With the end of the weekend so near I put on favorite pair of jeans and t-shirt and I went to the coffee the house!
I sat down in the middle of the room sipped on my drink and made myself seem busy. It did not take long for some guy "Jake". He first tried his player line on me and it was cheesy but I managed a chuckle. Then he asked what kind of music I liked and before long he was telling me how he lived at home because he was taking care of his parents. The story kept getting sadder and sadder and I reached into my purse for a tissue the story was getting thick.
The story started sounding like something he made up before he walked into the coffee shop and I tried every kind way of asking him to politely leave but no matter how hard I tried to get rid of him he kept coming back. I felt like I was swatting at a fly and finally had to be rude to him and tell him to leave me alone. He pretended like I was not worth his time and I was beneath him and walked off cursing.
With him finally gone I started thinking about what the heck he expected from me, he was not attractive to me. His aggressive behavior was complete turn-off but he wanted me to accept him? I have met this type guy so many times and all they are looking for his quick sex and not even a thank you. The total lack of respect for me was completely evident and I felt like a piece of meat in his eyes. Some thing for him to play with and not care to even ask my name.
Well, I guess I will be single another week
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I think in this situation it can be best stated, don't over analyze. A guy creeped you out at a coffee shop, not that big of a deal. You felt he wanted sex and used his mother has a ploy, so? That's his tactic. If it didn't work on you, then good for you, but no need to get worked up over it. There are creeps and then there are times when people do creepy stuff.
I, myself am a terrible flirt. Sometimes I say things out loud that should be only hinted about or lightly inferred, this I'm sure might come off as creepy to some. Then those people remove themselves and that's that. Not a big deal, after all sometimes the most outrageous things said out loud are what sparks the chemistry if it is the right combination of people. The chemistry between you and that guy wasn't there, but it isn't as though you put up a wall saying, "Don't hit on me, I don't want a man". If you are available you're going to get all kinds of respondents, and yes some are creepy, so is life.