by Carol P.
Member since:
April 26, 2007

A Few Words to My Son

June 11, 2007 03:34 PM EDT
views: 64 | rating: 10/10 (16 votes) | comments: 28
My precious Dustin,
Words cannot even begin to express how much you are missed.
Your smile, your laugh, your presence is missed SO much.
Not a minute goes by that your not in my thoughts.
What I wouldn't give to have you back in my arms.
You'll always be my everything and I know when the time comes we'll be together again.
I miss you and love you more than you will ever know.
Mom
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Comments: 28

Kristen (wishing I was in Austin) T. Jun 11, 2007, 3:36pm EDT
That is very poignant and touching Carol. I'm sorry for your loss of a child. That is something that NO mother should ever have to go through. Blessings upon you and your family.

Side note: My son's name is Dustyn. :)
Dawn M Jun 11, 2007, 3:37pm EDT
:(

My heart goes out to you...
Anita R. Jun 11, 2007, 3:38pm EDT
I offer my prayers and condolences - this is something a mother should not have to endure. Please know that you are tenderly supported in your loss.
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 3:42pm EDT
Thank you all for your kind words.

Maybe I can be a reminder to everyone to hug your family and friends and tell them I love you. You just never know when it will be the last.

My intentions are not to bring everyone down, I am trying to get awareness out to all because I know how bad life can be. We need to enjoy what and who we have, as it was intended.
Trudy P. Jun 11, 2007, 3:43pm EDT
Carol, Dustin would be so proud of you! You are writing down your thoughts (very beautifully I may add) and taking photographs of beautiful things around you. You are starting to enjoy your life again. It's hard, last night I was watching a TV preacher that reminded me of my Dustin and I felt very lonesome for him, so much in fact I could hardly stand it. As you know those feelings will come and go, but they will never stop! I think being here on Gather is very theraputic at least for me. I am glad I introduced you to the Gather community and I am very glad you are here with me!
It's Not Me w. Jun 11, 2007, 3:49pm EDT
Carol, Dustin is still with you in many ways. Your letter to him gave me goosebumps and brought tears to my eyes. Words just cannot express what I want to say to you. I am so very sorry for the loss of your son!
William M. Jun 11, 2007, 3:49pm EDT
Beautiful thoughts.
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 3:50pm EDT
Trudy, You are the best. Thank you so much for your continued support and most of all for your friendship.

I am really enjoying Gather and am meeting some wonderful people. It really is therapeutic. I haven't thought about it like that. Thanks for referring me! :)
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 3:51pm EDT
Thank you Carolanne and William. I hope I can touch someone by pouring out my heart and emotions.
Judith W. Jun 11, 2007, 3:53pm EDT
Yes, goosebumps and tears for me too. I 'm so sorry for your loss, so terrible for a mother to lose a child!
Ana L. Jun 11, 2007, 4:00pm EDT
Very touching. I can not imagine the pain you must be going through. Have you read the book "He Gives and He Takes Away" ? It is a touching story of a family who lost a child as well. You can find it at Amazon.com . I have never been through such an experience but I know people who have been and this book was a real encouragement to them.
Shannon W Jun 11, 2007, 4:01pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't find the words that I want to say right now but what you wrote was very heartfelt.
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 4:04pm EDT
Thank you all again for your support. It means the world for you to take the time to read my thoughts.

Ana, I have not read that book but will check it out. I read whatever I can to help get me through.

Shannon, You already found the words. You just posted them! :-) ((Hugs))
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 4:08pm EDT
Thank you my friend Phyllis. He was my life.
Robert S. Jun 11, 2007, 4:23pm EDT
My heart goes out you and your family Carol.
Anita R. Jun 11, 2007, 4:31pm EDT
Carol, you already know Dustin is with you every day... you should feel him smiling today, with this wonderful tribute to his mom.
Carol P. Jun 11, 2007, 4:37pm EDT
Thank you Robert and Anita. I do know he's with me but, to say the least, it's just not enough. I know it's all I have and I am trying to make the best out of the cards that have been dealt.
Nana to Seven Cutiepies Jun 11, 2007, 6:22pm EDT
Beautiful tribute to your son. I hope someday part of the void in your heart will be filled.
Leah Christensen Jun 11, 2007, 6:55pm EDT
Very moving.
Barbra L. Jun 11, 2007, 8:03pm EDT
This is very touching, Carol! Very touching!!!
Janet "Jax" B. Jun 11, 2007, 9:17pm EDT
Very touching and very sad.
Jessie W. Jun 11, 2007, 10:51pm EDT
Carol, thanks for posting this on Gather. Sometimes, we miss those who have left us behind and it's important for all to know that it's okay to not just "get over it" like some people think you should. Sosaia, my grandson whose birth I was present at and who only lived for about 20 minutes is still so much a part of my life. It's hard for people to understand that because they didn't see him or hold him. But when I start feeling sad, seeing articles like this and knowing that there are people who truly understand what it's like when your future is lost, and you have to find it again...well, that makes all the difference in the world. I'm so sorry for you separation from Dustin, but so glad that we have made a connection!
Carol P. Jun 12, 2007, 12:03am EDT
Thank you all so much for your thoughtful words.

Jessie, I am honored to have a connection with you.

I hope I can make a difference in someone's life. If I can, maybe some sense can be made of this tragedy.
Sheila Deeth Jun 12, 2007, 6:25pm EDT
Thank you Carol. I hope I won't be in your position, and I thank for making me appreciate what I have all the more.
Carol P. Jun 12, 2007, 6:29pm EDT
You are very welcome Sheila. I do appreciate your support.
Teresa L. Jun 13, 2007, 8:39pm EDT
Carol, may you be blessed with peace and comfort.

Your words to your son are beautiful.... your love for him shines.

Gather, I have found, is a safe and supportive place to share your thoughts... your grief.... the wonderful memories.
Carol P. Jun 14, 2007, 12:03am EDT
Thank you Teresa. I am also having great experiences (support) with others on Gather.

It means so much to read the words that my son's love shines...it truly does in my life and it's great others notice as well.
Deborah R. Nov 7, 2008, 1:27pm EST
May God be with you. pay it forward.

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