I am a new mommy. My daughter Hayden was born 2 weeks and 1 day ago. I decided to breastfeed her only a few weeks before she was born. Originally I was going to formula feed, but then decided to go with breastfeeding instead. I have had a fairly good experience with feeding so far. I find it extremley demanding, but worth it. My daughter latches well and feeds often. I have had to supplement with formula once a day or so because my nipples are cracked and very sore. I have been using the lanoline cream after feedings and also tried the Soothie gel pads as well. Both give some releif. The lactation consultant told me to try baby oragel on my nipples as well to numb them up. Some of my problem was positioning , which is resolved, but Im still sore. I enjoy the bond breastfeeding has created between my child and I. I also think breastfeeding is very beneficial to my daughters health. I want to breastfeed as long as I can , and only supplement when I have to. What if I cant produce enough milk? I will be returning to work in 6-8 weeks as well. I have a pump to try and hope to be able to give her my milk whenever possible. I havent used it yet.
Anyone have tips on how to handle the soreness ?
How long did you breastfeed for?
Also , any tips on pumping and returning to work?
I want to be able to do whats best for my daughter and be sucessful in breastfeeding.


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I also have a book the hospital gave me on breastfeeding and can mail it to you, if you'd like? Just send me your postal address in a message. I would be more than happy to. :)
I was going to breastfeed, but have decided to formula feed instead.
Though, I have a question for you, your daughter looks very similar to my daughter, but only one problem, your daughter has a whiter complexion and my baby has a redder complexion... do you know why this is? Is this typical for a newborn?
With pumping, I believe you are supposed to try to do it just as often as you feed, in order to keep your supply up. If you want to try and up your milk production, you can try pumpming more, but wait until the soreness starts to abate.
I never breastfed, but from what I understand, your body will get used to it, and it should stop causing the soreness and cracked skin.
How old is your daughter?
One other thing...it will save you A TON of money too.
I would also give the occasional bottle now because that will help down the line for introducing juice and water etc.
Actually, I'm still breastfeeding twice a day (once at noon and once before bed). Maddie is 19 months old. I was going to stop at one year, but since the World Health Organization recommends nursing for two years, I decided to keep it up a little more.
It will help you get your pre-baby body back, because it burns a ton of calories.
However, note that you cannot take any diet pills because they will go right to your baby. Also, make sure that your doctor knows you are breastfeeding so that he/she can prescribe whatever meds you might need.
i breast fed my first daughter for about 18 months.she never used a bottle,and went straight to a cup.she weaned herself when i got pregnat again my milk changed.
my second daughter was born 3 months early.i also breast fed.she was to small to nurse so i had to pump for her, they put it in her feeding tube.so with pumping i had great success,alot of mothers could not produce enough milk.they used to make fun of me and call me a cow(in a nice way)the most important part of pumping is to do it often.if you find your supply getting low add a few more sessions to your day.i would bring a pump with me when i would go out,even if i had no where to put the milk just pump and throw it away.remember women can brest feed more than one baby as long as the milk is taken out your body will make more.
for sore nipples they sell nipple shields,i had to use one to help sage latch on.it is a rubber nipple you place over your own nipple.it sounds strange but they work great.helps with soreness and latching on problems.
alot os women seem a little insecure about breast feeding.the best advice i have.trust in yourself.the most important thing is mom and baby are happy,however you have to feed your baby.
Also, go ahead and start pumping some now. The pumping won't make your nipples as sore as she will, and that way you won't lose milk supply. Your body will determine how much milk you make by how much your baby is using (or you are pumping). In the morning is a good time to pump a little extra b/c you have more milk in the mornings and the supply decreases throughout the day.
There is a tea called Mother's Milk that is supposed to help with lactation also.
Good for you for breastfeeding! It is so good for your little one and you!
I did not breast feed one and did the other,, they are both fine and grew up the same except daughter had croup often and hospitalize for it,, son healthy except for ADHD all his life,., and I didnt breast feed him,,, so not sure of health issue the difference or not..
soreness I sugestt evvo or oil for baby tase be ok and smoth for you,,,
I went back to work when Elliott was 5 weeks old. I pumped every 2-3 hours while I was at work so I could keep up my supply. It worked really well for us. If you are overproducing, you can always freeze it. There were times when he was going through a growth spurt, that I would pump 8 oz from each side every 2 hours while I was at work!! That extra came in handy when he decided he was done nursing!
I wasn't so prepared so we've ended up supplementing a lot more formula then we wanted to. my breasts don't produce enough milk to pump and feed now so baby only gets about 6 oz of breast milk a day and the rest is formula (approx 24 oz, she's 3 months) which is a real bummer, but at least she's getting a little bit instead of none at all.
Your sore nipples aren't necessarily the baby's fault - sore nipples come with the first 2-4 weeks after giving birth. Keep using the lanolin after EVERY feed. The soreness will lessen with every feed just a wee bit, and in the next week or so, the soreness will be all gone.
WARNING: Around 2 weeks is your baby's first growth spurt. She'll be nursing a LOT more suddenly. Don't worry, it's normal.
2 more things: 1. Your baby is still learning to nurse. By around 6 weeks, you'll suddenly realize a nursing session is no longer 30 minutes, it'll drop down to 5-10 minutes! Your baby somewhere around 6 weeks (sometimes longer) starts to "get it" and becomes extremely efficient at nursing and will be done before you know it.
2. Pumping isn't that bad. It's not like nursing though! Start pumping once a day now to build up a little stash. Pump about 45 minutes after your first morning feed, when your breasts typically have the most milk. This will get your body used to letting down to the pump. I had to exclusively pump for my son, so if you have any pumping questions, let me know. Also, keep that lanolin handy when you pump! Your breasts are getting used to a baby's mouth, and will have to learn to get used to a pump too. Since you'll be pumping at work, I strongly recommend a hands-free halter/bustier from easy expressions: www.easyexpressions.com. This way, you can continue to work while you're pumping. It'll really help you!
Congratulations on your little one and good luck pumping! As we say on the pumpmoms email list: PPV! Positive Pumping Vibes! (groups.yahoo.com/pumpmoms/)
My grandmother told me to put soaked teabags on my nipples to help them to heal. I raised my eyebrow at that cure, but it did work! She also told me to let my nipples airdry after nursing the baby. Another good tip from my grandma. She was an old pro having nursed her 7 children and wetnursed many other babies as well.
I won't be much help to you with pumping your breasts. I was a stay at home mom and didn't pump too often.