Williamsburg/James City County Corruption, Joseph Lakritz, Dorothy Lakritz
The Trial was about a month after the incident. My mother-in law, who had been living in the house had left town right after the hearing, but returned for the trial.
The day before the trial, a phone call was logged onto my answering machine. It was placed from a cell phone. The Assistant DA left a message that he had called, nothing more. By the time I got home from work, I could not reach him. I was able to finally get him to pick-up the phone the next morning at 11:00 AM. He informed me that I could not use the medical evidence because I did not subpoena the doctor to vouch for the validity of it. I asked him to request a continuance. He refused telling me that "You are supposed to know who you are to subpoena."
The trial was scheduled for 2 Pm. I went to the doctor's office to request that he appear. The receptionist said it was not possible.
The courtroom was packed. Judge Killean was presiding. The cases involving the appearance of lawyers were called first. It is a courtesy as they often have to appear in more than one courtroom during any given time frame. Then the cases without lawyers were called. One by one, they were called and dispensed with. The entire time, my husband and his mother, along with their attorney (who I believe was Mr. Rizk, the ex-DA for James City County where the incident happened) sat waiting on the other side of the courtroom. The attorney never handled any other cases that afternoon.
Finally, about 4 PM, with the courtroom devoid of spectators, my case was called. I took the stand first. My mother-in-law was dressed in an oversized dress with a large flower print covered by a sweater that was obviously 10 sizes too big. The combination visibly reduced her actual size and made her look older than her years. She is eighty, but like my husband, exercises every day. She can drive across country at the drop of a hat. In fact, she just fell and broke her hip. Unlike most people her age, according to my husband and son, she was up and about in a couple of days. The short of it is her family lives to about 100. She and I are about the same size. A friend from Eastern State Hospital told me that he could see her attacking me. It happens all the time at the hospital.
I was called to the stand first. The DA only asked me to give my side of the story. He asked no other questions. When I mentioned that my son had held me son while my mother-in-law attacked me, her attorney objected saying that he was not there to testify because he would incriminate himself (???). I was never shown what evidence was being presented, even though the DA had copies of the photographs and the doctor's reports. Her attorney cross examined me, being belligerent. The DA never objected. After I testified, I was escorted from the courtroom by Laura French, an employee of the DA's office.
Next on the stand was the real estate agent. Judging from the amount of time between I left the courtroom and she exited, she either did not testify, or was not asked any questions. When she left, she came up to me and apologized for what had happened in the courtroom. I did not understand that statement until after the verdict.
I never saw the police officer leave. He probably exited through the holding cells. My husband was last on the stand to leave the courtroom before the verdict.
When we were called back in only a few minutes later, I was stunned by the verdict. Judge Killean stated "Not guilty for lack of evidence."
I had heard of the Williamsburg Railroad, the way women are treated by the courts and the police when they file for divorce. It was that day that I discovered it exists.
In order to stop this railroad dead in its tracks, I am pleading with the general public and the good people of Gather to contact Oprah and Dr. Phil. Hopefully, we can put an end to the treatment women receive here.


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Love and hugs - S.
Thanks to all of you.
Get that house sold and walk away from all of them.
Blessings
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how long ago has this been?
I believe the real estate agent should lose her license.
I can not get legal aid because I am half owner of the house he is living in rent free. As to the local counseling. They are funded by the very courts that railroad the women. No one who has gone through this trusts them. That's why we are pleading for help to get our cases noticed.
Something strange is happening here. You're saying ALL women's cases are handled this way? Have you requested a record of all the cases and determinations this jusge has handled? Have you written Virginia's Attorney General? If not, why not? The AG's office should be capable and willing to check into this.
Whatever letter/form you fill out for teh AG, do a complete job and copy it to your state's congressmen ... all of them. One of them is bound to get involved. I've a stepdaughter living in Va. I hopped on the AG and legislators about an off topic issue for her and they were very responsive. On the other hand, she got screwed on child support. The ex hasn't apid any for years and still gets the kids for visitation.
It's hard to believe that in this day and age a system could be this caveman biased? I hope you find the path that brings justice.
My home is not my castle, it is a place to wait for something else to happen.
First of all, why were you responsible for subpoenas at all? If you were filing criminal charges, that is the district attorney's job. So is validating the evidence. For you to need an attorney, there must have been civil charges involved, such as reimbursement for the medical bills, money for pain and suffering and such. If this was purely to file criminal charges you had no responsibility except to sign the charges that the DA filed and show up in court.
Second, have your husband, son, &/or MIL ever physically attacked you before, and what, if anything, did you do then? Have the police ever responded to a domestic violence between you, and did you later drop charges? I'm not being accusatory. This happens often, and sometimes for very valid reasons, the most common being fear. Women frequently know that the ink will not be dry on the complaint before their attacker is free on bail and able to attack them again. Restraining orders must be broken to be pursued, and by that time the woman could be dead, and she knows it. However, having dealt with hundreds of women in the ER and working ambulance calls, I also know how frustrating it is to spend literally hours with a victim, only to have her later drop charges. After that happens, law enforcement never takes you seriously again because they know they will spend hours on paperwork only to have it tossed "because I love him". I'm not saying that it's right, or that it's just, but it's reality. I've seen women come in to the ER beaten to a pulp over, and over, and over again, only to drop charges because "he didn't mean to do it, I just provoked him, it's my fault, I love him, he promises he'll never do it again". I know how frustrating it can be, and how you can eventually just give up trying to convince them that they MUST not drop charges, they MUST see this through, or they WILL be killed at some point. Eventually you simply give up, patch them up as best you can, and quit trying to help them because you know that you are wasting your time. Has this ever happened?
If you have had previous episodes of domestic battery, why did you go to the house without a witness or some backup? Why is evidence kept in your home, and why are there no copies of this evidence somewhere else? Why must YOU collect evidence? I cannot say this enough times. If you are trying to file criminal charges, it IS NOT YOUR JOB to collect or store evidence. This would only become your responsibility if you are pursuing civil charges.
I know I sound exactly like you are portraying the police to sound, but it is because I have been in that position far to many times. It makes you very skeptical when being asked for help by someone who has asked for help many times before and then refused the help when it actually happened.
It isn't my intent to hurt you, it honestly isn't, but this all sounds so awfully familiar that I can almost see the faces of the women that I begged to press charges.
I would love to join in by emailing Oprah and Dr. Phil. How does one go about doing it? Do you have their email addresses?
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers! And, together, let's try to put this "railroad" out of business!
They never told me my rights or what was going to happen. A victim in the dark is a victim who is easily handled.
I realize your skeptism is based in experience, but some of us are fighters. We fight for our sanity and our rights. Not all victims of violence remain that way, some of us wake up.
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If enough people around the country make a public outcry, I feel that we can get the legal assistance needed. If you know of anyone who can help us, please have them email as well.
Thank you, my Gather friends
It is horrible, but the only way to stop things like this is by shining the light on them - in this case, the spot light!!
No local light will shine on the dark hole of injustice or possible corruption. And the big city papers are too far away to care about the story. They don't get ad dollars from down here because they don't deliver down here.
Keep thinkin' though!
The downside is that because you lost round one, there is going to be very litle support from the local DA for round two.
It's a mess, certainly
even the States Attorney to help you out here. Go to
all newspaper offices an put this in print about all that
has happened to you. Someone is bound to come to
rescue you from this hopeless situation.
GOD and The Hillbilly is about a young woman I met on line that was in a very abusive marriage. She had 2 little kids. She was on the "slow" side. Anothe woman and I talked this young woman in to getting some help and getting away from him. I wish that women would get out of situations like this, that you are suffering with. I pray that you will be safe, I pray a hedge of protection and safety around you. I will write to Oprah and Dr. Phil also. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IN HIS LOVING CARE
If you own the property and have divorced an attorney from out of town maybe , can request in a settlement for the property to be sold or for him to pay you off.
In Virginia they are not easy on women's abuse, not in my area.
Either your ex is a well known figure with lots of friends or there are parts of the story
you have left out, so it is hard to understand the facts.
I would follow some of the advice above and get that house sold. If your husband makes it impossible to sell it, then you need to get a lawyer to compel him to do it. But you need to stay away from all of them. Your safety is not worth risking for a house or anything else.
It's sad that the legal system has let you down.
The purpose of writing this is not seeking sympathy for myself but justice for all the women and children in Virginia and reform of our court system.
As I just wrote to one of my connections who is very wise, Justice should be blind, not blinded by gold.
(being stalked by an ex, phone calls all night long threatening to kill me, my daughter AND my mother... police either completely useless or actually AIDING the perpetrator... having to have 3 or 4 people sleep over with me EVERY NIGHT to try and protect my daughter and I... releasing my ex the DAY AFTER he had come to my house -- drunk and with meth in his pocket who beat my face into a concrete step so many times that I still have the scar on my lip 25 years later -- and was arrested WITHOUT CALLING OR INFORMING ME IN ANY WAY so that I would know that he was "out and about")
the only thing that finally helped me get out of the situation was meeting a guy who I became involved with who is 6'2", 190 lbs., former 1st Cavalry, helicopter "door gunner" in Nam who physically confronted my ex one evening when he was following us, got him up against a wall and asked him if there was anything he wanted to speak to him about...
After wordlessly shaking his head, we left him standing there and I never had another problem with him... (This was after a good YEAR of having to hide and run and being threatened and beaten and having my possessions, front door, windows smashed, all the tires on my car slashed and him lurking around my work and my friend's houses day and night...)
I'm still with "my hero" as I call him... 25 years later... we've been married for 10 years and the ex died of AIDS about 20 years ago... "Couldn't have happened to nicer guy" was all I could say when I was told about his death...