I'm back from the Philippines. It's been a difficult time for me. I want to tell the story of my trip but it is still too raw to discuss fully. I just want to skim thru the reasons why I wanted to go home... why I wanted to visit my sister soon after I heard she was diagnosed with cancer last October. I wanted to see her as she was--- alive and healthy... not ailing and/or dying.
That is why I started making plans in early November so I could visit her while she was still ok... but, I did not count on the cancer to be the vicious all-invading variety that would take her just 8 hours after my plane ticket home was confirmed. No one saw it coming so fast, so soon.
I was devastated. I was not going to see her alive, I was going to her funeral. I can't talk yet about going home, about family I saw, about the people I met, about the places I visited, about going home. But I can tell you about the plane trip.
I left our house at 8:00AM to catch a flight with Northwest Airlines from O'Hare, Chicago on Monday, November 17th . From O'Hare, I had to transfer to a larger plane in Detroit, the NWA hub, where I hooked up with my sister Tessie who flew in from St. Louis. From Detroit, our new plane would fly us to Nagoya, Japan for re-flueling and a lay-over of an hour and a half, then on to Manila.
However, the usual trip that took about 39+ hours took a lot longer because of delays and a "medical emergency". We were flying just a few hours long on that stretch between Detroit and Nagoya when we were informed that the plane was making an unscheduled stop in Anchorage Alaska.
The nosy uh, journalist in me kicked in and I was the first one to get the real scoop from one of the stewards. I found out that the "medical emergency" involved the pilot, who accidentally had a huge piece of meat lodged in his trachea while he was trying to eat his dinner... he could not breathe... and no amount of first aid would dislodge it so, after a few calls to doctors at the Mayo Clinic, the remaining pilot was told to turn the plane towards Alaska where he could get the needed medical attention.
By the time we got to Anchorage, too much fuel had been expended. Time was needed to re-fuel, time was also needed to wait for a replacement pilot who was being flown in from Detroit, as of course we would not be allowed to fly commercially across international waters with just one pilot... and after all that had happened, we've lost our time in the schedule of arrivals in Japan ---- none of the airports could squeeze us in for a landing. The NWA was forced to deplane us overnight, all 472 passengers; they contracted buses to get us out of the terminal, provided hotel accomodations for us giving us $75 vouchers/person and gave us dinner ($25 vouchers /passenger).
So, there I was in ALASKA, with no coat, in my expecting-to-be-in-the-tropics-clothes, no cellphone, no wifi connections for my laptop, standing in line for dinner along with 472 hungry people at a restaurant that had already closed hours before we got there. They had to fire up the ovens again and get servers back in, on a MONDAY night. Palin jokes were flying. Sleep was almost impossible so we all got bused groggy and out of sorts the next morning to our refueled plane.
As a goodwill gesture, we were given $200 vouchers applicable towards our next trips with NWA. It helped lift a few spirits though a few were quite vocal about how badly we were being treated but, we settled in for the long flight to Nagoya, Japan, our next stop.
Then the fun began again. We were told we would not be able to land in Nagoya as scheduled, we would be landing in Narita airport. People were instantly scrambling with concern over connections already lost previously... here we go again. We ended up landing in Tokyo and being stranded another NINE hours because they had to find THREE different planes to get all 472 passengers accommodated. My sister Tessie and I managed to get us both logged into a JAL plane by cornering a great agent who listened to us about trying to get to Manila in time for our sister's funeral, TOGETHER. Others had worse luck... some groups were separated into the 2 other planes--- PAL and NWA. We were issued more vouchers for meals and drinks, telephone cards for calling home about the delays plus free connecting flights to final destinations. This was one flight that cost Northwest Airlines millions of extra dollars.
We landed in Manila at about 11:20PM, which meant we took four days to travel from Chicago to Manila. We were at our cousin's home in the Congressional Village of Quezon City by 12:30AM. An hour later, we were freshened up and were on the road to Solano, north of Manila, where my sister was being buried. It took another 5 hours, it was a long car ride thru mountain roads... but we got there on record time. The Funeral was at 1:00PM. That was how close we came to missing the funeral all together.
Fast forward to two weeks later. Last Monday, I flew back home using the same airlines. As luck would have it, we experienced more delays... We had ANOTHER medical emergency onboard, between Nagoya and Detroit! A passenger had medical problems necessitating the call for a doctor or nurse onboard. Luckily, the patient was stabilized with an intravenuous feed and was deplanned first by a medical team in Detroit before the rest of us were allowed to disembark to wait for NEW connecting flights to our final destinations.
I am not normally superstitious but having been around some superstitious people for two whole weeks, I started feeling weird... I looked at the clothes I wore back and wondered if they had something to do with my rash of bad luck. I wore the same outfit coming and going, it was the most comfortable traveling outfit I owned. Were they cursed somehow?
My cousin TJ called me soon after I landed to say I should check for a certain marking on my posterior side. She said those markings always guaranteed bad luck. No, I don't have one. I checked.
My sister Tessie said to check my underwear. I must have worn them inside-out on my way home. Nope. Didn't commit that mistake either.
One thing I am sure of... my family is full of would-be commediennes.



Comments: 40
should i send you some lucky underwear?
be good to yourself, honey. you need time to recover and heal. sending you much love.
You catch up on your rest, heaven knows you need it and don't even bother wearing underwear. Be radical.
Blessings.
Rest up and come back to us in your own good time.
I'm glad you made it....
I know a very talented photographer that lives in the Philipines. It's a beautiful place. Meant to be visited and enjoyed under different circumstances. Take care. :)
Regards,
Doyle I <~~~~~
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Mel, thanks, it's much appreciated!
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Stephanie, I was glad my sister and I had each other on this trip... I would have been completely lost and scared stiff without her!
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Dianne, I started to write this as a serious blog but as you can see, it took a life of its own and deteriorated towards the end. I guess the funnies always win with me. It's a saving grace sometimes to be able to giggle over adversity, yes?
Was your sister one to play practical jokes?
Glad you're home safe.
What a nightmare of traveling it was for you but at least you did get there safe and sound and just in time.
My condolences. (((Hugs)))
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Greg, thanks for your kind words!
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Tonia, I never thought to blame HER! Hehehe.
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Bobbi, thanks you!
I guess if you fly enough - you will have a story or two or three or.............
Did I mention I missed you?!
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Sheryl... my husband would not fly home with me anymore... the LOOOONG hours in the air in a cramped plane is too much for him... he insists he wants to be on a cruise ship if there was one going to the PI...
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Joy, I'd take you with me anywhere!!! Wow... Having the Pantsâ„¢ traveling with me would be awesome! AND... it is so nice to hear I've been missed. :-)
If NWA files for bankruptcy, we will know it was the fault of this expensive trip!
Glad you are safe and sound!
glad you made it there in time.
I'm glad you made it there - although it took so long... And... I'm even more glad that you made it back home safely. We missed you.
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Flit, it looks like it was a concerted effort doesn't it?
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Wilma, I did not know how expensive it was until someone who knew the real cost of flying a regular flight told me the actual and normal cost and then when he added the extra cost of feeding, housing, new flight connections and giving extra flight vouchers to 472 passengers and the amount really became mind-boggling!
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Faith, I only had to fend for myself and I still needed loads of help from my sister and others... I can't imagine having kids in tow on a flight like this!
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CC, I am starting to think I need to change airlines for future trips (if there are any)
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Lizzie, yes... andit's all true :-)
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Kate, please tell Kacy that there's another postcard in the mail for her... the one from the PI takes longer. My grandkids have not gotten theirs either!
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Lainie, I think all trips to SouthEast Asia are so long in duration they tend to have more chances of getting botched.
I'm glad to be home, I missed my Gather friends :-)
so glad you survived it all and came back to share it with us, along with cute advice about flying apparell. passport, travellers cheques, knickers on the right way, ok, we're good to go!
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this is one of those horror stories that make me feel like my bladder's uncomfortably full. you know, like trying to sit through the movie the out of towners and all you want to do is smack jack lemon across the face and make it all stop...
Caro, only you could describe it so well!!! And if you're good to go, do make sure your ticket is bound for the US... we'd all love to meet you!
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Sue, I really love flying... I love airports... but these back-to-back flights developing emergencies was just an anomaly, I think. You should try flying, you don't know what you're missing and how much fun it could be!
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Grems, thank you... I take a lot of rests. I just woke up from another 3 hour nap :-)
I'm glad you managed to make it to your sister's funeral. It's such a heartbreak when you live so far away from family and cannot do anything quickly.
Thank you for posting to this group whose only purpose is to thank you for posting to this group.
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Kathleen, my sister was not a prankster but who knows what company she's keeping over THERE? I know other dead friends and relatives who might put her up to it, though! :-)
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Mariana, thank you for being so kind.
It brings a smile to my face to know that superstitions like I hear back home knows no boundaries and that the bayous spread them, too.
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Dame Ruth, I am getting slowly back to normal, thank you!
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Sandy, thanks for the hugs. I appreciate them so much!
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Aniko, if I added all the little details and pictures, it would make for a very interesting read but I am still too exhausted from it all to even think of it.