Oh, I'm on this like white on rice...
What is your idea of perfect happiness?
The downstairs apartment in a house on the Sunset District ten blocks from the ocean and two blocks from the N-Judah subway.
What is your greatest fear?
Dying before I finish everything I want to do.
What historical figure do you most identify with?
CocoChanel.
Which living person do you most admire?
It’s funny, but I admire my son. He’s a funny, personable, smart and genuine person. However, I don’t know if he’s number one, since I admire others just as much, but for different reasons.
What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
Laziness.
What is the trait you most deplore in others?
Dishonesty.
What is your greatest extravagance?
I don’t think I really have one.
What is your favor journey?
Anytime I go to northern California, I’m in heaven.
What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
None are overrated.
On what occasion do you lie?
I don’t, anymore.
What do you dislike about your appearance?
I have a very weird face and my arms and legs are too skinny. And I could lose about 15 pounds.
Which living person do you most despise?
That’s tough. I used to despise Bill Clinton, after the Monica thing. I don’t think I truly despise anyone right now.
Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
I’m an overuser of adverbs. Usually, apparently, generally, mostly, normally. I could just shoot myself.
What is your greatest regret?
I should have bummed a ride to the West Coast after high school instead of getting married and ending up on the other coast.
What or who is the greatest love in your life?
My husband. He is the be all and end all.
When and where were you the happiest?
When my husband and I were first married, I thought we were deliriously happy. Then about twelve years later, we went through some difficult times, and the epiphany right after that was even more happy than the first time.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I would turn myself into a human dynamo and get more stuff done. I’m a bit lackadaisical.
What do you consider your greatest achievement?
My two children.
If you could choose what to come back as, what would it be?
A butterfly, or maybe a firefly.
What is your most treasured possession?
My mother’s pearl necklace.
What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
Ignorance and hatred are definitely down there.
Where would you like to live?
San Francisco.
What is your favorite occupation?
I love anything having to do with the arts, including music, fine arts, even what I do on the computer (graphic design).
What is your most marked characteristic?
I am loud! For a small person, I’m very loud!
What is the quality you most like in a man?
Honesty and loyalty.
What is the quality you most like in a woman?
Honesty and loyalty.
What do you most value in your friends?
Honesty and loyalty.
Who are your favorite writers?
Anais Nin, Khalil Gibran. I can go back to those books forever, and I have.
Who is your favorite hero of fiction?
It’s not Harry Potter!
What is it that you most dislike?
I can’t stand people who are narrow-minded to the point of excluding the ideas of others. You don’t have to agree with me, but it would be courteous if you at least listened.
How would you like to die?
In my sleep.
What is your motto?
Live free or die.


Comments: 19
Love this one: "I can't stand people who are narrow-minded to the point of excluding the ideas of others. You don't have to agree with me, but it would be courteous if you at least listened."
We have the same greatest fear.
And Kris, I haven't been a Size 2 since before children. I would post a photo of my spare tire, but that would be gross.
BTW, I don't think I was ever size two since the age of two. Wait, I did manage to get to a size three when I was in high school. I looked horrible too! Gross hair and pale white skin with dark circles under my sixteen year old eyes.
Funny thing to, I only know you from the Internet, but I could tell that you are a small loud person.