Sometimes we are blind to the fact that our problems can be solved if we stop complaining about them and try to solve them.
It seems like people would rather bitch and moan about what's going in their life than try to resolve the problem.
The woe is me thing doesn't do anything …but make you feel worse.
Yes sometimes it is good to talk about your problems.
However …what good is talk with no action?
If you sat on your ass and not try to help yourself .
Then talking about it is nothing but that…"talk"
Now I am not saying that we cant ask for help.
Hell I am telling you to ask for help if that is what it takes.
As a matter of fact that shows that you are taking action and trying to help yourself .
We cant just sit around and expect our problems to solve them self.
We need to be the ones who get the ball rolling .
Hey that is just my opinion though.
It seems like people would rather bitch and moan about what's going in their life than try to resolve the problem.
The woe is me thing doesn't do anything …but make you feel worse.
Yes sometimes it is good to talk about your problems.
However …what good is talk with no action?
If you sat on your ass and not try to help yourself .
Then talking about it is nothing but that…"talk"
Now I am not saying that we cant ask for help.
Hell I am telling you to ask for help if that is what it takes.
As a matter of fact that shows that you are taking action and trying to help yourself .
We cant just sit around and expect our problems to solve them self.
We need to be the ones who get the ball rolling .
Hey that is just my opinion though.
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it'll be okay...just hard because of the long weekend..i kinda feel alone even in the house with him...but i will be positive and not make the situation worse...
Even if you ask for help and get some advice, it may start you thinking if you don't agree with the advice. If you don't agree; take this a step further and figure out the "why" of not agreeing - and like you say, get off your ass and figure things out, help yourself as nobodys going to "FIX" your problems for you!
Excellent!
I am a very emotional person. I speak before I think and then refuse to budge later.
My other half however does almost no talking and all thinking.
I have honestly tried to slow down my screaming reflex and think about what is going on instead of just reacting with my gut.
Wish me luck.