For the first time since being on Gather, I have been bitten by the ratings monster several times in the past week. And as much as I have prided myself on not caring about ratings in the past, I have to say it stings to get that ugly number "1". It's easy to not care about the rating when you are receiving "10s". But something about that "1" sneaks up and zaps you.
So many questions come into play. And, of course, the first one is "Did my article suck bad enough to rate a 1?" The second question is "If it did, then why were all of the comments positive?" And then the third question is "If a person hated the article so much, why would the person not at least write a comment and give you some kind of critique?" And then, last of all I have to wonder if someone just doesn't like me....or perhaps someone needs to down others in order to look better himself.
After all of these questions have ran through my mind, I then smack myself over the head for letting it bother me. I write what I write. And I write from my heart...good or bad. My writing is more than a rating to me. My writing is an expression of who I am deep inside. And I don't really think anyone can put a rating on that.


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P.S. I reposted this again because I needed to deal with the typos. Maybe I'm shooting blind here, but the rating system doesn't bother me because of what I said above. The whole point of Gather (ergo the name) is to gather and thus we build relationships with others. I'm sure we, with the exception of a few, seldom rate things as they should be rated because we consider the author a cyberspace buddy. The only time I feel perfectly honest about rating things is on the E network's site dealing with the clothes the stars are wearing. I'm sure if I had even the remotest relationship with Paris Hilton I would probably rate her differently. Otherwise, if I extremely moved by an article I will give it a ten or nothing.
I wish people could rate for quality, content, style etc, so we could actually learn from the ratings. Some very clever pieces have poor grammar, or well-written pieces need a spellcheck, or whatever. That doesn't make them worth a 1.
I still think that people who give 1 ratings are doing it out of spitefullness but, there's nothing you can do about it.
Oh and by the way...yeah...I rated this a *10* so who ever that ugly 1 rating bugger is can stick it up their nose...oops, did I say that...
The proof of the pudding is in the eating. Your pudding keeps tasting better and better. The '1' sneaks don't read; they just hoot and howl, pleased with themselves. How powerful they must feel for a split second when their finger lingers over that score. Click. Power gone.
Your poems will last; their numbers don't add up.
I agree with you !
I had a friend , years ago, who was your classic " man of few words". Whenever a situation would arise that got the whole crowd in an uproar, he always had the same opinion on whatever subject was being discussed. He'd simply say, " It's all goofy."
He was always right.
I think your friend was right. This does seem to be a bit of a 'tempest in a teapot'.