On Tuesday, President Obama addressed students across the nation. He admonished them stay in school, to work hard, and overcome any adversity to gain an education. This is important not only on a personal level, but a national level. Our country has fallen woefully behind other countries in education and the dropout rate is unacceptable.
In spite of the generic content of the speech, usually given every year by every principal in every school, conservatives were up in arms about President Obama brainwashing their children (as if they aren’t doing a bang-up job of that themselves) and kept children at home. That’s a good example. If you don’t like what is being taught, you don’t have to go to school. Obviously these parents haven’t observed kids closely or they would know they have the attention span of a gnat, and although they may have been sitting quietly, that doesn’t mean they were paying attention. They probably only actually listened to a small part of the speech.
And if they have such distain for public schools, why not send their kids to private school? Oh, they can’t afford private school? Exactly.
On Wednesday, President Obama addressed the joint houses of Congress about health care. We all know how that turned out. President Obama was forceful, as well as graceful, under fire. He took back the reins on health care reform and said the time for games, and lies, had come to an end.
The GOP on the other hand booed, heckled, text, waved signs and acted like juvenal delinquents. It was embarrassing to see this behavior and total lack of decorum from elected officials as the whole world watched. These so-called adults could learn something from school kids who at least listened quietly and politely.
While President Obama stated that immigrants would not receive medical coverage, Rep. Joe Wilson (R-SC) yelled, “You lie!”
Besides the fact that he is white man from a southern state screaming at the first black president, that it is unconscionably rude and obnoxious, against all rules of decorum in the halls of Congress, what part of “no” doesn’t he understand?
His apology was lame at best, apologizing only for his behavior, not for what he said, and that he was wrong.
Ironically, while all this was playing out, I was caught up in the circus of being sick without health care.
First let me explain, why, for the first time in my life, I have no health insurance. Eighteen months ago I fell at work. As a result of no mat where there should have been one, I slipped on water, falling straight down on both knees, actually breaking one kneecap. Both knees required surgery and countless hours of physical therapy. I was not allowed to work, and my company health insurance was dropped after six months. I could not afford Cobra, which is over-priced and over-rated, and with not much coming from workman’s comp, I hunkered down into survival mode.
I am in a Catch 22. I can no longer get health insurance from the company, but neither can I get a different job, to get insurance, until my case is settled. The doctor has given me the green light to go back to work, but the company says “no”; too many restrictions, too great a chance of further injury to the knees. I do not qualify for disability, which is in itself is a random decision, nor am I old enough yet for Medicare. Where does that leave me? A 60 year old, single woman, fallen through the cracks.
This was all fine until this week – when I got sick. After being doubled over with pain, headaches and nausea for two days, I relented and forked over cash to see my doctor, hoping for a quick diagnosis and a prescription. No such luck. She wasn’t convinced it was the food I had eaten at the Mission Fiesta (it seemed like a good idea at the time) and felt it was something more serious requiring, of course, lab work and an ultrasound. No cash for that. She sent me to the LA County-USC Hospital Emergency room.
I lasted through 8 hours, 2 evaluations and 2 Motrin’s, and when I was told it would be another 24 hours before I would even see a doctor, I called my son to pick me up. Because, had I finally seen a doctor, and needed tests, the entire merry-go-round would begin again. I went home to bed, self-medicated and prayed.
Now, I must qualify, that after hearing horror stories about county hospitals, it was not an entirely bad experience. It is a nice facility. The staff was all very professional and pleasant, treating everyone with respect and working very quickly. That being said, they are woefully unable to handle the sheer number of people – all ages, races, injuries and illnesses - constantly streaming through those emergency room doors because they have no insurance.
Is this anyway to treat American citizens? If I had been in any other industrial country in the world, I could have walked into my doctor’s office, gotten the necessary treatment, including tests, at an affordable cost, and gone home in a few hours. Right now, the only ones benefiting from our poor health care system are insurance and pharmaceutical companies and the politicians who answer to them.
We, all American citizens, deserve the dignity of proper health care. If you do not say that is true, then you – YOU – are the liar.
Personal Note: Thanks to my son’s help, I am on the mend. After coming home, I slept for several hours and found I still had a refill for an antibiotic. That, with rest, a heating pad, Tylenol and lots of liquids I have gradually improved. After five days, the nausea, headaches and pain have subsided (meaning I am no longer in a fetal position), although the plumbing is still a bit out of whack. I could have saved the money I gave the doctor.
Cheri Cabot, Politics Correspondent
Cheri’s column, “Personal About Politics,” published every week, will reflect on how the life of a 60 year-old, middle class woman is affected by politics, policy and the current state of the nation - a look at the personal aspects of politics. Her column is part of Gather Essentials.
Cheri is a freelance writer, living in Southern California. She has two grown children and is the proud grandmother of three.
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Comments: 77
I don't disagree with those that claim that the US has the best care available in the world. But its unfortunate that access to that care is limited to those who can afford to pay for it.
I'm reapplying for SSD/SSI, though I fully expect to get turned down again. Typical and if the President's plan passes I thought he said it wouldn't be implemented until 2013, which is a long time to wait. I haven't had insurance in years.
I also disagree with the people who say that they have to .end up paying for the uninsured that show up at the ERs - I'm paying my bill in full and it's taking me three years to do it, but I am the only one who is paying it. All you have to do is call and make arrangements with the hospital the next day.
As for another choice of school, other than public, the amount of home-schooled children has risen very much, so there is a third option.
I was "Home Schooled in the 1940s due to Asthma, and every few months the State sent a tester by the house or the hospital and I was tested on many subjects, that report was and remains with the State. I never take anything parents say at face value when I care to research it after they leave. I worked with troubled adolescents and the parents are the cause of their emotional issues...ALWAYS.
Immediately offers new, low-cost coverage through a national “high risk” pool to protect people with preexisting conditions from financial ruin until the new Exchange is created."
http://www.barackobama.com/issues/healthcare/
Marilyn is looking for whatever there is. "I also disagree with the people who say that they have to .end up paying for the uninsured that show up at the ERs - I'm paying my bill in full and it's taking me three years to do it.."
Mebbe so, Marilyn, but it's obvious you didn't show up with a gangrenous appendix, or a broken pelvis from a fall, or any other truly expensive disease or injury. You also have the ability to pay. Many don't, or decide that this week's groceries are more important than the ER bill. Uninsured medical treatment costs each of us who ARE insured about $1,000.00 a year in additional premium cost.
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If you are turned down again, for goodness sakes, appeal it! Many don't get it on the first or even the second appeal. There are a certain number of rather out of hand rejections. But if your doctor says you cannot work you will get it awarded to you eventually. Once someone starts the process, if on some appeal you get the disability, then you are paid from when you first applied.
Even a rejection from an administrative law judge can be thrown out if he or she has failed to act in good faith. A person who has no resources and makes arrangement to pay often don't have the money to do so. And your intent makes no difference, it still goes to the other users.
Chuck is correct, if one has any significant medical expense, it can be impossible for them to pay it off. Some hospitals, when you are making paying arrangements, will determine that you are too low income to pay it and it will be written off. And yes, that shifts it to those who are insured.
That is one of my gripes with our health payment system in this country. The person who can't afford insurance has to pay the very highest prices as all the insurance companies have a far lower amount they will pay.
I'm wondering if you just got through swine flu.
Hope things start improving for you!!
I am sorry that you had to go through that, and you were already knowledgeable enough to know about the flaws in the system.
In fact O eat home or go to very clean places like Panera, love their pastry.
Listen I grew up with social medicine in Italy and it works fine.
My son was there visiting and cut his hand with a knife, a small cut but needed help and the hotel people took him to the clinic and they took care of him for nothing. No insurance, and did not charge him either.
Can you qualify for medicaid at all?
You can try to get a temporary policy that may last for 1 year only.They usually cheap and of course do not cover preexisting conditions...but it may protect you in the future.
I sold health insurance years ago and the state of Virginia had approved some bad policies and companies that never paid a claim or only soo much.
It is another scam to take you cash.
A good company , privately owned was Golden rule, check them out and see if they write in your state.
I love Panera too...one of my favorite places. I don't usually eat from street vendors, but every year I do walk down to the Mission Fiesta for the food and music. In all the years past, it has been great. Guess I won't be going again. Lesson learned.
A sad state of affairs indeed.
I have what claims to be excellent insurance through my job, and checking out led me to discover that only the firefighters in this area have better benefits, but co-payments have gone up so much that I can't get groceries this week -- again! This is appalling!
Get well soon.
This statement is one I have often heard: "... they can’t afford private school?"
I did send my child to a parochial school. We did without many things to pay for her education and it was worth every dime. What many people don't know is the private and parochial schools offer scholarships, payment plans and other forms of financial assistance. There were several families with 7 and 8 children in the school.
I'm not looking to argue; just suggesting that if private schooling is something you want for your children, inquire at the school before ruling it out due to expense.
Many people truly cannot afford it. That is understandable. It's just a shame if people assume it is too expensive before checking it out.
I have spoken with parents who have new cars, season tickets to sports and theatre and who take several vacations every year. They claim private schooling is too expensive. We drove the same Chevy station wagon for 16 years and did without non-essentials. Sometimes, it is a matter of priorities.
I wonder if the actual number of people who really kept their kids home or wouldn tlet them listen to the President was really as large as it seemed? I guess I just cant see normal americans being that ignorant.
The home school thing is largely used to excape society adn raise a class artificial citizens programmed with the same prejudices as the parent. Kind of reminds me of Natzi youth corps in the 30's. You would be lieve how many times a kid has answered to my guestion of home shool kids why they have to be home schooled, "cause my folks dont want be to be around Athiest and Ni***rs.." maybe that is just an East Texas thing.
Please take care of yourself, your voice is very valuable around here!
I do think most europeans are actually more emancipated and humanistic than Americans.
I think great changes have to come and people need to work together to accomplish it.
I hope you get all better soon. I feel bad sparing with you when you are weak. That said:
"His apology was lame at best, apologizing only for his behavior, not for what he said, and that he was wrong."
That was all that was needed. Technically the President was incorrect in that without an enforcement mechanism the illegal immigrant restriction won't be enforced hence. I know, it will be fixed in the 'next' bill.
Why is it material that Wilson is white and the President is not? Race is not at all a factor in this issue unless you argue that race is always a factor in every issue. But if you argue that, who is 'playing the race' ?
Up until I heard that, I didn't connect the dots either, just thought he was a rude, crude idiot.
NO, I'd say in a great many cases, they are concerned with ALL of the above. Let's not obfuscate, the Republican party is increasingly centered, strongly, in the SOUTH, and rural, redneck states. I live in one of the latter. Don't even ask how many comments I have overheard that say just that. To say a great many are not concerned about his color, in the first place is a little naive.
Every 30 seconds someone files for bankruptcy because of medical emergency. That is shameful in a country such as ours.
I had insurance a while ago.
Then the insurance company came up with a stupid policy of annual reviews.
If you don't send back pieces of paper with certain information on it by a certain date, you get kicked off the plan.
So, they claimed my hubby didn't send the paperwork for me, and they kicked me off.
He sent them the needed papers. But, we still haven't heard from them.
So, do I have insurance?
I have no clue.
There, I said it. Now the neocons that comment on this blog don't really have anything else to say. Ha!! Beat you to it!!
You fringers are so predictable and pathetic :)
It is not inappropriate to feel profound sadness for one's country when one realizes the power evil has over the politcal right.
Here's the thing the fringers didn't think about when they protested: Peer Pressure. I was a teacher for a long time....those kids who sat it out in another room or stayed home because of their parents, have to deal with the other kids in school chastising them for not listening to it.
Acceptable, though horrifying and terribly tragic, in a country too poor to do better. A crime in a country as rich as the USA.
I am feeling so much better physically, mentally and emotionally after a nightmare week, and certainly counting my blessings. As I said, it was not a bad experience, in fact, it was an eye-opening experience....one perhaps our esteemed politicians should go through.
Cheri: There are a whole lot of reasons why you shouldn't have done that. You lucked out. But self-medicating with Tylenol and an antibiotic refill for an unknown gastrointestinal problem is not the recommended course of treatment. NO ONE should have to take those risks.
"But, sometimes we need to be taken out of our little comfortable lives."
"Taken out of..." could have meant SO much more. And it does, for thousands in your position every day. To the Nay-sayers, I say, "There may come a day..."
I wish you all the best!
All of that because of all of the lies being promoted from so many sources on the subject I have stayed clear of the whole controversy ... that and ... because I have what has been excellent coverage which has paid out over $500,000 in less than a year for an injury suffered and hospital complications (still ongoing) ...
Of course all such could end at any time the insurance companies deem me too expensive ... my coverage comes from a life-time of paying into the plan concept through my employers, a "benefit" in lieu of better wage compensation I might add as I was a Public Civil Servant for around 40 years, now retired on pension.
Such extreme costs as applicable to my own condition are in my mind directly attributable to insurance company health industry "collusion" ...
I would suggest that folks look into the policies of Cuba where it has become a national agenda to educate those interested in helping folks with health, educating doctors and such, with the idea of the actual helping rather than greed.
This nation should be an example for the world in that regard, as it is it is a shame and disgrace while it showcases the wealth available to those "in charge" ...
I agree, we probably have the best medical professionals in the world, it's just that the majority of the people don't have access to them because it is cost based. If you can't pay the cost....you can't see them.
Your article struck a chord. It is heartbreaking that in America we have so little regard for our citizens. I wish it were otherwise, but then, were it not so, we'd be living in another culture.