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Nicholas Sparks Book Giveaway

September 08, 2009 10:22 AM EDT (Updated: September 08, 2009 10:24 AM EDT)
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This month Nicholas Sparks is releasing a new book. Gather is giving you a chance to win a copy of his book "The Last Song", as well as a prize pack of other Nicholas Sparks books! Here is what you could win:

THE LAST SONG

Seventeen year old Veronica "Ronnie" Miller's life was turned upside-down when her parents divorced and her father moved from New York City to Wilmington, North Carolina. Three years later, she remains angry and alienated from her parents, especially her father...until her mother decides it would be in everyone's best interest if she spent the summer in Wilmington with him. Ronnie's father, a former concert pianist and teacher, is living a quiet life in the beach town, immersed in creating a work of art that will become the centerpiece of a local church.

The tale that unfolds is an unforgettable story of love on many levels--first love, love between parents and children -- that demonstrates, as only a Nicholas Sparks novel can, the many ways that love can break our hearts...and heal them.

  • THE LUCKY ONE
  • DEAR JOHN
  • NIGHTS IN RODANTHE
  • A WALK TO REMEMBER
  • THE RESCUE

 

 

 

 

 

 

For your chance to win, tell us about a love in your life, that may be of a romantic or of a friendly nature.

Gather will draw ten respondents who comment at the end of this post to receive a set of these books. Comments must be posted by Monday, September 14th.


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Comments: 95

.* Sandi * Sep 8, 2009, 10:24am EDT
my love has always been my husband, he is my bestfriend, lover and husband and soulmate. He died 15 years ago and I miss him so much!
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♠~Dnbuster~♠ ~. Sep 8, 2009, 10:26am EDT
What a great giveaway!! Since i dont have a romantic partner I love to read about them..:)

tell us about a love in your life, that may be of a romantic or of a friendly nature.
My only loves are my kiddos, my dogs, and my cats:)
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Nick H. Sep 8, 2009, 10:28am EDT
For me - real easy one here; my wife and my kids are definitely the loves of my life and give it purpose. :)
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Priscilla (wishing I was in Costa Rica) ~. Sep 8, 2009, 10:30am EDT
For your chance to win, tell us about a love in your life, that may be of a romantic or of a friendly nature.:
My husband is my best-friend, we've been together for 15+ years and married for 11. I wouldn't want to spend a day without him in my life.
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Kat W. Sep 8, 2009, 10:30am EDT
I have three loves in my life, my hubby and my children. The fact that he is my second husband doesn't matter only that we love and care for each other and share many of the same dreams for ourselves and our family.
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Karen M. Sep 8, 2009, 10:31am EDT
The love of my life is my husband. We met 10 years ago and I feel like he is the one person that I can be myself around. He knows me like noone else knows me.
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sally g. Sep 8, 2009, 10:32am EDT
My love is my husband he swept me off my feet the day we met. There is nothing like being in love. Me and my husband can talk about anything.
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Marsha S. Sep 8, 2009, 10:33am EDT
My love is Steve. We have some problems here and there. I broke up with him after 3 years....
3 years later we got back together and have been together another 2 years.
I always think of that saying "if you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you it was yours to begin with, if not, it wasn't" I wonder if he thinks that way since he let me go to begin with.
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Kelly K ~ ready for the New Year ~ Sep 8, 2009, 10:34am EDT
I have a lot of loves in my life. My 1st is God, HE loves me always.
My 2nd is my husband Tim, we've been married 12 wonderful yrs
and counting.
also my love for my Daughter. She is the greatest kid ever. She
is so smart and I am so proud of her.
My parents and my siblings, my niece and 2 nephews
and all of my friends online an off.
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Cynthia J. Sep 8, 2009, 10:37am EDT
My husband is my love of my life. I don't know what I would do without him. He can cheer me up with a simple smile. He always knows how I feel. He's a wonderful man and I'm so thankful we met 12 years ago.
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Ariel Storm Sep 8, 2009, 10:37am EDT
The love of my life is a collective, my family and all members of it. For many years I cut myself from many of them, and have come to treasure them more because of their long term absence from my life. As I have more and more contact and include them in my daily life my love for them only grows.
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karen h. Sep 8, 2009, 10:39am EDT
the love's in my life are first off God then myself and then my family and friends , but the ones I hold very dear to my heart are my dogs they want nothing but food water and affection they show us love unconditionally , my Paco and windy wake me up every morning we have our special time every morning by going out side to do our business then its back in the house where i make their breakfast , they stay right beside me with tails a wagging jumping up and down they really make my day
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Amy C. Sep 8, 2009, 10:40am EDT
I must first say I adore Nicholas Sparks books!

The most precious and unforgettable love in my life is that of my children. I never imagined the love that you can feel for your own child. When my oldest son was first born
I experienced the most dramatic feeling one can imagine. Knowing you would give your life for that child if need be.

It is a love that is blind to any imperfection. It is Perfect.
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j - Frugal Mom - r. Sep 8, 2009, 10:41am EDT
The loves of my life are my husband and three sons.

My husband and I come from two different corners of the world, and we traveled far to find each other. He grew up in a small village in Jamaica, and I grew up in a farm in the Danish country side. It always amazes me how different our worlds were growing up, yet they are similar in so many ways.
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Pam H. Sep 8, 2009, 10:41am EDT
Odd as it may seem, my husbands nephew was placed up for adoption as a baby. As an adult, he began his search for his biological family. This poor guy had no childhood and it was very sad to hear what he went through. Although he is not my biological son, this 25 year old young man has found a place in my heart and I am the Mother now that he never had. He even tells me I am the Mother he never had. He is a great young man and I am proud of the life he has made for himself. He could have went the wrong way and let his childhood direct his Adulthood, but he turned it around and has a great life.
Pam H. Sep 9, 2009, 12:22pm EDT
I spoke to him just last night and told him about my comment here. I wish he could read it. I told him if something ever happened to him, he just answered me with "know that I love you". That brought tears to my eyes.
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Pam H. Sep 8, 2009, 10:42am EDT
This is a great contest, would love to win it too.
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John S. (arizona) Sep 8, 2009, 10:44am EDT
The love of my life is my wife Kim. She is my best pal, and we have been married now for almost 25 years. I can't imagine life without her, or why she ever married me, LOL. I'm one lucky guy!
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Brittney R. Sep 8, 2009, 10:53am EDT
A love that I never could have imagined is the love I have for my children. I always knew I wanted children, but I never knew how poweful a mother's love is until my first son was born. Then when I was pregnant again, I had no idea how I could ever love another child as much as I loved my first. However, the moment I saw my second son, that worry disappeared as I knew instantly that I had more than enough love for my two beautiful boys!
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Linda G. Sep 8, 2009, 11:20am EDT
I fell in love and married my high school sweetheart. We have been a couple for 38 years and married for 31. Our whole adult like we have been together and it seems impossible to think of being apart
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Glynn S. Sep 8, 2009, 11:23am EDT
My son, Brody, will be three next week. He has plump cheeks, full lips and a head so much bigger than his body I fear he will tip over. I love him so much that I fall into a smiling stupor when I watch him, and then he has to remind me to talk again. I have a daughter who's 5, and a husband who's truly kick-ass, so when I was pregnant with Brody it seemed inconceivable that I could love this baby boy as much as them. How could I demand so much of an already full heart? But then he came and he looked me in the eye, and oh, his little body was just perfect. After a week, we brought him for a routine doctor visit, concerned but not troubled by a high temperature he'd had for a day. The examination proceeded normally until the doctor asked a couple of questions I don't remember, and quickly the mood changed. The doctor stood and after some curt medical-speak, nurses swirled about ripping open sterile packages and taking blankets off my sleeping boy. It was my job to lay him on the table, curled on his side for a spinal tap. On the third attempt with a terrifyingly long needle, my husband could no longer look. But I was fixed by his side with a firm hold on my screaming baby that was equal torture for me.
When all was done and my son's quaking body had calmed, I understood the boundlessness of love. Because no matter what the diagnosis would be, there was no doubt that I would never be complete without him and that our family would fight to give him whatever he needed to be healthy.
*(My son is fine and healthy - he had suffered from a swelling in his brain because he was in the birth canal too long. The cause for my OBGYN's 1 hour delay in reaching me after I was clearly ready to give birth is still a mystery that the nurses could/would not explain.)
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ann c. Sep 8, 2009, 11:24am EDT
I have love for my family and friends but one friend in particular. I've known her for more than twenty years. She is a retired librarian but has Fibromyalgia and doesn't "get out" much. I try to see and call her often. No matter the length of time between calls or visits we take right up where we left off the last time. She is always there for me even with her disability. She is truly a friend and a great lady!!!
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April H. Sep 8, 2009, 11:33am EDT
My husband and daughter are definitely the loves of my life!
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D M. Sep 8, 2009, 11:35am EDT
My friends and family are the loves of my life
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Jamie W. Sep 8, 2009, 11:36am EDT
The loves of my life are my husband, children, parents, siblings, and some dear friends & relatives. I am blessed to have so much love in my life!

I would also love to read this book! Thanks for the chance to win a copy!
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Monique Mealue Sep 8, 2009, 11:37am EDT
The love of my life is my husband because he is with me through thick in thin and when I was in surgery he stayed at the hospital with my two kids in the waiting room that was four hours long and visited me every day and took care of the kids while I was in the hospital.
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Rachel V. Sep 8, 2009, 12:03pm EDT
A love in my life is the love I have for my cousin's children. Not having kids of my own just yet, this is the closest thing I have. They love me unconditionally and I never knew that I could love as deeply as I love them. I'm willing to do anything to ensure their safety, similar to their parents. Their sweet displays of love and affection overturn any feelings of exhaustion and frustration when I'm babysitting them and they start to get out of hand. A simple "i love you" and a hug usually melts away all the frustrations..
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Suzanne M. Sep 8, 2009, 12:16pm EDT
My family has always been the center of my life. Husband, four children, two grandchildren, sister, two brothers, parents, grandparents, etc... the strength of the family is what keeps love alive. Then there is Kenmore .. my gray-striped tomcat.
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kelli a. Sep 8, 2009, 12:25pm EDT
The greatest love of my life is my son Logan. He is mentally retarded but he doesnt let that stop from living life to the fullest. He loves you unconditionally and he always has a smile on his face. He is my inspiration and my greatest fan. He is my special little boy and words cant describe how much love I have for him and how much love he brings into this world.
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rainne chandler Sep 8, 2009, 12:28pm EDT
my soul mate and best friend is my love of my life as is our son we have been togather for 16 years this year and we still act like new lovers
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Mary G. Sep 8, 2009, 12:38pm EDT
My husband is the love of my life and feel very lucky we met, so many years ago. We understand the ups and downs in life and love keeps people together through the hard times.
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Sue * Sep 8, 2009, 12:45pm EDT
I've been married 35 years in December to my best friend. I think that pretty much says it all. We've grown up with each other, been through the fire and we are still hangin' in.
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Carla B. Sep 8, 2009, 12:46pm EDT
My husband and three year old are the loves of my life. I would do anything for either of them, and even on the days that Elliott throws fit after fit, doesn't listen, etc, I thank God that he's in my life. The worst day with Elliott is better than the best day without him would be.
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Dusty Hubbard Sep 8, 2009, 12:50pm EDT
The love in my life has always been my husband. He has stuck with me through the years, in sickness and in health. He has been my rock. He has been there for me everyday for the last 14 years and I love him with all of my heart!
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Jenn P. Sep 8, 2009, 1:06pm EDT
My love of my life is my fiancee. we will be together 9 years in Oct. We plan to get married very soon. He means the world to me. I love him so much. We have four wonderful kids together
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☃ Aunt Shanny Sep 8, 2009, 1:08pm EDT
My fiance is the love of my life. Who else would put up with me and my problems day in and day out with rarely a complaint?
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Dagmara H. Sep 8, 2009, 1:08pm EDT
WOw, I would love to win this price. It would be awesome. Thank you so much for this giveaway.

The love of my life is my husband. But he is more than that, he is my best friend, he is the person who I can laugh with and the person who I can cry with it. He is the best person I could ever ended up with. We have been together for 4 year and married for 1 and half. This summer I have traveled to Europe by myself to see my family. While I was gone for 3 weeks I realize how much we miss each other, how lonely it is wothout him even if I am having great time. He is my soulmate and I love him very much.
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d d. Sep 8, 2009, 1:20pm EDT
My husband is generous with making me feel loved everyday. It's a feeling that I do not take for granted. :)
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Ashley M. Sep 8, 2009, 2:04pm EDT
Since I had to grow up...I would say my husband. We met online in the summer of 04 and met and married in the summer of 05. We have been together ever since. I love my husband to pieces....

However, if I could choose anything, then I would have my life frozen when I was 10, 11, or 12 and be a kid forever with my teenager older brother, my fun little brother, and my parents in the prime of life. I love my my parents and brothers more than anybody, and life would be ideal if I would have never tasted the fruit of adulthood. My family is the real love of my life.

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Sandra R. Sep 8, 2009, 2:23pm EDT
My ultimate love is my husband. We first met when I was 17 yrs old with a new born. We were set up on a blind date. Little did we know that we would spend the rest of our lives together. We've been together 26 years!!! We are newlyweds (almost 4 months)....long story.

He's my soulmate, my best friend, my husband and lover! He is also my confidant!! I can talk to him about anything and know he will listen without judgement. He makes me feel special and that is something I wouldn't trade for anything in the world.

And as in the fairy tales, we will live happily ever after!
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Lori B. Sep 8, 2009, 2:46pm EDT
The Loves of my life are my wonderful husband, children, and family! God first in line and my newest love is my daughters dog she talked us in to getting a year ago. She ask for 6 months and saved her money and got a pug after the first week of worms and taking her out to potty at night she told me she didn't think she wanted a pet any longer after we had loonng discussions about this before hand. Anyway i run 3 ads in the paper trying to get our money back at least since we paid 200 in vet bills for worms and shots. Somehow between the 3 ads i fell in love with her, she has been my little shadow everywhere i go, she is in my lap as i type this, sleeps in our bed and when i'm gone she waits for me on the arm of the couch and watches the door. I was sick for 3 weeks and laid on the couch with me the whole time except to eat or potty. I feel like she's my 3rd little girl and guilt kept me from getting rid of her with the 3 ads i placed and love will keep her here as long as she was meant to be on this earth. I am a absolute fan of Nicholas Sparks!!! please enter my name into your awesome contest!!!! Thanks
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Princess Spanky Pants ~ The Real, Original, Heather T Sep 8, 2009, 2:55pm EDT
My husband has been the love of my life and my best friend for a long time now. My kids are my loves, as well.
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April H. Sep 8, 2009, 3:41pm EDT
No I’m not living in a fairly tale. My life is not all roses and champagne. but the love of my life is my husband! Why is he the love of my life; it's simple...because he is worth loving! Let me share my inner but simple thoughts on that.

Frst, the no-brainer : he is a cutie! (t least to me) Most people who know him say he is almost too good to be true. He appreciates me for who I am and what I have become as a person is because of his input. He values my inputs all the time. he affirms me and tells me he loves me every single day of our lives. He listens to me when I talk - regardless whether I make sense or not...he just listens ( I trained him well, LOL!) he stays cool in the midst of problems. By the way, my hubby is very romantic ( he likes to express himself all the time - whether verbal or physical and makes sure he spends time with me. invites me to date regularly ( watch movies, eat out, have breakfast early saturday morning, stroll inside the mall...just to be with me...aaahhhh....isnt that really sweet!!!!!


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Darcy O. Sep 8, 2009, 6:40pm EDT
The love of my life is my husband and my 12-year-old daughter.
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Donna S. Sep 8, 2009, 7:10pm EDT
The love in my life are the students who are labeled "bad children". Other teachers cringe at the mere mention of their names. I welcome these children into my classroom and I am truly happy to see them there each morning. Trust me when I say that I get more than I give in regards to our interactions while teaching. One particular student in my last years class was an extremely difficult child and through my dealings with him I turned in a new direction within my career. I am presently back in college studying Special Eduction and Child Psychology. When my life gets chaotic I look at a picture of him that I keep on my desk and remember all the challenges we went through together. When I see that silly picture of him with a giant smile on his face and cardboard box on his head I know that life is sweet.
Sara J. R. Sep 17, 2009, 5:36pm EDT
Hi Donna, I'm late to this feed but when I read your comment I had to respond. Altho I haven't worked with 'bad children' [misnomer!], I taught 4&5 yr olds and classroom management was my strength. The other teachers would send their 'out-of-control' kids to me to calm them down. I think I know how you feel. Your’s a beautiful comment and I'm so glad you will be working with children. Obviously, it's not just a job ~ it's a passion. I treasure my memories of my "kids".

I thot I recognized your icon but it took me a minute to remember. For some reason unknown to me you commented on my icon pix. After reading this I checked out your profile, posts, comments [some], and will be sending you a friend request next. Please check out my profile and let me know if and why you'd consider me as a friend??? P.S. How did you happen to check my photo ~ I'm still curious, lol.

Just want to say Kudos to you for your work.
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Vikki M. Sep 8, 2009, 7:13pm EDT
I remember my first "love". I was 7 and we got "married" at recess on the playground at school, but when our friend pronounced us man and wife and told him to kiss the bride, I ran away and made him chase me all over. Ah, childhood silliness. :)
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Linda T. Sep 8, 2009, 7:15pm EDT
The love in my life is my family. My husband is my partner and our children and grandchildren complete the circle.
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Teresa W. Sep 8, 2009, 7:16pm EDT
My first love was when I was ten years old. His name was Jimmy and we were in the same class at school. He gave me a bead necklace as a "going steady" gift. What a fun memory, that first "almost kiss" LOL

The major love of my life has always been my only child, my daughter. Now that could be a good thing or a bad thing, it depends on what role a person plays or used to play in my life. :-)
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Nora Davenport Sep 8, 2009, 7:17pm EDT
The love of my life, first and foremost, is my Lord and Savior.....I love Him with all my heart and soul, with all the love that I can give anyone or anything.........I love Him so very much that yes, I would give my life for HIM.........He is my life....He is my all.........
My parents have always been the loves of my life........I have always loved them so very, very much but didn't realize the depth and intensity until I lost them both. I am an only child in my family with no siblings; however, God has so richly blessed my life and I have a very, very rich, fulfilling life that now, whenever I think of them, it's not so much with tears, as it is with smiles and thankfulness that i was so very, very blessed.
Oh......yeah.....guess I had better say the husband as well.....LOL.....seeing as how we've been married for 31 years!
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Jennifer G. Sep 8, 2009, 7:26pm EDT
The love of my life, in a romantic scenario, is of course, my husband. We have been through so much together in such a short amount of time. Sometimes our relationship resembles the notebook (at points when we were spending a LOT of time apart due to his career in the Marine Corps, we could go from being very loving to very exasperated with each other in nothing flat). Other times, we've had that deep, passionate, against-all-odds kind of A Walk to Remember love. Joe and I have such a.... different relationship from anyone I know. In some ways, Nights in Rodanthe reminded me of it (the movie- I haven't yet read the book). My biggest fear is him not surviving his deployment.

Joe and I are made specifically for each other. We're just supposed to be together. I feel like we just fit each other so perfectly. To stray from all of my Nicholas Sparks comparisons, he and I just have a love like that I've never seen before. Not to say that our love is better than any one else's... I'm just saying, we're overcoming so many obstacles it's insane right now. We got married on July 12, and he left July 23 for training. I haven't seen him since. Some weeks, I don't even get a phone call. It's a good week if I've gotten more than one call. Sometimes all I get is a text message. And this is all training for him being gone for 9 months, with very little contact- and what contact we do have, they are saying will probably be through letters. I just feel like our love is the kind that is overcoming obstacles, especially when I see close friends who are in similar situations to me, whose relationships get torn apart...
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Rachel W. Sep 8, 2009, 7:35pm EDT
Mine isn't about me at all. It's about my mom and Frankie. My mom was in an abusive marriage for years with my father. After gaining enough courage to finally divorce him she was a single parent with no love life. That is until she met Frankie. He was her best friends cousin. He was also 15 years younger then her, only 5 years older then my older sister. He was the love of her life. You could see, feel, smell even hear the love oozing from them when they were together. It was the happiest time of my mothers life. He was her life. Until August 8, 1992. He was killed by a drunk driver about 2 blocks from our house. If we looked out our back window of our house, we would have seen the wreck. The last time I spoke with him was the last that anyone in my house ever heard his voice again. He told me that he loved the three of us and to never forget it. We never did. My mother still loves him as if he is still here today. She hasn't even thought of dating anyone else in all these years. She's okay with being "alone" because for her she is not alone. Frankie is always with her and always will be and one day they will meet again and they'll both be at peace, at home, in love, together.
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Kim M. Sep 8, 2009, 7:59pm EDT
My husband is the love of my life, but I have to say my other love is spending time with my nieces. They may be the closest thing I ever have to having children and I will do anything for them. I especially love that I can spoil them then take them home. =)
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Kristina P. Sep 9, 2009, 7:21am EDT
My husband is the love of my life. We dated once when we were younger, high school age, for about 9 months. We met again 8 years later and it was "Love at Second Sight" as my husband always says. We have been together for over 10 years and are blessed with 2 beautiful boys, who are also the love of my life. They were the reason that I was born.
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colleen m. Sep 9, 2009, 10:38am EDT
I met my love years ago - he was a friend of the family who would go on family outtings with us. Never really took him seriously until I got to know him on a camping trip together with the family.
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Winona Morris Sep 9, 2009, 11:40am EDT
There was a guy. He and I were friends for years and years and years. And then we became "friends with benefits." But it NEVER came between our friendship. I think he was my first real love, as I still love him and think of him often.
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Chris W. Sep 9, 2009, 2:32pm EDT
I suppose that this is going to offend somebody, but Nicholas Sparks? You can keep those books, thanks anyway.
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Tara C. Sep 9, 2009, 2:36pm EDT
The love of my life is my husband. He is a very funny, kind individual. He makes me smile when I am down and he's always supportive of me.
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Michelle S. Sep 9, 2009, 3:13pm EDT
the love(s) of my life are my daughters. through heartache & good times.. they own a piece of my heart forever.
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Shannon W Sep 9, 2009, 3:35pm EDT
I have lots of loves in my life right now.... my three children...I can't image them not in my life, even when are driving me crazy... my fiancee... there I find comfort...my Mother...always there for me.
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brittany c. Sep 9, 2009, 3:58pm EDT
My husband and I met on a website called hotornot.com. We corresponded through emails and eventually talked over the telephone. After a few months, we decided to meet eachother in January 2004. I was very shy and I could tell he was, too. We walked around the mall and talked and tried to get to know eachother. After the "date" I wasn't too sure how we felt about eachother, so I waited for him to call me. I got a tad nervous, but finally he called and we spoke, but I still wasn't absolutely sure that he did like me as more than a friend. So a little less than a month goes by and it's now February 14th [Valentine's Day]. He calls me up and asks if I had gotten anything for Valentine's Day from anyone. I told him no and he said something like "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that." I asked him what he was doing and he said he was taking some flowers and a gift to a friend he knew. I was thinking to myself "Lucky girl.. I wish I was her" and we keep talking while he's on his way to this person's house. He tells me he'll call me back, that he got to her house and needs to get off the phone. I reluctantly told him that would be fine. A couple minutes later, someone's knocking on the door. My grandma tells me to answer it and Michael [my now husband] is standing at the door with a bouquet of flowers & a giftbag. My grandma immediately exclaims "OH my god!! My kids didn't forget about me.. they did send me flowers afterall!!" and I'm like "No, grandma these are for me.. this is Michael" and we all died laughing. I was so shocked and embarassed, though. I probably turned 10 shades of red. I was already so shy and then here he comes and surprises me with these gifts.

After that moment, my grandma and I both knew that he was "the one." We've been together for 5 years and married for almost 1 now! :]
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Sammie B. Sep 9, 2009, 4:26pm EDT
Well, the first thing that pops into my mind when I think love is my husband, but that's too conventional. I had a much deeper, different sort of love before my husband came along, and I still hold that love now.

You see, when I was born my mother was just 18, just getting out of high school. My grandparents helped her take care of me because she was forced to work long hours to be able to support me. Before I came along, ever since my mother had been five or so, my grandfather fell into a nervous breakdown. He never left the house and he rarely did much of anything.

When I was born, my grandfather wanted nothing to do with me. He had raised 4 kids and helped raise 4 grandkids already. I was the 9th. In the midst of his breakdown, he'd had enough. But my mother was still healing from having me and she needed my grandmother's help to do things. So, when I started crying and my mother needed help at the same time, I was immediately dumped into my grandfather's arms.

When my mother and grandmother came back, I had stopped crying and he was talking to me and rocking me. That year at Christmas, when I was only three months old, he went out for the first time in a long time to buy me my first Christmas dress.

From then on, we were pretty much inseparable. When they moved out of state, I waited until I graduated from high school to follow then (and thankfully my husband...boyfriend at the time...followed me!).

It's certainly not a romantic sort of love and it's not really a friendly sort of love, either. It's the love that only family and close friends could possibly know. The sort of love that two family members or friends who must have been brought together by fate could know. :)

I don't know why I was born when I was or why it triggered the affects it did, but I know that my grandfather's still going strong at 78 and now he laughs all the time, loves his family, and has lots of friends! That's the best anyone could ever ask for after everything.
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Connie C. Sep 9, 2009, 4:46pm EDT
I have many loves in my life. However the love that has impacted my life the most is my husband. He is not just my husband, he is my best friend. When something good happens in my life it does not seem real until I have told him about it.

My husband is always there when I need him. He is wonderful at everything he does. He gives me the desire to be the best that I can be. We talk about everything. I have no secrets from him. I trust him totally and depend on him more than I should. He is the love of my life, my husband, my best friend and the father to both our children.

I know I could live without him but I don't want to. I love this man more than anything.
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Amanda "middle of nowhere" C. Sep 9, 2009, 6:44pm EDT
No other relationship is so rewarding as when your love also becomes your best friend. This was the case with my husband. When you can trust someone completely, that opens a new portal to love and life.
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Amber C. Sep 9, 2009, 7:19pm EDT
Okay, you said I could pick any kind of love, not necessarily romantic. So I'll talk about my love for my dog Sherlock. He is the only thing in the world who asks nothing in return. God gave me a very great gift when he gave me Sherlock, and I hope I am the kind of "pet parent" he needs.
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Joanne Vicente Sep 9, 2009, 8:10pm EDT
I've had a mad crush on my husband since we were kids , which was very, very long ago. Our cultural and religious differences kept us from being together for all too long. We were the best of friends, though, as we remained in unhappy marriages with others who were "properly suited" to us. Gradually, over the years, being apart became more and more difficult, but I was surprised when he asked me to marry him. He is an observant Catholic and I am an observant Jew. Well, his priest, who was a close friend of us both, convinced us that the separateness was rather silly. Although his vows wouldn't allow him to participate in our wedding, he knew because he knew us both well, that we should be together. He was thrilled when he heard we were finally married, and he advised us to go together to church and to synagogue, as we had as kids, and to remember that God's with us. We're getting on in years, but still more in love and happier with each other every day!
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Sassy Cat Sep 9, 2009, 8:37pm EDT
I loves my cats!!
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Christina L. Sep 9, 2009, 10:10pm EDT
I love God first, then my husband and family, including my dog and cat!
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Beth G. Sep 9, 2009, 11:21pm EDT
ooh I would so totally love to get this, this latest Nicholas Sparks book looks really interesting!
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Beth G. Sep 9, 2009, 11:22pm EDT
I loved my late father dearly. I admired his very sharp intellect, and appreciated his bigger heart more. I was lucky to have him in my life, let alone as my father.
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Jan S. Sep 9, 2009, 11:33pm EDT
My husband is my soul mate. His love has given me the courage to be the best I can be. I can't imagine how my life would have been without him and never want to have to live without him.
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Stacey *Mamasaid* D. Sep 10, 2009, 9:27am EDT
My husband is my best friend and the love of my life. It was a most unlikely coupling from the beginning as he is sixteen years my senior. I was getting out of an abusive marriage and he was dating my best friend's mom. We became fast friends. He is intellectual and Christian so we always had a lot to talk about.

We both experienced very hurtful experiences in our respective relationships and found ourselves alone. Both of us had seriously compromised self-esteem and wondered if we could even regain the people we used to be before all the negativity in our lives. Our friendship evolved slowly, meaningfully, based on common interests (he's a hidden poet, too, gotta get him to come out with it).

Over time, romance entered our friendship. I never imagined such passion could occur with a "friend". I always dreamed passion would ride up on a white horse and sweep me away. Passion slowly enveloped us over time, took us over and still grows and flowers everyday. It is the ultimate love story, proving love does conquer and heal all :)
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Alex In Wonderland Sep 10, 2009, 9:49am EDT
I've never had a fairytale love, which is why I love Nicholas Sparks books so much!! I can get lost in the romances that he creates in his stories.
The loves in my life are my boyfriend and my kids. They are my purpose and my life and I'm happy everything has turned out the way it has, though it has been one heck of a bumpy ride! After 8 years we are like an old married couple, but I'm happy about where we are and where we are going.
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Diane S. Sep 10, 2009, 12:23pm EDT
I feel so blessed to have several loves in my life! My first love is my Savior, Jesus, who has given me more than I deserve. My second love is my husband, with whom I am celebrating 18 years of marriage on Monday! He is a wonderful, supportive, loving Christian man. And third, my three boys are loves of my life. I love being their mom, and they each are special in their own way.
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Trish A. Sep 10, 2009, 1:04pm EDT
I never wanted to get married or have children. In fact if a gentleman spoke the words it would guarantee my quick exit. Then I met my now husband of over 30 years. He has made me laugh, held me when I cried, taken adventures with me and been by my side as I worked toward becoming my childhood dream of being a writer. He has a kind heart, a twinkle in his eyes and a loving spirit. I am blessed that he was wise enough to move slow and not speak the words that would have made me run for the woods. We have 2 lovely daughters and an energetic grandson. I am blessed to have this love travel through life beside me.
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Sophie S. Sep 10, 2009, 1:42pm EDT
Zorro is my baby!

I love my sisters to and would move heaven and earth for them. The one thing I have learned about loving them though, is that I always get that love back tenfold.

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Barbara M. Sep 10, 2009, 9:42pm EDT
My one and only child (a daughter from my first marriage) and my husband of 29 years are two of the most important people in my life and I love them so very much. But, I don't think I really knew to what extent I could love until my one and only grandson was born. Maybe it's because I waited so long for him (my daughter was 40) or maybe it's his sweet, loving personality. I do know that life is better with him in it. He always brings a smile to my lips and a flip flop to my heart.
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Tanya P. Sep 11, 2009, 12:56am EDT
I've had/have many loves in my life, from special men to special friends, even to some most wonderful pets.
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Cassandra Chandler Sep 11, 2009, 12:04pm EDT
The love of my life was my grandfather. He passed away at the age of 95. I had a hard time dealing with his death. My spirit was broken but years later my spirit was renewed. The story of his life was remarkable and I hope I will one day be able to tell it.
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Ruthi C. Sep 11, 2009, 2:12pm EDT
The love of my life is lost, as he chose to love another. I shall ever hold our time together as a walk to remember.
Ruthi C. Sep 11, 2009, 2:13pm EDT
pss...Connie C's link sent me!
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Achelois Mind Sep 11, 2009, 3:25pm EDT
My daughter is my miracle I wasn't supposed to have children and she came anyway I love her so much her father and I are still together and he is my soulmate we have been together 11 years this January and our daughter will be 10 in October.
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Marilyn is looking for whatever there is. N. Sep 11, 2009, 5:15pm EDT
The loves of my life are, my best friend, who happens to also be my husband of over 25 years, our son, our furry-family kids, writing and books. I'll soon be sketching and painting again as that was always one of my first loves. God watches over us, so that's a real love too.
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Kim K. Sep 11, 2009, 5:29pm EDT
"A love life". You gotta be kidding. I am a single parent who has been burned too many times. Most men can't be trusted. So I guess I really need to win the books to read!!!
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Crystal T. Sep 11, 2009, 9:09pm EDT
My love of all loves are my kids, my daughter Rubyaahn and my son Phinehas. I haven't had a very rosy life, but through it all, my daughter has been my strength and my reason for being, she was and continues to be the buoy that keeps me afloat throughout this hectic life. And then there comes my tender love, my son Phinehas, who is constantly putting a smile on my face even when he is being mischievious. My daughter is a great older sister and a big help to me! Being a single mother isn't easy, but having the unconditional love of my children is worth every sweat you break to provide for them; is worth all the tears you shed when uncertainty strikes; is worth all the headaches you put up with; my kids are worth it!! I thank the good lord for giving me my kids to anchor my life, to keep me from going astray, from going insane!!
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♥¤ J K¤ ♥ Sep 11, 2009, 9:30pm EDT
My dh and dd are the loves of my life.
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Aubrey :) Sep 12, 2009, 2:01am EDT
I'm going to have to go with my children on this one. There is just something about having them that makes life seem to make more sense to me.

The love of my Father is so much more real now that I have my children. I can understand the love of God on such a deep level because of them.

There is nothing like watching them discover something new and seeing the eyes of the young and the curiosity that comes with the look.
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amy r. Sep 12, 2009, 3:18am EDT
I'm just going to start crying with the mere mention of Sparks lol!
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Ruth Luce Sep 12, 2009, 10:15am EDT
Ahh, a love in my life, hmmm...... It has taken many and all these seasons past for me to quite get just what that is, and finally I had to accept it simply is. My son, oh, yes. My best friend, my room mate, these are the things that I truly love. Those that you just know beyond any doubt that without hesitation - you would take the bullet for them and it would be right
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Lesli B. Sep 13, 2009, 12:37pm EDT
My children are the loves of my life. I have two very special friends as well that i would do anything for!
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Sharon J. Sep 13, 2009, 7:36pm EDT
I met the love of my life in 1997; we were on the ice trying out for the same hockey team. I didn't make the team, but he did. Fast forward through 4 years of undergrad, 1 serious, near-engagement relationship later in 2004 we met again. At the ice rink! We were playing men's league hockey; I was introduced to him by his teammate and a mutual friend. Josh was persistent, asking me out on several occasions. Finally, on June 19, 2004 we went on our first date, and we've been together ever since. June 16, 2010 we'll be celebrating our 3rd wedding anniversary. I would love to win the Nicholas Spark's book gift set; I am a romantic at heart and am currently living my own real-life love story!
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Patti M. Sep 13, 2009, 11:24pm EDT
The first love of my life was a young man named Marty. He had dark wavey hair. His eyes were dark and full of mystery. He had a beautiful singing voice as did all of his siblings. We had several dates. We were able to just sit and talk for hours.
That is until we talked in the driveway one night past curfew. He walked me to the house and my stepfather threw him out. It seemed to crush him. He retreated into his room and gave up dating all together. I still wonder about him. He had such a sweet spirit.
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Patti M. Sep 13, 2009, 11:27pm EDT
If any of you have read any of my posts about Larry and I, you know he is the true love of my life. I am so blessed to have met him and have been married to him for almost 40 years now. He is such a joy.
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Jennifer O. Sep 14, 2009, 10:37am EDT
We have had ups and downs but it would still be my husband. Even when we are having problems, having him there makes me feel better
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