that it did not lay out the entie scenario. But, I understand what you are saying and have said.
I have opened my door to that love and it has not been gratifying enough towards me that I wish the company over any time again soon!
But thanks for your posts, message and all. I understand where you come from but in this situation, this love can not come back in.
My door is always open to love, always!

actually the above post should begin with
"But we can not be..."

:) I don't think we disagree at all :-)
But again, all I am saying, is that sometimes its' not about what others do that prevents us from receiving Love fully, it's us, closing because of fear and judgment.
It's not about fixing others - you can't really do that. It's about not needing to fix them, so they feel loved and love you. It's a hard concept and not always work :-) But the good part is - if we do that to ourselves - some people leave our life forever... but others, which match us better, come along...

You are absolutely right.
And with that being said, would be the reason my door is always open to love!
Grown up, good, wholesome love!
Because in order to love one must know and understand what love is. Love is merely that, a great degree of understanding. And with that understanding comes the so called emotion love, at its greatest degree!
LOL. Thanks Nat.
May I call you that??? ;-)