SFC Brent AdamsApril 29, 1965 ~ December 1, 2005
Sgt. 1st Class Brent Allen Adams, born April 29, 1965, in Lancaster, PA. Killed in action in Ramadi, Iraq on December 1, 2005 at the age of 40. He was a member of the Army National Guard, 2nd Brigade Combat Team deployed to Iraq in June of 2005.
Brent was born with a head full of dark hair and very chubby. He was a happy baby with a smile that followed him into adulthood. That smile became know by his friends and fellow soldiers as the "Adams' Smile."
Like his father, he was always forever curious and developed a love of books and a thirst for knowledge. He was an avid outdoorsman, enjoying backpacking, hiking and camping. He loved music of all kinds from heavy metal to big bands and symphonies. He was an avid Penn State, Pirates, and Steelers football game watcher. Brent was President of his Church Council prior to his deployment to Iraq.
He waited a long time to marry and become a father. In 1999 he married becoming a father in 2001 to a son, now six years old. His son was the center of his life and completed Brent. I have never seen him as happy as the years he spent with his precious son. He was a very devoted hands-on father, doing everything for his son from changing diapers, to staying up with him when he was sick.
On the day that Brent was killed we found out that he volunteered for this particular mission to give his men a break from all the work they were doing. He was assigned to the Marines for the day to help build a new base for the Iraqi Army. On the return trip his vehicle was struck by a rocket fired by insurgents. We were told that God was merciful in that Brent probably died instantly and did not suffer.
We have heard stories from his fellow soldiers about how he conducted himself while in Iraq...so selflessly helping others, being a great leader to his men. His character, his sense of humor, and his knowledge of God and the Bible and always sharing it with anyone who would listen has brought us comfort and made us even prouder than we already were. They call him a hero - to his family , he already was and forever will be.
Brent, your responsibility to your men, your loyalty to the oath you took, your unwavering commitment to duty, and your honor make you our shinning star.
Our lives have changed forever. God gave us this gift named Brent Adams and the gift that even his death cannot take away will be the wonderful memories we have of this precious baby turned man that we will be forever proud of. As time passes, hopefully we will get to the point where we can once again smile at a memory of Brent, rather than the tears that flow so easily now.
Remembered always, loved forever
YOUR LOVING FAMILY
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Comments: 29
Thank you for sharing this!
You are truly an example of the Love that a mother has for a son. Keeping the memory alive of those we have lost is our obligation. Linda and I have been told that it's been 2 years and we need to begin to move on. We receive comfort knowing that we are keeping Andy's memory alive. Not only do I know Andy would have wanted us to, as long as we keep them alive....We will never have to let go! As long as we breathe, Andy and Brent will never be forgotten. Each and every one of us have a purpose in this life. Brent not only saved lives, his faith and ministering I am sure was responsible for saving the souls of many. The death of Brent and Andy is a daily reminder that this isn't home, we are just passing thru. I pray for you and your family. I know in my heart that even though God has physically taken them from us, he has left us their spirit which, drives us and comforts us each day until he joins us together again. Brent is with you and he is proud of the undying love and dedication that you have given his memory!
Love and Prayers,
Dana
I consider everyone in the Military fighting for my Country, my hero! He seems like a wonderful man. The memories you have will never fade! I pray for you & his son! =]
My husband and I have witnessed many of our friends coming and going to Iraq and Afghanistan, and it tears at my heart strings every time. My husband is going back to Iraq for the 3rd time this coming January, and while I am sad he is leaving,my pain and suffering will never amount to what you have gone through Pam. I am truly inspired by your strength. You are amazing. You are truly a hero to those of us who fear the loss of our loved ones.
I pray that God gently holds you when you feel the need to let the tears fall.
{{hugs}}
Martina
~ Proud Marine Corps Wife~
My veteran served in Operation Iraqi Freedom.
Gather members Pam. He was a man of God, now with Him, know that
Brent is watching over all of you. You did such a brave thing Pam you
will be blessed I am sure. Thank you for sharing this with us on Gather.
Whether we agree with the reasons for their being where they are, he and I both always wish and always will support every man and woman in uniform.
God bless.