One thing no one ever warned me about Gather is that it’s addictive. As soon as I returned from my book tour, I plunked my heavy suitcase in the hallway, and kissed my kids and my dogs and my squirming cats. Then I fired up the computer to see what I’d missed while I was away. Nine days without internet, and I was practically twitching.The first thing I saw was that Borders’ was having an essay contest about the impact a teacher had on your life. Great topic! Even before I unpacked, I had to read a few entries. They were good, too--so good I immediately forwarded them to my daughter, who is in college studying to become a teacher herself.
See, you can change the world! I wrote in the subject line. And it’s true: teachers can and do change the world in the most powerful and important way possible: one heart and mind at a time.
The topic had a particular resonance for me. At various public appearances on my tour, I'd told the story of a teacher who gave me two of the greatest gifts a child can receive: insight into my dreams and confidence that I could make them come true.
I was in the fourth grade when Miss Auger, who always insisted we give her name the proper French pronunciation, caught me furtively scribbling stories during math class. But instead of punishing me, she instructed me to write them out in my best penmanship. Then she matted them in my favorite color (red!) and hung them in the art room among the vibrant paintings and collages made by my creative classmates. There was an open house coming up, and she wanted me to know that writing was an art, too!
My mother still remembers how proud she was when the parents toured the art room and Miss Auger pointed out my stories. “I have a real writer in my class this year,” she beamed. “I wouldn’t be surprised if someday she grew up and wrote a book.”
At age nine, I’d never known anyone who had written a book or called herself a writer. But with her words, this perceptive teacher incited a dream that flamed so bright and so long it almost had to come true.
Unfortunately, Miss Auger never lived to see her prediction realized. But teaching isn’t about looking for a return. It’s about giving freely and unreservedly; it’s about planting tiny seeds that may produce a field of bright red poppies years later. I like to think that Miss Auger found her satisfaction in my parents’ pride, and in the glow I undoubtedly had that night.
Though it’s been a long time since I was in a classroom, I still encounter teachers everywhere I go. In nine days of traveling around the country, I met fellow bloggers and Gather members, who went out of their way to make me feel welcome in their cities. They taught me lessons about hospitality, kindness and generosity that will be with me for the rest of my life.
I met passionate readers and booksellers who taught me that the hunger for the written word is alive and well, and that stories can and do change lives.
I met writers who had published many books and were eager to to share the wisdom of their experience, and others who were unpublished, but full of inspiring hope and determination. All of them were teachers.
And I met myself doing things I never knew I could do before. A shy, public speaking phobic, talking to groups both large and small--and actually enjoying it? Who could have guessed? Perhaps, in the end, that is the greatest lesson from the road. It's also the same one Miss Auger taught me all those years ago: Step out from behind the shadows your fears cast. You can do things you never imagined.
Patry Francis, Books Correspondent:
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Comments: 47
Ron, Sherry: Thanks for the welcome. As they say, one of the best part of traveling is that it makes you cherish coming home.
I had to chuckle at your addiction; Gather is in my home so much one of us should be charging the other rent.
I know what you mean by the addicting nature of Gather. I will be out for the next few days and the thought uppermost in my mind is..' Lord! So many days without Gather? How am I going to manage?' LOL..!!
Good luck with your work, and hopefully we meet at Oprah's.
I know what you mean about Gather being addictive. I came here thinking it would be a nice place to find writers and readers to share the love of writing with. But Gather has sucked me in!
Glad your tour was a success. And I hope you make it to the Baltimore-DC area soon.
I look forward to reading your book!
We are also blessedly blessed ... and addicted ... to Gather. My first book tour reading was to Boston at the Harvard Coop. The Gatherers from Boston, staff as well as members, turned out in full force to fill the audience and my heart. Gather also invited me to be a featured author aboard their First Anniversary Cruise: Book it to Bermuda. My Gather site has load of information on these events.
Congratulations on the publication of your book, Patry. I shall zip over to check it out now. Should you be similarly interested in mine, The Scent of God Meanwhile, I'm delighted to have met you. Best of luck, peace, and joy to your inmost heart Patry.
Marianne: I'm happy to be in your company too. Another bookworm--woo hoo!
Dawn: Love your comment about charging rent. Thanks for my first laugh-out-loud of the day.
Minnie: Jane Austen is one author I can read over and over again. Now you have me intrigued...
Hajo: You're right! With Amazon, I sometimes wonder why foreign rights are sold at all--except for the translations. People have managed to get hold of my book all over the Globe. Good luck with your writing!
Bonnie S. and Donna: Thank you for the warm welcome home.
kathleen: Thanks for buying the book! I'm so happy to hear you're enjoying it...
Deven: What a kind thing to say. Thank you.
Kim: You described it perfectly. Traveling is wonderful, but you know you're happy in your life when the sweetest sight of all is your own front door.
Eric: Definitely looking forward to Baltimore--where I have a lot of family.
Beryl: I have been following your journey on Gather for a while, and you are a true inspiration. I hope we get a chance to meet! Meanwhile, I'm looking forward to The Scent of God.
Wilma: Thank you, and I hope to read more of your work as well!
Rob: At least, I kissed the people and the animals BEFORE I rushed in to check my virtual connections. I know what you mean though. Lately, I've been writing on my husband's computer so I won't be distracted by the little ding that signals I've got an email message.
My most influential teacher was a formidable woman by the name of Katherine Mamie Donahue from Philly.....and I'm talking of a loooooong time ago - she was a Methodist Missionary teacher in an American Methodist school in Cuba. I will never forget her.
Patry, my copy of your book arrived a few days ago and I'm starting to read it today. I needed to finish three books I had from the library before I started yours. Can't wait to finish all I need to do today to start on it!
Thanks so much for buying the book! I can't wait to hear your reaction.
Ciao Attila
Attila: I was mostly in Seattle, Portland and San Francisco. Beautiful places all.
elizabeth: I wonder if we all have our Mrs. Walker, and part of our jobs as students is to recognize her or him.
Tonia: Thank you for such a lovely comment. I love your name, too. Makes me think of all the beautiful trees there are to hug on the West coast!
Lydia: What I'm really hoping is that someday it WILL be all of you! Thank you--
Hope to see you Saturday. (today.)
Well said, but that is also what life should be about. It is what work and parenting should be about. It is ultimately what writing should be about.
We should do our best and love the doing of it. Acknowledgement is great, but the rewards should be found in the work itself.
Greg: I love the way you opened this up with your comment, and I absolutely agree. It's all about the giving.
how exciting for you and glad you became comfortable with public speaking...this is an enjoyable article and brought back memories of my own past inspiring teachers...
Tho' i mentioned previously that i would love to get a signed 1st edition of your novel, i am finding it difficult to wait and may just grab a copy at Border's tonight...
take care.....regards,gayle in WA state
Darcey D.
look forward to reading more of your writing.
Each player of this game starts with the 6 weird things about him/herself. People who get tagged need to write a blog of their own 6 weird things as well as state the rules clearly. In the end, you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don't forget to leave a comment that says you are tagged in their comments and tell them to read your blog.
Just a thought but a good lap top for your next outing may help as most hotels have internet connections.
Patry the feelings that went into the story of the teacher and the fire that she most have kindled within you was truly touching. The lessons learned by yourself are truly inspiring.
Thank you for the posting!