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Live Chat Today @ 2:30PM ET - How is Technology Affecting Our Lives and Families?

December 01, 2008 10:12 AM EST (Updated: December 01, 2008 01:57 PM EST)
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Join us here for a live chat, Monday, 12/1 from 2:30-3PM ET (11:30-12PM PT) with Dr Gary Small and Gigi Vorgan, authors of the book, iBrain, one of our featured titles this month in Bright Ideas from Bestselling Authors.

How is technology changing our brains? How is it affecting our relationships with our families? Is it effective to multitask (ie instant messaging while talking on the phone and emailing)?

The Gather Editorial team will be selecting the member who submits their favorite question during the 30 minute chat to receive 500 Gather Points. Good luck to all.

You must hit the refresh button on your browser to see new comments appear throughout the live chat. If you can't make the chat though, leave your question in the comment field below.

In iBrain, Dr. Gary Small, one of America's leading neuroscientists and experts on brain function and behavior, explores how technology's unstoppable march forward has altered the way young minds develop, function, and interpret information. iBrain reveals a new evolution catalyzed by technological advancement and its future implications: Where do you fit in on the evolutionary chain? What are the professional, social, and political impacts of this new brain evolution? How must you adapt and at what price?

 

 

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Comments: 108

j - Frugal Mom - r. Dec 1, 2008, 10:36am EST
It sounds like an interesting chat, I will see if I can make it.
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Meredith B. Dec 1, 2008, 10:40am EST
I have a bad memory but will try to remember to be here for it :)
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 10:54am EST
I'll make a point of being here.
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Trish A. Dec 1, 2008, 10:54am EST
I will try to remember.
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T Cheri P. Dec 1, 2008, 11:06am EST
no promiss's on being here, but it looks like it will be an interesting chat.

If naptime all goes well I'll swing on by!
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Patricia G. Dec 1, 2008, 11:36am EST
Hi,

I should be back for the chat, but I wanted to go ahead and post my questions and thoughts about this in case something comes up:

With all of our technology advances becoming more and more rapid, do you see a point in time where people start treating technology almost like an extra sense--going from an optional part of life to a borderline need (at least in people's minds)?

I see this today to a certain extent--ever see someone who's literally addicted to the Internet or an online game? You can pry them away from it, but you can tell that's all they're thinking about until they get back to it. I'm sure there is something going on there with brain chemistry--not much different than a drug. I think there are some consequences to that, especially if it becomes a socially acceptable addiction.

I do think there is a positive side to this as well, mainly when the Internet is used for an educational and career tool. I came from a family that was in poverty by U.S. standards, and I'm going to be completely "retired" (in the sense of not needing a traditional job) before the age of 30 because of what I've learned about using the Internet to generate an income. That will free my time up so I can do projects that help other people, something I may not have been able to do while taking the traditional job route. In that respect, I have a higher quality of life that I wouldn't have without it.

I personally think on an individual level we have to find a balance--just being aware of your own daily habits helps a lot, and if you set priorities in your life it makes things a lot easier.

I'll check out your book the next time I'm at a bookstore. Thanks for holding this chat.
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Jennifer G. Dec 1, 2008, 11:38am EST
I'll be in class while the chat is going, so I don't know if I'll be able to be here.
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Jennifer G. Dec 1, 2008, 11:39am EST
My question, and I'm not certain this is the right place to ask it, is how technology affects the ADHD brain? I've heard a lot of information from people with severe ADHD that say listening to an iPod and instant messaging while listening to a lecture helps drown out noises like ticking clocks and other people rustling, so they can properly pay attention in class. I was wondering if, for the book, you had done any research on how technology and multitasking can affect people with ADHD.
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Janet Somewhere Up On The Mount Dec 1, 2008, 12:05pm EST
Thanks for the email. I will try to be on. Not feeling so hot & waiting for pain meds to kick in.
TY for the heads up on it.
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donna h. Dec 1, 2008, 12:31pm EST
I'll tyr
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Laura C. Dec 1, 2008, 12:57pm EST
my question is, what about using technology on a daily basis is actually GOOD for our brains?
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Valerie Roars Dec 1, 2008, 1:11pm EST
Not sure if I'll be back at the right time for the live chat, but I've read the book and it is fantastic!
Here's my question - It seems like technology is widening the generation gap. I notice it between me and my teenagers and more profoundly between my kids and their 80-something grandparents. What tips to you have to help my multi-tasking technology teens better communicate on a level that older adults can track with? (I am fully away that it is impossible to change the grandparents....)
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Bethany C. Dec 1, 2008, 1:16pm EST
I don't know if I'm here at the right time or not...
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Bethany C. Dec 1, 2008, 1:20pm EST
Anyway, let me leave my question/comment.
Does technology give us more time with our families or take it away?
We are able to do more with technology and should have more time, but then we play more games, look up more info, and become internet addicted, so have less time, I think.
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 1:25pm EST
Wait- the title says 2:30, but the chat says 2- what time does this start?
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Collins Nonfiction Dec 1, 2008, 1:58pm EST
Sorry for the confusion. The chat starts at 2:30PM ET. See you there!
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Shannon W Dec 1, 2008, 2:04pm EST
Are kids better off now with all this technology or are they lacking how some things were done in the past without technology?
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:05pm EST
Ok, thanks!
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Dagmara H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:07pm EST
sounds great
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:17pm EST
My question: Do you think that we've become TOO dependent on technology, and that possibly the next generation is lacking the fundamentals in knowledge in how to survive WITHOUT technology?
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Apryl Just Apryl Dec 1, 2008, 2:23pm EST
I can't stay because I have to go pick up my son but I was wondering and I may be wrong cause I am an old fuddy duddy but......

It seems to me that the more people depend on technology, the less they depend on or seek peronal relationships with "real" people. I worry about this as I am a Mother of a small child and I have adult children as well. Don't you think that we could very well forget the art and fundamentals of forming, bonding and maintaining relationships. Nowadays if you have a cyber friend it seems so much easier, I mean there is always the delete button. What is your opinion?
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Collins Nonfiction Dec 1, 2008, 2:29pm EST
Good afternoon Gather.

Welcome to the chat with Dr Gary Small and Gigi Vorgan. For the next 30 minutes we'll be discussing their new book, iBrain. You may jump in at any point with a question.

Let's begin the chat with a question from Patricia G. She asks:
With all of our technology advances becoming more and more rapid, do you see a point in time where people start treating technology almost like an extra sense--going from an optional part of life to a borderline need (at least in people's minds)?
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:30pm EST
Good question, Katie.

My question- What are the long term ramifications of relying on technology so heavily? And what is it doing to our Earth?
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:31pm EST
Good Afternoon Dr. Small and Ms. Vorgan,
again My question: Do you think that we've become TOO dependent on technology, and that possibly the next generation is lacking the fundamentals in knowledge in how to survive WITHOUT technology?
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 2:35pm EST
I'm hearing Apryl in her concern that we are possibly losing touch both emotionally as well as physically with one another as we connect with one another.
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:35pm EST
Hi Katie,
We think we have become dependent on technology, especially the younger digital natives. We recently spoke at a local school where the students were asked to take a day off of their technology. Most of them couldn't last beyond noon!
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:36pm EST
Thanks Heather, I'm serious as I think about my teenager who is so knowledgeable about the new tech and whatnot, but can't seem to understand things like changing a lightbulb.
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♠~Dnbuster~♠ ~. Dec 1, 2008, 2:36pm EST
Good question:)
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Nick H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:36pm EST
Long-winded one here, but:

It seems that while technology has made changes to almost every part of day to day life, whether it's medical, automative or production-related, it seems to me that communication has seen the greatest change in recent years.

Whether it's how we get our news - admit it; most people check online and no longer rely on magaziens, newspapers or even the 11 o'clock news. why would they when it's immediately accessivle. Or direct person to person communication - email, text messaging, cell phones, attachments with audio, video or images.

Even how we choose to socialize seems to be a factor - playing MMORGP's like World of Warcraft, playing Xbox Live, going into chat rooms have in many ways taken over as mediums for getting together as opposed to a game of cards with friends or sitting down to a boardgame with kids. Even going out to a movie with a group of friends may be changing - Xbox has its new Netflix 'group' sessions for watching a movie with friends.

This leads me to a pair of questions. First - these online bonds don't seem as permenant as real-life ones. It's easier to 'dodge' someone online - don't log in, change a screen name or 'lie' because you don't have to see them face-to-face. Is this change in social structure considered anywhere near as haelthy as the real-live in-person friend or is it creating a weaker social structure for interaction in your opinion? Disposable friends and relationships as it were.

And then my next question is even with our iPhones, online games, email - what's the next big wave? People crave this immediate interaction at their fingertips - but it makes me curious what other big changes are predicted to be around the corner to try and make that next jump in that need for immediate communication now that we seem to have covered text, music, video, images and spoken voice so thoroughly?

As someone who works for a software company where video, audio and image sharing and screencasting is developed - and my prior job was working at a university in setting up mediated classrooms so that faculty could better use differing means of communication with students, I have quite the interest in the topic of technology and communication in general. :) Thanks!
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:37pm EST
Lol, I do believe that Dr. I know my son can't figure out what to do if his remote control runs out of battery life. I'm really being serious here, lol.
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Mary G. Dec 1, 2008, 2:37pm EST
Do you see technology as a good thing?
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:37pm EST
Hello Heather T,
We can speculate about the long-term consequences of the constant bombardment of technology. In "iBrain," we argue that it is leading to a major milestone in brain evolution. In other words, those who master the technology skills may have survival advantages.
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Priscilla (wishing I was in Costa Rica) ~. Dec 1, 2008, 2:38pm EST
This book sounds like a great book!
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:39pm EST
Really? I find that interesting, I would have thought the opposite!
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:39pm EST
Susan,
You are right that we lose touch at an emotional level when we rely on the technology to communicate. The upside is that we can reach almost anyone, any where, but rather than looking at each other in the eye and reading non-verbal cues, we are typing on a keyboard. In fact, we're doing that right now!
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Laura C. Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
I read your book, and I was wondering what are some of the benefits of technology on our brains? It can't be all bad for us right?
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Nick H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
As for the question about technological dependance, I'm torn on a few fronts. I think that it's hard to say when we're -too- dependant on it. I mean - we can learn information we need instantly (say you're trying to learn something you need -right then-), communicate immediately (telling a loved one you'll be late or getting ahold of an emergency service like fire fighters) and the medical advances quite simply save lives.

That said, like all things, it seems to me technology has cripling components too, such as changse to lifestyle, the lack of real interpersonal relationships and of course misinformation are just a handful of problems. I guess I view it like any other advancement - wheels made it easier for people to transport goods, but also to make cannons more mobile for war.
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
A friend's nephews have designed this new method of sharing slideshows with friends and family. It's slick, it's entertaining, it's also distancing.

But there's no stopping technology. Instead of bemoaning it, we need to embrace it and create new ways to build lasting, rewarding communities.

Is Gather really a community that can provide what Mayberry, RFD once provided?
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Mary G. Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
I asked this question, as my husband is "glued" to the Playstation 3 for hours at a time. He skips meals when he must get to the next save point.
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Desire Hendricks Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
Do brains that have been "raised" with technology, (PC, mp3s, cell phones, etc.) look different from or perform differently than those that have for lack of a better term, adapted to it?
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:40pm EST
So, you see furthering technology as a good thing? I am torn, honestly. As Apryl said, people seem to be losing contact with one another, even as they connect in a more advanced way. At what point does technology govern our worlds, and direct how we interact with one another?

In the last 100 years, the world has advanced exponentially. But we've also lost ground socially, and morally as technology allowed us to disconnect from the world.
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:42pm EST
Hi Nick,
I wanted to pick up on one of your questions about the future of technology. Right now there is a lot of work on brain/computer interfact technologies. Research volunteers have electrode sensors on the head, which allows the volunteers to control a computer cursor just by thinking about it! In the future, we might be able to beam our thoughts to each other, wirelessly . . .
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:42pm EST
I know that my sons's Internet Graphics teacher had a seminar and the people from Georgia Tech who came to speak told them that in the not too distant future, the technology will be advancing at such a rate, that when you purchase a PC, by the time you get it home, it will be outdated. What do you think?
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Samantha C. Dec 1, 2008, 2:42pm EST
I would like to know is it possible for technology advances to max out... to the points where it is not possible to invent anymore. If so then what will happen to the human race. Will there no longer be a reason to communicate even if it is through using technologies?
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:44pm EST
Hello Laura,
Technology has a huge upside. Currently available programs can improve memory and cognitive function. One program that improves peripheral vision is being used to help older drivers. Surgeons who play video games make fewer errors in the operating room than those who do not. The key is to harness these advantages to improve our lives.
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:44pm EST
Is beaming thoughts out wirelessly necessarily a good thing? At that point, where is privacy?
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 2:45pm EST
Eww, I don't want my thoughts beamed!
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Laura C. Dec 1, 2008, 2:46pm EST
thank you, I agree with that. I have poor eyesight and i'd love to see a program like that.
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:46pm EST
Hi Katie,
What is clear is that the pace of innovation is more rapid than ever before. My generation of baby boomers experienced color TV, push-button phones, and other innovations that occurred very gradually. Today's digital natives are much more comfortable at the increased pace of innovation -- we think their brains are wired for it since they have been exposed from early in their brain development.
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 2:46pm EST
...beam our thoughts to each other, wirelessly.

Yes, but what about human contact? It is essential. It's a proven fact and I'll come up with the data in a bit. There needs to be greater integration of technology into our lives so that it does not distance us from one another.

Question: Will those poor kids with ADHD finally have a chance to shine because using technology seems to require lightning jumps from one idea and medium to another?
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Patricia G. Dec 1, 2008, 2:46pm EST
Have you found any physical connections to what using current technology does to the people's brains--neurotransmitter differences, brainwaves, etc.? I think it would be interesting to study different generations in the same family.

I don't personally consider it evolution, but I think there would be a lot of differences in brain development the younger you were exposed to what is a very large amount of information that is instantly available.
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♠~Dnbuster~♠ ~. Dec 1, 2008, 2:47pm EST
me either CyberGwen..lol
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:47pm EST
Hello Heather T,
We don't know if thought beaming is good or bad but it may be the future. As far as privacy, we may have to wear protective headgear to protect on thoughts from wireless intruders . . .
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April H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:49pm EST
One thing really perplexes me...where are do women stand when it comes to using the new Technological gadgets?
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:49pm EST
Hi Susan,
We agree about integrating technology skills with human contact skills. The key is creating and maintaining the balance in our lives and knowing when one approach or the other makes sense.
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:49pm EST
Protective headgear.. I just flashed to Magneto ;)
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 2:50pm EST
April H., we stand in line at the cash register, credit card in hand, just like the men. :-)
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April H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
LOL Susan you are so right
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Nick H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
I'd heard of tests to that nature, but not necessarily to that extent - interesting to say the least. And certainly on the one hand - it could lead to an invasion of privacy at one extreme. However, I will play devil's advocat again and say that I also see the potential to allow the mute to communicat, the deaf to 'hear' - and I for one am very tied to my computer. What say in 50 years my hands don't work the way they do now - it would allow me to control and interact with a computer still? Interesting notions imo
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
Susan, as the mom of 2 ADHD kids, that is a great question. My son is off the wall all the time, but you stick him on the computer, where he can zip from website to website, or game to game, and he can stay immersed for hours. It gives him the release he needs, and calms him.
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
Hi April,
Men in the past have excelled with the technology and have been drawn to it, but women have been catching up quickly. There is much more of a brain gap in technology use according to age, separating the young digital natives -- born into the technology, which may be impairing their face-to-face social skills -- and the older digital immigrant, who come to the technology more reluctantly later in life.
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
Maybe this is just my experience, but I see less and less common sense and courtesy in the world. I think that, in part, it can be traced back to the leap in technology and how we can get what we want, right now. Some of our young people just don't have patience anymore. They want the easy way, the fast way and everyone else be darned. Do you agree?
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Laura C. Dec 1, 2008, 2:51pm EST
I know for myself that I don't have many "real life" friendships, most of my friendships are online, so you think that's the new norm?
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Nick H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:52pm EST
nice x-men reference Heather - but suitably on-topic heh
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Laura C. Dec 1, 2008, 2:52pm EST
that's an excellent point Gwen!!
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 2:52pm EST
I agree, Gwen
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:52pm EST
I know for me it's all a bit unnerving...I remember old adding machines (pre-calculators) and I'm still more comfortable balancing my checkbook in my head....I don't trust the calculator.....
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:53pm EST
Hi Heather,
There have been several studies showing an association between ADHD and technology use, but a cause and effect has not been proven. We think it is important to note the impact of technology on the individual, good and bad, and how it may be affecting attention abilities.
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 2:54pm EST
I am getting my tin foil hat ready, Heather. I will be in deep trouble if people can read my thoughts!
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Rose Lamatt Dec 1, 2008, 2:54pm EST
"This leads me to a pair of questions. First - these online bonds don't seem as permenant as real-life ones."

Do not agree with this Nick. I met someone on the internet, who became my best friend. It led to talking on the phone everyday. We never got a chance to meet each other in person, being she was in Nevada, and I am in Florida. But our friendship grew for 9 years. I met her family, kids, husband, and 'her' friends all on line and through phone. She met my family and friends.

I do belive the internet and most technology has taught us not to talk. I guess this is why I can't understand a young person when I need to call, doctor's offices, or other places of business.
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Jeanne Voelker Dec 1, 2008, 2:54pm EST
What sorts of changes are made in our brains when we use technology? Can you explain how 'brain evolution' might come about? How can mastering technology create survival advantages ? (from Jeanne)
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Patricia G. Dec 1, 2008, 2:55pm EST
I had a psychology instructor who said he actually knew a guy that went around with aluminum foil on his head to keep intruders out--the instructor said he couldn't do anything for him except tell the guy to make sure it was shiny side out, lol. (Keep in mind the instructor was a former stand-up comedian working on his masters, not a practicing psychologist.)
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:55pm EST
Hello Laura,
Many young digital natives have developed extensive online social networks. We think that is great but face-to-face social interactions are important as well.
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Collins Nonfiction Dec 1, 2008, 2:55pm EST
Unfortunately there are only 5 minutes left to the chat. Our guests will answer as many questions as possible during that time.
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:55pm EST
I think we can form attachments to people on-line, but I think it's rare for them to become the close type that if we met someone face to face eventually.
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 2:56pm EST
LOL, Patricia!
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April H. Dec 1, 2008, 2:56pm EST
I disagree with Rm Lamatt, my online friends are very deep, I have even met some of them when possible and now we snail mail too
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 2:57pm EST
I know that I've had many problems with others misinterpreting my words on-line. There aren't enough emoticons to convey my message. How do you expect that issue to be resolved?

I know I'm not the only one with this situation.
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 2:57pm EST
If we lose the face to face interaction, aren't we then in serious danger of losing our humanity?
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 2:57pm EST
Hi Jeanne,
We recently completed a study at UCLA and found that searching for information online activating brain neural networks to a much greater extent than reading a book. Brains wired to efficiently master the technology will put people at an advantage socially and at the workplace.
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Dr. Gary Small & Gigi Vorgan Dec 1, 2008, 3:00pm EST
Katie,
That is a concern -- losing what we currently define as our humanity. But that definition could change. Also, some newer computer programs actually teach people human contact social skills -- how to recognize non-verbal cues, maintain eye contact, etc.
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 3:00pm EST
That worries me too Katie. There is a sense of detachment that happens.
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Collins Nonfiction Dec 1, 2008, 3:00pm EST
It looks like we have run out of time with our 30-minute chat. Thank you to all the Gather members who attended and submitted such great questions!

Dr. Gary Small and Gigi Vorgan, thank you for being our guests today.

iBrain is truly a fascinating book. It will change the way you think about technology.

Have a great afternoon everyone. Thanks again for joining.
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Susan Budig Dec 1, 2008, 3:01pm EST
IMO, Katie, the danger is a rise in violent crimes. I honestly see a direct correlation between technology use and crime.
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Nick H. Dec 1, 2008, 3:01pm EST
I tend to agree that the online interactions can be good - I think they cater to certain needs or desires people have. I guess I wonder though if the majority of these are 'as good as' or even the same as a face-to-face interaction. We often get to show what we want to people through say, online communication - usually the best of ourselves and not the worst. That can be good for uncomplicated communication, but often it's been my experience that people who know us - really know us - also tend to make us better because they can challenge us to improve through our faults as well. Again, I can see the good and the bad to online friendships and communication, but I guess in the end they tend to feel far less 'real' to me than say, my friends I grew up with. Interestingly enough, now that I've moved to a new town - I primarily interact w/ these friends on World of Warcraft, communicating as we socialize on a game. :)
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April H. Dec 1, 2008, 3:02pm EST
THanks thiswasso informative, I wish it was longer
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CyberGwen ! Dec 1, 2008, 3:03pm EST
Thank you!
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Dec 1, 2008, 3:03pm EST
Thank you for chatting with us today, Dr. Small & Ms. Vorgan! It's interesting to see where technology is leading us, and hearing what people think about that.
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Patricia G. Dec 1, 2008, 3:03pm EST
Thank you for sharing--looking forward to reading your book.
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Katie Scarlett (Site Bouncer Wanna Be) O. Dec 1, 2008, 3:03pm EST
It was an excellent chat. Thank you for this time and information.
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Mary M. Dec 1, 2008, 3:10pm EST
Oh, I just missed the chat! It sounded so interesting. I would have enjoyed participating.
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Trish A. Dec 1, 2008, 3:39pm EST
Darn! I got writing on a new play and forgot this chat. It sounds like it was a good one.
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Lina :-p Dec 1, 2008, 3:40pm EST
I have a question:
How can families communicate effectively long distance using technology without leaving the older family members out?

My in laws hate that we email updates and important info as opposed to calling. They fight technology and don't like email but that is the easiest way for us to reach out to many people all at once... and nobody but those in laws has a problem with it.
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Adrian Eve Revenaugh Dec 1, 2008, 3:44pm EST
Myself as well. I'm sure this chat was "Gad-vertised" other than the mailbox note that I just found. Late getting to town, therefor computer this AM.

But, here's the beauty. We can read it, ruminate, digest and further the conversation. Text waits to be read.

I'm very interested in how technology is melding and morphing who, and how we are with each other.

Also whether attempting to express ourselves clearly in text, with range of sensitivity, as we should hope to conduct ourselves is person, is attainable among stranger of all walks.

"Newbie, making trail cross the wide open tundra' of the internet.
Perhaps this exchange could pick up at another point? Thank You
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Christine Zibas Dec 1, 2008, 4:09pm EST
I've read some reviews of this book and have it on my "to buy and read" list. I have even featured someone else's review of this on my Gather group, Bookin'. Sorry I arrived late for the chat. I never get on Gather early enough for these daytime chats, but I am looking foward to reading through this conversation.

I think the book covers a very interesting topic indeed!
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Apryl Just Apryl Dec 1, 2008, 4:31pm EST
I missed this but was happy to see my question addressed though wasn't here, Thank You!
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Wilma D. Dec 1, 2008, 6:52pm EST
Sorry I missed the chat.