Recently someone asked me this question and quite frankly I'm not sure how to answer it. Why was anyone born where they were born? Of course, it's where your mother happened to live or the location of the nearest hospital. I will try my best to answer that question:
In the mid-forties, my father who was an adventurous spirit, received an offer to work down in Venezuela. He owned, at that time, the Midway Garage outside of Tomahawk, Wisconsin. He was also a hunting and fishing guide and owned a number of tourist cabins. He was a tall, handsome man and was just getting a divorce from his first wife of 25 years. I'll call her Aunt Sylvia. My father, E.H. Titus, was involved in the Pancho Villa conflict of 1914. He was Stable Sergeant for Battery C at Camp Cody, New Mexico. There he learned to speak Spanish. As the years went by, my father and Aunt Sylvia ventured down to New Mexico to pan for gold. In 1938, my father leased Little King gold mine outside of Hillsboro, New Mexico. It was quite an operation - yielding four ounces per ton.
Because he could speak Spanish, my father was offered a job working for Mene Grande Oil Company, which later became Phillips Petroleum. This was in 1945. He flew down and became a supervisor climbing platforms, trying to troubleshoot problems and trying to adjust to a totally different culture. My dad was staying in a hotel near el Rio Neveri but he'd walk by The Hotel Neveri which was owned by my mother's family. One evening, he saw my mother sitting on her patio surrounded by parrots and lush flowers. He fell in love. Somehow he managed to court my mother while sitting between her two sisters. They were married three months later and honeymooned at Margarita Island.
My brother was the first born in 1947. He was born on July 4th in El Tigre where my parents lived in a modern house in the oil camp. There was a big barbeque the day my mother went into labor. All the Americans were celebrating Independence Day. I don't know how she managed but my brother was born at home delivered by a slightly inibriated doctor. She decided her next child would be born in the hospital. In the first week of May, 1949, my dad took mama to Barcelona to stay at the family hotel. I was supposed to be born sometimes around the 20th of the month. My mother was so happy to be back in the city, away from the jungles and looked forward to three weeks of civilization. She was at a movie theatre on the evening of Sunday, May 8th when she felt that she should get to a hospital. She was driven to Guzman-Lander clinic and I was born at 6:30 on a lovely Monday morning.
She knew that my dad's contract would soon be over and he'd go back to the United States. In October, 1949, the four of us flew back to America on Pan American airlines. The rest is another story! So, that is why I was born in Venezulea. Thank you for reading this and I'd love to know Why You Were Born Where You Were Born? Salud.


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However, the real facts are a little more sinister. I was born six months after Australia entered World War 2, and there was talk that Australia would be invaded by the Japanese.
At that point, Japan was still not at war; Pearl Harbor occurred nine months after my birth, but Australia was quite panic-stricken by the thought that it could be invaded at any point. Given that, as well as the fact that many hospitals in the Sydney area were quite busy with injured Austalian servicemen returning from battles in the Middle East [my father trained in Palestine, and was in Greece when the Germans invaded] my grandmother, who ruled our family, decided that she wanted the best care for her first grandchild, and insisted that my mother go to Leura to a tiny little hospital [which has since burnt down] to bring me into the world.
And that is why I was born in Leura, NSW.
It turns out my mother had become pregnant with me and was from a very strong Catholic family dominated by her mother. My mother became engaged to a man (not my father) who was in the service at the time and stationed in Great Falls, Montana. Her future husband and her mother both insisted that I be given up for adoption. So they drove 40 miles up the road to a small Catholic hospital where I was born.
My adoptive parents had been hoping for a child for several years. The local doctor called them and said I was "available" and they zoomed into town from their wheat farm and agreed to adopt me! They were able to pick me up at about 3 days of age and walked around their small town showing off their new baby to everyone they encountered. I was always told that my middle name was Mary as I was a "foundling" in a Catholic hospital. I wonder now if my birth grandmother had asked to have me named Mary as my birth mother apparently always referred to me as "Baby Maryanne."
My own birth story is more boring. I was born in Melborne, Florida because my mother is a native Floridian and my father came there to work at Cape Kennedy in the hey-day of the space industry.
My Mom's mother married my Dad's father on Mom's 18th birthday, as WW2 was underway. Once Mom and Dad actually had some time to themselves ; ) my sister was born, along wiht ALL the other early baby-boomers in 1947. Mom tells of laboring in the hallway of the hospital on a gurney with her legs tied together to delay the birth, as they were so short-handed.
Mom and Dad wanted more kids, so, she got pregnant again - and again and again...with no success. At least one miscarriage every year until I was born 8 years later! Talk about being a wanted child!
I found my birth announcement and a note that Mom had sent to her favorite Aunt - said that Mom and her doctor were very pleased that she had controlled her weight during pregnancy, due to the use of a couple "diet drugs", so common at that time. She also took some big doses of DES to avoid miscarriage (yuk....still keeping tabs during my PAP smears on that count!) Ready for this...? I was born 8 1/2 pounds....my mom gained a total of 10 1/2 pounds.
Where I was born is somewhat insignificant compared to how I ever got born in the first place! Before the pregnancy that produced me, my folks finally decided to build a house in a suburb of Chicago - Glenview. They built a nice 2-bedroom home that my Dad designed. Then, the stork brought ME - and my 8-yr-old sister no longer had a room to herself! We moved to a bigger place in the deep woods in Deerfield when I was 5 - a GREAT place to be a kid and wander in the forests.
Wow - this got long... but you did ask = ) Blessings!
Miz Debbie, yes, I feel that if a question is asked as Miz Vicky asked Why Was I Born in Venezuela and in the middle of the night, I awake and say - hummm, that's a weird thing to ask but maybe it deserves a decent answer - anything I write is usually off the top of my head as you can see...and I'm loving all these replies. More later - Thank you Miz Debbie for your always thankful comments! Salud.
A dramatic story of early beginnings far far away. From your pose on your father's knee it looks as if you're about to undertake brave adventures of your own. We know now that you did and can look forward to read more stories of that exciting journey!
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
Colonel, oh yes, everyone's had an adventurous life - it's all in the telling & yes the doing...
I think now just walking outside and sniffing the moon is an adventure! Thank yall Salud.
Miz Vicky - this is a great story! I love it - you see it's not the subject, it's how well the subject matter is told! Excellent telling - thanks so much! Salud.
Peter - this is an amazing history! I am amazed and really thrilled by some of these comments! Thank yall! SAlud.
I was born in the south of Germany at the end of the 2nd World War. My mum met my father in the refugee camp where he had fled to from the Ukraine. I cannot remember him, because they split up and the marriage was annulled when I was 2 years old. My mum moved back to her hometown in the north where I grew up.
Thank you for sharing, Mariana.
Miz Marianne - thank you so much for this insite into your life - I find all these comments totally amazing. My life has been dull in comparison! SAlud.
Well, The apple hasn't fallen far form the tree, has it?
(It would be a fab book!)
funny question and fascinating answer!
This just came up on my feed, Sistah, how interesting! What a fascinating story. I love the mental picture of your mom surrounded by parrots and flowers and dad falling in love. How romantic!