Sandy Knauer's article about people we have seen in concert made me think of a few famous people I have met and what they were like. Mine are not all that famous - after all I live in Massachusetts not Los Angeles - but they made an impression that stayed with me.
Kitty Dukakis - wife of the former Governor of Massachusetts. Kitty was gracious and lovely. I actually met her twice. She dresses very fashionably in conservative clothes. She and I had a mutual friend whom I hadn't seen in years and Kitty updated me on my friend's life.
Wendy Wasserstein - Pulitzer prize-winning playwright (The Heidi Chronicles). I hesitate to
write anything negative about Wendy because she has passed away but I have to tell the truth. She was rude and very unwilling to sign her book, Bachelor Girls, which I had just purchased. She did finally sign it and even her signature looks annoyed. Wendy was very ordinary looking - chubby with lots of curly dark hair.
Helen Gurley Brown - former editor of Cosmopolitan magazine. Helen was the tiniest thinnest person I have ever seen. She was the Sex and the City girl for the 1970's. Her magazine told young women what to wear, how to behave with men, and most of all, how to be sexy.
She was very old but beautifully made up, especially her eye makeup. I know she didn't do it hereself. She had on a tiny little suit and was gracious but not quite with it.
I have met many famous authors because I attend book events. My story about Dennis Lehane (wrote Mystic River
) is an article for Gather for another day. It was very embarrassing.
I know there have been others. Because of my age, many of the people I have actually met in person are older. Whom have you met in person? What were they like? How did they dress? Inquiring minds want to know.


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Clare, we meant that author who smoked, and you told him to quit smoking, then he later dies of lung cancer... who was that?
Robert Parker, whose Spenser books I love....
Off hand, I can't remember any others. Gee, I'm pretty dull.
I met michael jackson when he was really young. "You know" when he looked like michael jackson. when he was cute.
... during the filming of Gettysburg, I met Ted Turner, Martin Sheen, Jeff Daniels, George Lazenby (who played James Bond once) and the late Richard Jordan...
... during the filming of 'Violets are Blue' in Ocean City, Maryland, I met Sissy Spacek and Kevin Kline...
... Roger Penske and IRL racing greats Danny Sullivan, Rick Mears, Bobby Rahal, Mario Andretti and Michael Andretti...
... Volleyball players Sinjin Smith, Scott Acytuby and Randy Stoklos in a tournament I also participated in...
... quarterbacks Kerry Collins (local boy made good interview) and Phil Simms, coach Jeff Fisher...
... finally, through my grandfather, who was a tailor for the Phillies and Eagles, I met most of the World Series winning Phils (Steve Carlton, Greg Lusinski, Tug McGraw, Mike Schmidt, etc.) as well as Ron Jaworski, Randall Cunningham, Dick Vermeil and Vince Papale (who recently had a movie made about his story, 'Invincible').
The only famous author I ever met is John Updike. The BBC filmed a documentary in the area around his hometown in PA (upon which the 'Rabbit' books were based) and the interviews were conducted in our studios.
The longest amount of time I spent with anyone famous was with the late Peter Boyle (of Young Frankenstein and Everybody Loves Raymond fame) stuck waiting for a plane at the Philadelphia airport. He had to be one of the most 'down to earth' famous people I ever met. The man had a natural sense of humor. He definitely left us way too soon.
well you have to go back over to the long list I left for performers and then think about them
Pavoratti--absolute egotistic bastard
Elisabeth Schwarzkopf-- very nasty vicious woman
Mirella Freni-- rude and condescending and not exactly pleasant
Andre Watts-- America's sweetheart at the piano, charming and intelligent
Joseph Levine, erstwhile conductor of the American Ballet-- hilarious, funny, intelligent, charming and witty
the unforgettable Duke Ellington-- indefatiguable, wise, funny, serious and warm-hearrted
Rufus Jones, saxist for the Duke-- kind, friendly, chatty and intelligent
Lucia Popp-sweet, shy and bubbly
Leonie Rysanek-- shy, evasive, honest and very friendly when finally caught
Ileana Cortrubas-- shy, modest and sweet
Getrude Jahn-- warm, friendly, down-to0earth and honely
Mara Zampieri-- friendly but seemed scatterbrained and very, very superstitious about signing music. self-effacing.
Miroslav Sekera-- almost famous, hilarious
Tom Selleck-- at the time, reclusive, but one heck of a volleyball player
Shirley Temple Black, Ambassador-- friendly and formal
I also met Dave Winfield of the NY Yankees at a book signing, very nice gentleman.
I saw Craig Nettles (also of the Yankees) at a Burger King in NJ. He was there with his family. I quietly went up to him and said hi to him, and shook his hand. He complimented my mother on my manners.
Babe Ruth used to go to the restaurant on the Grand Concourse that my step-grandparents owned. Elston Howard, in the off season, was the Armor Hot Dog delivery and salesman for my dad in Food Fair. Moose Skowron and Eddie Lopat shopped in the grocery store my mom worked for. (They all lived in New Jersey.)
I am so jealous of my mother though. Edward "Yogi" Berra was her usher at church. He used to participate in the Childrens' Mass.
Last year, I wa at lunch with a very well known Monsignor who is my good friend. We were with several other friends when he said to them that "Dale has met everyone ....including God!" Not thinking, my quick response was "No I haven't , except when I look in your eyes.". Well the group all laughed and he was embarassed. I was sorry for that. But truth be told, he is the most humble and caring person I've ever met and that is the way it is when anyone looks in his eyes.
Steve Perry from the band Journey..he graduated years before me, from my high school and his mother still lived in town so he was seen often driving about in his blue sports car, we ran into him at a downtown eatery one weekend...he was friendly enough.
Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer during filming of Top Gun, my husband's squadron was assigned to the Enterprise during filming and a few of us had the privelage of meeting these two. I didn't care for Cruise and found Kilmer absolutely adorable as well as funny.
Sammy Hagar...quite friendly and warm, not at all what I expected.
Ray Davies and the rest of The Kinks. Ray invited my sisters and I out. Perfect gentleman, lovely person.
Bob Novak. Spent a few hours with him at the studio my husband works at. He was doing remote broadcasts of his CNN shows and I assisted. Between shows he wanted to know about our family and talked about his own. Very nice man. Philosophical.
John Michael Talbot, Christian (Catholic) musician and monk, a few times; also interviewed him. Personable, shy, radical, quiet, intense; passionate for the poor of the world.
www.johnmichaeltalbot.com
As I recall, Steve Perry's mother was very ill and he was caring for her?
I have met Donny many times and he is a true gentleman as are all the brothers.
I have also met William Roach, Lenny Henry, Michael Barrymore and Tony Prince
Great post
-George Abbott (Broadway producer) My dad built him a home at Merriewold, and he always had tickets for them to attend his shows. I remember sitting on his lap and singing kids songs for him...circa 1956...I was six.
-Dick Martin (of Rowan & Martin's Laugh In) Served him dinner at a country club where I was a waitress.
-Diane Arbus (photographer) She took my photo in 1963 in South Jersey. The photo last sold at Sotheby's for over $138,000. Look for the whole story in my Gather pages.
-Burl Ives (singer/teller of tales) At a convention in South Jersey.
-Anne Rice (author) We met her walking her dogs on the street in the Garden district of New Orleans where she formerly lived.
-John Edmund Gardner (spy/thriller author)
-John Fulton, (American matador and artist).
-Wolfman Jack (you don't know who the Wolfman was????!!! For shame...)
-Mercedes Lackey (fantasy author)(met through a mutual friend)
-Larry Dixon (fantasy artist/falconer & husband of Mercedes Lackey)
-Poul & Karen Anderson (SF/fantasy authors) We knew them in the Kingdom of the West of the Society for Creative Anachronism (SCA).
-Marion Zimmer Bradley (SF/Fantasy author)(SCA)
-Paul Zimmer (Marion's brother and another author) He kissed my hand on at least one occasion while we were at a medieval event.
-Diana Paxton (Fantasy author) (SCA)
-Dana Kramer-Rolls (Fantasy/Star Trek author) (SCA) We used to go to her house for gatherings a couple of times a month when we lived in the San Francisco Bay area, and she and her husband, Bill, came to ours. Fun, fun people!
-Sally Stanford (famous San Francisco madame and later, Mayor of Sausalito, CA. - author of autobiographical Lady of the House.)
-Vonda N. McIntyre, (SF author) An occasional correspondent - we met on CompuServe.
-Richard Bach, (author and damn fine pilot) through a continuing correspondence.
-Margot Adler (author and correspondent for National Public Radio)
-Diana Gabaldon (author) We first met on CompuServe's Literary Forum almost 20 years ago, when she was uploading chapters of her unpublished first book, Outlander, and asking for critiques. She did rather well with the Outlander series. ;-)
-Loreena Carver (owner and producer of the famous High Diving Horses on the Steel Pier in Atlantic City) I introduced myself to her and asked to be considered to be one of the girls who rode the horses 40 feet into the water. I was too young at sixteen.
OMG...almost forgot
-James and Josh Brolin (Josh was a little kid of 11 or 12) They had a place with their horses above Magalia, California when I was production editor of The Ridge Gazette, a newspaper in Paradise, California. James Brolin was a friend of my boss and always stopped in to chat with her when he was in town. Josh is a total hunk these days.
-Liberace's brother, George. Another friend of my boss at the paper. He was very nice...sat and chatted amiably with me one afternoon while waiting for Fern to get back from covering a story. He was also a violinist and often played with his brother.
-Janis Joplin at a used clothing store in the East Village in NYC in the sixties.
and...
-Grace Slick - we literally bumped into each other at a Safeway Market in San Rafael, California in 1979.
-Arlo Guthrie - I dropped a bar of Pear's soap on his foot when I was helping him buy soap at the Court Pharmacy where I worked in Mays Landing, NJ. He was in town for the Atlantic City Pop Festival a few weeks before the first Woodstock concert. He was sooo cute, and laughed when I got him with the soap!
That's all I can think of at the moment...there are probably more...I've led a charmed life, I can tell ya!
I met Hillary Rodham Clinton. My husbands former boss went to high school with her and she came to visit him when we lived in Florida.
I met Bob Seger he used to play small bars under assumed names in various parts of Michigan....one night my cousins and I went to a bar and he was there. He was very nice and down to earth not to meantion a great singer.
Hillary was nice too kind of aloof but nice enough.
Type O Negative (band) Met these guys a couple times and they are very nice. Got photos autographs you know the basic.
Jackyl (band) They were nice guys and I had my photo with the singer printed in a magazine called Metal Maniacs (yes, it's an old issue, though, lol)
Anne Rice (author) She was wonderful. I met her 11 years ago this August and I still remember her smile. I'll never forget that day.
Rob Zombie (and most of his band) He was a really nice, cool, warm guy.
China (of band Sinistarr) He seemed nice enough.
Toni LP Kelner (cozy mystery author) she's a wonderful woman all around.
Sandy