That's the question I find myself wondering as I ponder the recent attack ad that slanders Obama for providing sex education to kindergartners.
clickable: New McCain Ad: Obama Favors Sex-Ed For Kindergartners
Fact checking has shown that the Obama legislation referenced was for teaching young children in age appropriate ways about "Stranger Danger" and inappropriate touching from adults.
I'm struggle to understand why the McCain campaign would slander Obama for trying to protect children from pedophiles.
That's some low ball politics.
Where's Karl?
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And whom will give the kid that talk? Parents? We all know that many parents do NOT have this talk with their children, particularly if one of them is the abuser. Their religious leader? Don't get me started on the amount of pedophelia in the churches. Teaching kids about inappropriate touching in kindergarten is a perfect forum for it to be taught in a non-threatening way.
This attack on Obama for wanting nothing more than to protect America's children is nothing shy of an abomination. Any respect I had for him just flew right out the window, and I used to like the man. This attack seals the deal for me. In my eyes, and in the eyes of many undecided voters, this is just too low a blow.
While I don't believe it is necessary to overload any child with information, I also believe that it is wrong to deny any child honest answers to their questions regardless of age or ones discomfort with the subject matter.
That does not mean that one needs to tell a child all the details of human sexuality just because they as "where did I come from" when the answer is "you came from Buffalo New York!" Find what they are really asking and give them honesty.
You would deny all information from kindergartners but I can tell you from personal knowledge, that persons that age have a curiosity about sex and gender and will explore it regardless of what you tell them or refrain from telling them. I started school at six and knew full well where babies came from and just how a girl got pregnant, before I started school. It all came from other kids I knew, some of which were a year or two older and some fo which were just my age.
We all saw animals engaging in sexual behavior and it is ridiculous to think that kindergartners don't recognize that that behavior is reflected in humans as well. When you deny them simple answers, they will learn far more from undesirable sources.
When I asked my father about certain things the answer I received was "That's something you'll learn about when you get older!" I immediately knew it was about sex and he didn't want to talk about it! However, I could always count on friends to have an answer.
I recall when I was approaching my teens and a group of us were discussing sex, one boy, who had been taught by his parents started explaining things in correct terminology. He had the rest of us rolling on the grass in laughter because we'd never actually heard someone telling about it in those terms! We all had the same information, just different terminology.
So for my part, I believe in honest answers at any age. Just limit the details to what the child can understand. And don't underestimate the child's capacity for understanding. Your discomfort is not his or her limitation!
Finally, the media is helping to LEVEL the playing field.
Talk about dirty politics he has no shame in what he will do to be elected president.
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Those who live with their head in the sand, die with a face full of sand. McCain.
They were not damaged by having this info. They're both in their 20's now and have not reproduced or suffered from STD's. They were not damaged learning info that they needed to live safely and in good health.
I don't know if you are serious with the title, or going for sensational. It's a good idea to consider the Republican Party's connections to Bohemian Grove, and consider the question a possibility.
Regarding this: While I don't believe it is necessary to overload any child with information, I also believe that it is wrong to deny any child honest answers to their questions regardless of age or ones discomfort with the subject matter. If we wait until a child ask a question, it is probably too late. How many children would think to ask about sexual predators before having met one?
I WISH the schools didn't have to deal with these topics, but too many parents stick their heads in the sand and avoid having this kind of talk with their own children. It should be the parents' job.
What really angered me was when my son came home in Kindergarten with a worksheet on the "lifecycle of a chicken." Oh, I didn't mind the topic - but if you're going to open up the topic, teach it correctly. Do NOT tell my child that it goes like this: Hen lays egg. Egg hatches to reveal chick. Chick grows up to be a hen. Hen lays egg...
For the love of all that's holy, WHERE is the rooster (the FATHER) in all this?? Either leave it for Fifth Grade Biology, or cover the subject matter accurately. That's all I ask.
McCain is right on this issue. Kindergarten is too young.
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Teachers are not parents. They can warn children about "not talking to strangers," but if they want to get specific about sexual abuse, that is not something a kindergartener is able to understand. I'm sure everyone has different ideas about this topic, but I wrote this before reading any of the comments.
I'll say this much: McCain's ad was no "slander" of Obama, and it wasn't a lie. "Sex Ed" is inappropriate for children in kindergarten, even if it's called "pedophile prevention."
I wonder why that is DON!
McCain is right on this issue. Kindergarten is too young.
You can never reinforce enough the ways and by who children are protected from sexual predators Don. Do you REALLY think that schools shouldn't teach children that adults playing with the private parts is not ok? Does that ruin the ratio for you?
Parents should teach their children these things, not the schools.
Last I knew, that was done by using terms like "private parts" and only explaining to children that adults touching, or trying to touch, or who talked about touching the child's private parts, or talked about the child touching the adult's private parts, that this was so seriously inappropriate that the child should try to get away from that adult and immediately report the behavior to other adults.
Please note that there is nothing sexually explicit in this description.
As for parenting; Yes. The problem is that not all parents teach their children about this; and of course an incestuous parent would not, eh?
So one result of having this taught in schools is that it provides an open door mechanism for children who may be in a sexually abusive situation to be rescued.
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