what to do
September 17, 2007 11:32 PM EDT
(Updated: September 17, 2007 11:57 PM EDT)
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Well.. i dated this guy greg for 2 in a half years he was my first love my first real realtionship my first everything to me.. We had a good realtionship till about the last 6 months we fought all the time so we broke up... that next day i went to the dr and found out i was pregnant with his baby.. so i called him and told him and he still wanted to be apart.. a week later he started dating this girl terri.. she worked with him.. but anyways so i needed to get away for awhile so i went down to el paso texas for about 5 months and talked to him about every two weeks to let him know how the pregnacy was going all we did was agrue and agrue.. then i came home and that next day went up there to go to church thought i was over him but then i saw him all those feelings came back.. well then our daughter came along and we got along great for a month or so then the fights started to happen all we ever do is fight fight fight.. and i fight with his girlfriend all the time because for awhile she was keeping him from seeing his little girl... I think its important for the father to be apart of a childs life.. so anyways he wants to be there for her but all we do is fight one day we get along then the next we fight like no other.. I want it to stop i just dont know what to do... of any of you all have any suggestions please give them i be happy to listen to them!!
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Many counselors will try to work out a payment plan that you can afford. I hope so.
Best of luck in an awkward situation.
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But if the man doesn't want to be a part of the child's life. It's going to make it hard for that child as she grows up knowing all her daddy does his argue! If he doesn't show any affection or love for her.. Then take full custody. Chop him out of your life and find that girl a daddy that will love you both with respect you deserve. Talk to the man about it. Be up front with him... Get some one that he finds intimidating to stand with you as you do or he will try and dominate the conversation. Tell him.. You love her and your IN FOREVER... being a daddy and loving your little girl.. Or give her to you and get out of her life forever... Sure, when the girl is older you may have to/want to explain to her what happened.. but she can make an adult decision on her to pursue it after that.. Just my opinion... It's going to be so hard on that little girl if her daddy just one day never comes again (bearing unforeseen incidents in life and nature) when she is older and understands who daddy is...
Jules I agree with the counseling thing... It would be good for you but I also think Terri should be involved in the counseling so all sides of the issue are exposed