As we come closer to a new presidential election, the question that begs to be asked is "Are you too polarized?". Do you feel as if you have become so caught up in a partisan perception of politics that you are unable to view your views more moderately? You may believe in certain ideals, but are these ideals the best thing for the country? Do they benefit everyone? Should everyone be forced to see things by your point of view? Are you fighting to allow others the right to disagree with you? Have you found that you see the other side's candidates as "evil" or "corrupt"? Share with us your thoughts. What will you actively do to make sure that you fight to have the voices of others heard who might disagree with you? What will you do to ensure that democracy is upheld by informed masses and not by polarized, uninformed, single-issue, foolish people?
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In the past, I have voted for both party members for president (at different times, of course). Right now, I feel it will be difficult for me to find a Republican who represents my beliefs and who I feel will help the country out the enormous mess it has become under GWB. Unfortunately, I'm not sure any of the Democrat candidates will do a better job.
I would like to see a huge turnover in public office seats. I would like to see candidates who can actually do their jobs without the outside influences and pressures that may make them compromise their standards and beliefs. Not sure that's possible or even feasible at this time, but that's my ideal. Still hoping for the best in the future.
Also, not destroying our families would benefit everybody.
Even God gives people the right to choose to be evil if they want to be.
He doesn't give me the right to call myself righteous, though, if I don't choose to stand up for righteousness.
DON'T automatically buy the hype or the caricaturizations. EVALUATE the sources. Evaluate the statements. Come to your own conclusions.
So, yes, I DO try to remain open when discussing all candidates and all points of view - even tho I have some strong opinions about many of them.
Churches that preach the Biblical view of homosexuality should not be forced to give homosexual people ordination to enforce their rights. Have your rights, I would tell any of my homosexual friends to their face, but don't infringe on mine.
Churches that preach the Biblical view of homosexuality should not be forced to give homosexual people ordination to enforce their rights. Have your rights, I would tell any of my homosexual friends to their face, but don't infringe on mine. "
If you believe this is true, then nothing could undermine the sacredness of marriage. You just put the power in man's hands and stole it right out of God's. If God created marriage as a sacred covenant, nothing you or me or anyone does could take away that sacredness. We just don't have that kind of power.
If what I said about marriage was my own opinion, that would be judging. I am merely stating what the word of God says. True gluttony is a sin too, If I said that gluttony was acceptable, I would be lying. So why is it wrong for me to state that homosexuality is a sin and that marriage is sacred to God? I could quote you chapter and verse and will if you sincerely want to know the truth. But I think we both answered Dan's question here. We are too polarized.
Personally, (And I'm certain many will disagree here) I think I'm too polarized for the devil's comfort.
It's easy to call people names.
I, too, have friends who are homosexual, friends who drink, smoke, lie, and do a lot of other things I don't approve of. Just because I don't approve of certain behaviors doesn't mean I don't love the people. But I would be dishonest if I called myself their friend and didn't tell them that I believed their behavior was wrong. I don't rag on it any more than I'm sure you don't rag on any of your friends once you tell them that they are wrong about something. Someone that I love more than I love my own life even has struggles with homosexuality.
God doesn't want to strike people dead. He wants them to stop doing things that he knows are harmful to them.
Oh, and as for "slavery and sexism" I know you didn't! I'm a woman preacher in a majority black church!
Thought provoking questions, I can honestly say as a registered independent, I vote for the canidate who has the qualities that I would like to see in our President.
Those who love the truth will hear it and those who don't won't.
I started on this thread, just kidding around with Dan, because nobody appeared to be taking him seriously anyway.
I stayed on here, arguing, because I always try to persuade people from believing things that will harm them in the end. I do care what happens to people.
And if I weren't 100% persuaded that the word of God was true, believe me, I wouldn't waste my time. I would spend all of my time reading pleasant novels and hiding from the world.
You guys are probably just being mean and hateful because you care, too and you want me to understand. And I can respect that. What I can't do is agree with you.
Ok, here goes....
I think when political parties first formed there were major differences, however now the lines are so blurred we have Libertarian, Independent, Republican, Democrat; Liberal Repulican, Conservative Democrat.......(you get the point). I think it's hard to be truly polarized now with everyones views swirling in and out of the original definitions of what these parties were about. I took a candidate survey to see who was closest to my views, well, 30/30/28/32 is not a high percentage of common political views between me and the candidates. Sure, we have our favorites, but then there are also several of us who shrug our shoulders, ponder who to vote for and with that on election day they had a button for "Eh." or None of the Above.

"Were they a man and woman who loved each other and loved God? Otherwise, I'm sure it was a sin."
Bethany, are you saying that married atheists and agnostics are living in sin no matter what gender they are?
How can you be so sure what is and is not a "sin"? Until you prove to me -- via tape recording on your answering machine, or registered mail from heaven, or a videotape -- that God has directly issued to you, personally, a list of what is and is not sinful, I'm going to keep on being an "evil" freethinker who disagrees with almost every word you wrote.
Even God gives people the right to choose to be evil if they want to be.
He doesn't give me the right to call myself righteous, though, if I don't choose to stand up for righteousness."
I'm still dealing with me being corrupt for disagreeing with you which has the effect of shutting you off all together. I have tried constantly to allow all thought processes to share but have gone thru about seven years of listening to people try to out yell the other to "make" them believe their way. When George Bush said those who disagree with him are against him and are not patriotic I watched in amazement as people picked up that sound bite and cursed those of us who felt he was wrong. I watched in amazement as people hung their faith on one or two issues and ignored the lies, the pandering, the distortions, the misrepresentations and a whole list of other negatives about which they refused to acknowledge. I have no problem with anyone's religion but I wonder if they really pay attention to the sort of influence they seem to wish to have over the political system. While they are waiting for the second coming of Christ to appear as a candidate who will meet their every need they are lambasting every candidate who doesn't fir their needs. They too often narrow down a potential candidate's qualifications to such an unrealistic quality they distort the real issues. I have yet to understand how they can feel the issues which are so important to them should over shadow all others. They ignore financial, organizational skills, track records which have shown they have attempted to stem loss of jobs, housing issues and many other qualities which are good for many but...because that candidate doesn't share their belief in abortion or marriage he/she is no good. I applaud anyone who has a conviction and sticks to it but I abhore anyone who can even allow the words from their mouths to tell me I am "corrupt" because I do not agree with them. I believe in an all inclusive God and do not put others down. What one believes is not any of my business and certainly should not be fused into who we elect to lead this country. We are not voting for a new minister, priest, rabbi, eman or any other church leader. We are attempting to choose the very best leader of our country and the world but certainly will not achieve that as long as too many use their personal beliefs as a measuring stick for others and the candidates.
Religion should be a private and personal choice.
Teresa H. " I'm continually amazed at people that believe faith is something others should put on the shelf just because they don't believe. If someone has a faith that comes and goes that easily I wouldn't want them as president of the local Rabbit Lodge, never mind president of the country. Where on earth did this concept of "keep your religion at home" come from?"
My opinion only here......... I don't think your faith should be put on a shelf at all. I just don't think it has a place in the political arena. Believe what you want, just don't push it on me. I think if a President who was ONLY or ALL about his faith were to get elected into office, they would use their position to INFLUENCE people to believe in THEIR faith. I don't NEED that. I know what I believe and do NOT need someone to try and convince me otherwise.
Whatever happened to the separation of church and state?
Aesop for Today January 29
EM & Bethany, thanks for your entertaining interactions........
By the way, that self righteous attitude of "truth", in etc.......is the very reason 'i will never call myself a Christian. Though there are many Christians who do follow Jesus's non-judgemental, forgiving & non-condescending, non egotistical, kind compassionate &humanitarian ways.......UNfortunately, there are so many people who call themselves Christians who are hate-filled and believe in the paper pages of a book that has been politicized & altered. Unless you can read the original texts.....you still havent read 'the truth' anyway.....I believe it is idolatrous to worship a book!! I believe God possibly existed before these words were written....and still possibly exists now. So where are the updates from 400 AD onward? Why has God stopped 'telling the truth'. I dont think God has stopped at all.
Anyway, I think Jesus would be pretty annoyed at how some people use hatred&violence against others, in his name. And judgement. Because saying "these people are free to sin & be evil"....etc IS a judgement. I think you're attitude seem quite evil Bethany!! You are saying some people are this n that.....what is truth. You cant just go picking bits out of the bible!! If you think it's literally intended, i suggest you stay home & cook & clean for your husband (and his extended family). I suggest you remove yourself from society for a week while you menstruate. If someone steals, hungry for food or not, cut off their hand. Oh and i sure hope you dont eat pork or bacon or any other cloven hooved animal. By the way.....you should be covering you hair in public.....come to this of it....i think computers are a bit 'worldly'....so maybe you better burn yours & stop mixing with all those bads apple friends of yours. You know what it says in the bible about that.....
Its silly.....cos Jesus hung with bad apples & it never seemed to rub off on him. What is it? Is God about revenge, hate & righteousness? Or is he about forgivness & compassion? Or could it be that the people who wrote the bible were actually expressing their experience of God in a certain time & we know better now? So if you wont let Gay people marry, Im afraid you will have to get looking at the other rules that YOU believe in. ALL the rules in the bible!
But its up to you. Thats choice. And if theres a God .......what if he says "why didnt you accept Gay people?" you say "it was in your book." he may say "so many people wrote that & twisted my words; why wont you think for yourself with the brain i gave you. like my son did!! i know he caused some trouble with the traditionalists, but at least he used the freedom to think that i gave him"
On the polarization, our last Prime Minister loved to divide & use fear, ignorance, etc. He wouldnt sign kyoto. He wouldnt say sorry to our aborinal community. The new guy said he would. He passed his intention to sign kyoto to the governer general in the first 2 seconds as Prime Minister. He is saying sorry next month. Mayb this will put to rest some division....I dont thoink he likes the fight. ?He seems to be solution oriented. Im sure he isnt perfect....but so far he has seemed to be alot moreinto the job than the last guy, who was Bush's buddy, who seemed to like the showbiz.
Candidates should run on their own merit, gaining support if and when they prove themselves worthy.
Bear in mind that those who disagree with you are not necessarily "polarized, uninformed, single-issue, foolish people."
If the choice comes down to "good" and "evil", musn't people be polarized by such a decision? One cannot desire good and really consider supporting evil out of a sense of fairness.
What has happened in the United States over the past seven years (the emasculation of a government "of the people, by the people and for the people" and its replacement with a hollow shell that exists to cut taxes and flow the remaining public funds into private hands through untendered contracts -- the reversal of more than 200 years of policy based on the concept of 'no first strike' in favour of the Bush doctrine of wars of agression -- the abandoning of war veterans to sub-standard health care and job prospects so that private providers of health care services can make more profits -- the violation of numerous international treaties and agreements, many of them actually written by American administrations of the past) has been evil in the eyes of many: evil acts committed willfully and intentionally by men and women of evil intent.
To support that, or consider giving support to someone who still professes some allegiance to that, is to condone the evil.
The Democrats are not the embodiment of good, not by any stretch. But evil is evil and one cannot support it or even consider supporting it in good conscience.
I agree. The people who vote down rights for gay families are in essence, taking stability away from children. It's pathetic.
I've watched as we have allowed No child's behind left in school damage schools--and schools are only allowed to teach abstinence if they take federal funds for health education.
I've watched as my networth went down, but the top 1% went through the roof--we are the only country where CEO's make over 400 times the employee....and the only country where a CEO can bankrupt a country and get over a million dollar(actually $6M for countryside) bonus and severence pay.
I've watched as the christian taliban have tried to take over this nation as a "christian" nation, disavowing the separation of church and state and what this nation was founded on--principles of government, NOT christian mythology.
Can I get along with the other side? Only when they show respect for beliefs other than their own...and that doesn't happen a lot.
In agreement with some of the comments above, and it total disagreement with other comments, I believe that the separation of church and state is a vital part of this country and our Constitution. We need more discussion by the candidates of real issues, like health care, education, foreign policy, and the economy. When the candidates or their parties ignore the issues and pander to particular religious groups, they are fomenting polarization. News media seem to love this polarization as much as some campaigning politicians, perhaps because it apparently simplifies things. It doesn't help the country, however.
Tell ya what, evangelizers and proselytizers, I'll try to be keep my temper with you provided you quit trying to make me live by your beliefs.
Politics have become way too polarizing in recent years, to the point that NOTHING can get done because both sides won't budge on ANYTHING.
What ever happened to the idea of a Statesmen, that would put personal and local interests aside and worked for what was best for the whole country, not just one small segment of it.
The special interests throw so much money at the politicians and sway them away from the general good to something that only benefits the few. Maybe if we found a way to take all that campaign money out of the picture, things might have a chance to settle down.
A long time ago someone said that we had the best congress that money could buy, and it has only gotten worse since then.
In order to run for office with the support of a "party", a candidate must espouse every issue in that party's platform. That seems unlikely.
I believe we need to abolish the political gangs and open the field to all to compete.
Fund each candidate equally and may the best candidates win.
So I like to think people think of such things when they vote. We are only as civilised as how we treat those who we find difficult.
I will vote for the candidate that I think is best to lead this country. I do not like all the advertisements though. It makes me not want to vote for anyone that I have had to listen to 500 times before elections.
Those of us who have the opportunity to VOTE (and WILL VOTE) . . .
Let us ALL stand together and pledge allegiance to the flag . . .
(Remember those days?)
THE PLEDGE of ALLEGIANCE
I Pledge Allegiance to the flag of the United States of America
and to the Republic for which it stands,
one Nation under God,
indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.
-- "ONE NATION, UNDER GOD, INDIVISIBLE, . . ."
Too tired to be polarized after this thread.
Blessings everyone!
Rene A.