The following is Part V of a series drawn from memories of Massachusetts as a young boy. Although I grew up in Southern California during the 1950s, I traveled to Massachusetts several times with my mother. She referred to the West as the "frontier"; she called Boston, Massachusetts, "home."
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As snow turned to slush and slush to green grass in the Spring of 1951, Aunt Helen's farm became a universe of outdoor wonders for its young guest. For a three year-old, the area behind the farmhouse might as well have been endless space. There were no fences and I moved in any direction without constraint. I docked occasionally at my space station, an old garage and work shed with musty smells, hand tools and an oil-soaked floor.
Even greater wonders lay just an orbit away at the Duckworth farm. Mr. Duckworth (I can't remember a first name) cares for Aunt Helen when she needs a man's hands to take down the storm windows or fix the back door screen. I enjoy his pat on the head and the three older children that come to play with the new kid on the farm.

The greatest prize for this child rests in the Duckworth barn. The green John Deere tractor is parked there and in itself is a busy box of levers and wheels and tires that smell like a new mowed lawn. But the Deere is not the grand prize. Proudly parked astride the tractor is the Volunteer Fire Department's fire engine! I remember Mr. Duckworth lifting me over the chrome to the seat next to the driver, the same seat where the Dalmatian mascot rides in the Rheingold Beer advertisement. Bliss on planet Duckworth.
I remember enjoying many quiet and much less dramatic times with Aunt Helen. Born at the close of the Nineteenth Century, her generation witnessed first hand the birth of our Technical Age: telephones, automobiles, airplanes and a cornucopia of gadgets designed to liberate humans from mundane chores and increase our leisure time. I believe most of this passed by Aunt Helen as uneventfully as the last fading winds of a nor'easter. For one thing, leisure time is anathema to the Puritan lifestyle. She had been the wife of a Protestant minister in rural Massachusetts and dutifully filled each day with chores and devotion. Aunt Helen never drove a car or flew in an airplane. As I mentioned previously, she heated water on the stove and chilled food with ice in an icebox. The new television craze never blinked black and white shadows in her parlor. If she had a radio, I don't remember ever hearing it play. The Korean War raged on but unless Mr. Duckworth mentioned it, those events were as remote to Aunt Helen as melting polar caps on planet Mars.
I do remember one technical innovation that excited her. I know this because she showed me many times. With failing eyesight due to cataracts and age, it had become increasingly difficult for Aunt Helen to thread a needle. Sewing was central to her day of small but cherished accomplishments. Losing the ability to sew would most certainly challenge that stoic New England resolve.
A woman of few words, Aunt Helen silently beckoned me to come and see a most clever invention. Between her thumb and index finger I saw a shiny diamond shaped wire with a strand of thread passed through the diamond. She effortlessly passed the flexible wire through the eye miraculously threading the needle. She turned to me and said, "You see, now I can sew!"
One day, and probably at my mother's request, Mr. Duckworth came to the back door. He knocked politely and asked, "How about a drive to the beach? It's a nice spring day."
As unassuming as this invitation may seem, Aunt Helen had never been to the beach. She had never seen the Atlantic Ocean, smelled an ocean breeze or felt sand between her toes. After some coaxing from my mother, we were off to the beach with Mr. Duckworth and his kids. At my early age, I can't tell you where we went or how long we stayed. All that I have from that day to aid my memory is a photograph of Aunt Helen sitting on a pillow watching ocean waters lap the shore on a calm sunny day. There is a faint smile on her face and shoes on her feet. Aunt Helen saw the Atlantic but her feet would never touch sand.
More to come…
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
22 July 2006
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Comments: 23
Thank you. Little pieces of this story keep coming to me. Like an old dusty cupboard, my memory has some things on the shelves that I haven't disturbed in years.
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Colonel Possum
The anecdote about the diamond-shaped needle threading device is at once sad and touching, AND wildly inspriational. There is something about Aunt Helen that shrieks, "Way, way less is way, way more!" The trip to the beach also speaks volumes. Good work...no-- GREAT work!
When I was in the Air Force I had a very good friend named Tom. He was from Wisconsin and had never seen the ocean. One long weekend I decided we would drive down and out to Atlantic City. It was on my list of things to say I had done in life anyway, and that was to walk on The Boardwalk. No casino's then you know.
Anyway, the expression on his face as he pulled off his shoes, rolled his pants up, and waked out ankle deep in the water is something I will never forget. He was in awe of the size of the body of water before him, and his smile was ear to ear.
Of course I later informed him it was all wrong. With his puzzled look I informed him that the sun was supposed to set in the ocean, not rise from it........ ;-)
Thanks for sharing more of your life there guy.
Thank you very much for this comment. Upon recent reflection I am starting to realize that Aunt Helen had a significant influence on my life. She was in a sense a Zen Master going through life alone put in a very positive and minimalist way. My comment the other day, "Regard the beauty of a handwashed plate with the same respect as the morning cup of coffee," must have come right off her cupboard shelf!
Thanks again for the encouragement to write more.
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
Thank you! Your story means a lot to me because I've spent quite a bit of time in Northern Wisconsin and can imagine the expression of your friend's face when placed on the "big lakeshore." Zuma Beach would have probably done him in!
I'm glad you brought up the sun rising issue. Some years ago, I was on the island of Siapan. It is small enough to easily watch the sun rise and set over open water. This subconciously fouled up my directional compass and I had to really concentrate on where I was headed.
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Colonel Possum
Always a pleasure hearimg from you. Comments like yours keep me going. Aunt Helen was a special person in my early life. I recently started to see if I could find out more about her and the Duckworths via the Internet.
Thank you.
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
Yes that's true. One thing that struck me about the East Coast was the natural grass that grows in the sand.
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Colonel Possum
Yes it is a funny thing. For most of my adult life, I cherished the memories of my father who was my hero. But just this year (age 58), memories of my mother have been walking to center stage. I now realize how important she was in my early development and miss her strong example and dignity dearly. I also miss Aunt Helen.
Thank you for your thoughts,
Colonel Possum
You hit the nail on the head! Another aspect to all of this is how powerful and lasting the comments of adults are to children of this age. I am now reminded of this whenever I speak to a child. Thank you again.
Col. P.
Thank you. It was a fun trip in the time machine for me too!
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
You bring up a good point. Living most of my life in the West, I'm comfortable with large expanses, big mountains and a seemingly endless coastline. As a consequence, I agree that it is nearly inconceivable not to run to the water's edge, if not jump in headlong.
I believe it is also safe to say that at least in the older generations of some New Englanders, there was a more contained view of one's surroundings. This may be a hand-me-down from the early settlers who thought dark forests and stormy shores were far less appealing than a warm hearth and the comforting perimeter of one's stake of land. Many early Americans headed west, others stayed behnd. I believe Aunt Helen belonged to the latter group and was probably quite relieved to return to her farm after a day at the beach.
On a lighter note, the dust is getting a little thick over here at the OHC!
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
Great. Do dust bunnies get along with cats?
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Colonel Possum
Those older Protestants were a hardy lot! I believe Aunt Helen lived on U.S. HWY 6, west of Swansea, MA. I have recently written a Duckworth in Swansea (thanks to Google) to see if he has any connection to the Duckworths of my childhood memories.
I'll keep you posted. Thanks for your interest.
Cheers,
Colonel Possum
Oh OK, good idea. By the way checkout my comment on the image, you might be able to help me figure out exactly where this beach is.
Thanks,
Colonel Possum
Thank you very much. Your comment brings light to a cloudy Saturday morning.
Cheers,
Colonel Possum