A little girl and her father were crossing a flimsy bridge. The father was scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."
The little girl said,"No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
Moral of this story.
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind , nor age, caste, nor creed, but its in bond. Why do you have tremondous belief in urself?
We try to safe guard ourself so much, by suspecting others,a feeling that we are surrounded only by people who are waiting to let us down,attack us,the same way, they maybe feeling about us too right,wheather he/she is realiable or worthy?Before pointing out anyone , notice the rest three fingers are pointing out at you.
To certain extent precaution is needed for women,but there are many good ones around us.
For instance when Tsunami, took place in Chennai(India), A man told to his wife and children "Government is not taking immediate steps to rescue the affected ones ,nor disposing the dead bodies,so I am going to help the needy,dont know weather I will return back alive,"
This man helped along with others , and he was honoured later,interviewed by T.V channels.So we dont know who, will help us in times of need and distress.
Only good soul helps or reacts, those who just can't see people suffering,whose heart cries and pains for others.
If you have belief,he/she wont betray you,hold the hand of the person whom you love rather,expecting them to hold yours......but observe properly, take your own time to search the right one.
When your heart says yes I can rely or cant live without him/her then hold firmly ,and let him/her read it in your eyes,and feel it.
A language of love is such, it cannot be bought,its a silent language which is understood by any human........


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