Everybody knows at least ONE.
You know... the couple that is so busy telling everyone how happy they are and trying to prove it that you cannot help but stick a finger down your throat.
Don't get me wrong. I think "new love", "young love", "perfect love".... no, no such thing as the last one... but the newness and "ga-ga" feelings are great. But there's an extent where you just have to realize as a human being that nobody believes you are the most perfect little couple and always just dish out the compliments and smooches and so on.
Sure, you do that in new relationships, you can even do it in "older" ones that are just good... but puuuuhhhhhlease.... quit trying to create your own happiness by hoping we bite with what you're feeding us.... BULL.
You can be happy, you are not 100% blissful and never angry. That is not human. You may not fight in public or you may not even "fight" at all, but you have to disagree, roll your eyes once in a while and out and out wonder "Oh my Lord what an idiot". It's only human.
It's great to share your happiness, it's wonderful to exude a happy atmosphere to your friends and family around you but if you're one of those people that is so busy telling the world how WONDERFUL your relationship is..... perhaps it's time to work on making it even half as wonderful as you are trying to believe it is.
I for one just do not buy the 100% glory and happiness crap. Please be human and proud of it. You don't have to put your "love" down and call each other names. You don't have to announce fights. You don't even have to admit to moments of anger. But don't carry on like a bumbling idiot over how cutsie you are and how perfect. If you really are.... then enjoy it yourselves and let us think you're still human. Because anyone that happy in cohabitation 24/7 is beyond human in my book!
Anyone else agree? You know who they are.... we all know that one couple you'd simply like to slap into reality. Perhaps this will help them take a firm grasp?
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on the other hand, though .... my hubby & I are very happy together... but I think we manage to keep that real as opposed to sickening LOL
Money has to do with a lot of things, for happy couples... and everyone else!
Also, those people that are always right and always have a solution. BITE ME!!
Ok, I think you struck a nerve somewhere in me. Good job!
Actually I'm a very happy person too... but in relationships I'm "real". It's great to be happy but to be oozing... come on!
I worked with a woman that, mind you nobody had ever MET her husband... she always came ALONE to the events, etc but she would go on and on and on how he wanted her to have the best of this and anything she wanted and so on and on.. he always had dinner ready for her... he was so wonderful.... blah, blah, blah. The woman's had 3 heart attacks.. something is stressing her! LOL
Terri, it was just a memory of this one woman I worked with and then I was talking to some woman that was the same way one day at a party and I just wanted to slap her into reality! LOL