The following is the first of a series drawn from memories of Massachusetts as a young boy. Although I grew up in Southern California during the 1950s, I traveled to Massachusetts several times with my mother. She referred to the West as the "frontier"; she called Boston, Massachusetts, "home."
In 1937, a doctor told my grandfather that his health was declining with a failing heart. He suggested that his middle-aged patient leave a successful grocery wholesale business in Marshall, Missouri, and move west to sunny California. This medical advice, not unique in those days, brought many Midwest families to California to seek health and new fortune. Many settled in the San Fernando Valley north of Los Angeles. My grandfather cashed out and bought a 45-acre citrus ranch there and my father and brother agreed to learn and run the business. So it happened that my grandfather, grandmother and their two sons set out for new adventures with probably much the same enthusiasm as earlier Missourians in covered wagons headed for the Promised Land.
The ranch prospered in a then bucolic San Fernando Valley and my grandfather's health improved. After my father and uncle returned from service in World War II, the ranch expanded into the poultry business. Again this was not unique to those times; there were many poultry and citrus enterprises in the new land of milk and honey or more appropriately, eggs and oranges. In those halcyon Valley days, Hollywood boomed just "over the hill", the California aqueduct brought water to Los Angeles and a great post-War migration to the west began.
During the war my father enlisted in the Navy and because of his age and educational background entered a "90-Day Wonder Program" at the Navy base in Norfolk, Virginia, designed to rapidly expand a Naval officer corps. He met my mother there who at the time worked for the Naval Submarine Research Laboratories as a secretary. My mother came from Boston, Massachusetts, although the story is not quite that simple. Her parents had emigrated from Norway to America, passing through Ellis Island the gateway to yet another Promised Land. Settling at first in Fitchburg, Massachusetts, tragedy came in quick succession to these new Americans. My mother's brother died suddenly of Leukemia and her mother was diagnosed with tuberculosis. In those days, tuberculosis meant a trip for life to the sanitarium and my grandfather quickly headed back to Norway. Without the chance for a second son, Old World ways were a force greater than the plight of a young daughter in a foreign land. My abandoned mother grew up in foster homes in Massachusetts and by singular resolve excelled in her studies to eventually become a successful executive secretary in Boston. The timing of this makes that accomplishment even more significant. My mother landed her first job during the Great Stock Market Crash of 1929. She would tell me in later years of witnessing a man jump from a tall building during a bus ride to her first job interview. Her enduring words were, "If I could get a job under those circumstances, you can always find a job if you're willing to work!"
Hard work as a secretary in Boston's business district was the not the dream of this strong young woman. She had taken classes in drama and art, but the hard realities of those times trumped the desires of a creative spirit. It would take many years to rekindle those spirits but under enormously different circumstances. She would eventually marry a successful Boston businessman who was on his way to make a "Million" by his thirties. This was a mark of "having arrived" in Boston society in those days and the mark apparently became more important than a wife and thoughts of family. Divorce followed and my strong and adventurous mother decided that a trip to Europe in 1939 would provide the elixir for new beginnings. Again timing was everything in my poor mother's life. I remember great stories of her being hassled by obnoxious Nazi tourists on a Mediterranean cruise and a bold train trip through Switzerland to avoid the clutch of war.
Back safely again in the States, and for reasons not completely clear to me, my mother eventually ended up working at the Naval Submarine Research Laboratories in Norfolk. After meeting a proud graduating Lieutenant j.g., she and my father took the train to San Francisco to marry. The honeymoon was short. The next day after marriage, my mother and many other women in a similar circumstance went to the top of the Mark Hopkins Hotel at the crest of Nob Hill. There they sadly watched their men pass under the Golden Gate Bridge on their way to war.
The next in the Series: Part II Part III
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Colonel Possum
19 June 2006
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Comments: 38
Thank you for your positive support and wonderful comment. The roots of where we come from are important. In my mother's case, an Ellis Island simplification of her parent's last name and then early abandonement left few clues to the Norwegian past. Her mother was from Bergen, Norway; her father, from Oslo. I had the good fortune to take her back to Norway for a trip before she passed away in 1969.
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Thank you your beautiful comment on my mother. Art was the single lifeline that pulled her through an otherwise difficult life. As you might expect she didn't take well to others (including her son) whinning about their problems.
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Colonel Possum
Are you from the "Valley"? I'd very much like to read some of your memories. John S. and I have been trading tales about growing up in the Valley during the 1950-60s for some time.
Thank you for your comment!
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Thank you very much for your comment. The memory of my mother and father is honored by your thoughts.
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Colonel Possum
What an interesting life! And the above taken from your article is such an inspiration. Thanks!
I appreciate your thoughtful comment. My Mother's words have given me the strength to carry on more than once in my life.
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Colonel Possum
I can imagine every single sailor wondering, when he first met her, whether he should salute her despite her civilian status. I would. And I'm a civilian myself. //FCR
First of all it is great hearing from you. Your positive comments months ago helped shape an early opinion that Gather was a great community of folks. Thank you.
Yes, you hit the nail on the head. Between my father and mother I bet you can guess who was the disciplinarian. The "look" was all it took to shape up an errant son.
I hope all is well with you. I understand Astro is in some far off spaceship with only a dial-up connection to planet earth! By the way, I hope you can make the OHC Fourt of July Picnic, OHC Picnic
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Colonel Possum
"No wonder when the going is tough, the tough get going" says it all. Thank you for your positive comment, it keeps me going!
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Colonel Possum
I do too. Got the next one in the oven, stay tuned. Thank you very much!
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Colonel Possum
My parents moved to the Valley after the war in '47 (I think) from New Jersey. My father had been in the Army Air Corps. My Mom was born in Ohio, and my dad NJ. He got a job at Lockheed as a Wind Tunnel operator right after moving to North Hollywood. When I first went to work at Hughes, I used his original tool box for a while.
Thanks for the article.
That is really cool about your dad's toolbox. My father was a pretty good carpenter but never used electric tools. I still have many of his old "manual" tools. I remember in his late fifties, my father finally bought a 1/4" electric drill.
Lockheed was so much a part of the Valley, I loved to go to the Burbank airport with my dad and watch the planes.
Thanks for more memories and you positive input!
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Colonel Possum
Thanks, I'm working on the next one. I bet Miss Ellie Mae is growing by leaps and bounds!
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Colonel Possum
Thank you. I know my mother senses that she really has gone back to Boston tonight!
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Colonel Possum
Thank you very much! I'm working on the fourth in the series. Please stay tuned.
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Colonel Possum
You've nailed the American narrative. You've managed to evoke emotions using what, on the surface, appear to be simple historical facts. You are telling the story of us all in a way that is uplifting in a casual yet profound way. This is a pleasure to read.
Thank you for your continued support. I'm having my morning cofffee and it is always a delight to see that dolphin in the morning. I want to give him a treat!
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Colonel Possum
Thank you! My mother really was a woman ahead of her times. She ate natural foods (in the 1950s!) to the the great disdain of her husband and son. There was a little book she wanted me to read that predicted the benefical impact that computers would have on ordinary lives. This was in the early 1960s and all I can remember was "Cyber-(something)" in the title. Do you know what it might have been? Of course I was too busy doing something else.
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Colonel Possum
Thank you. You have great way of making the ole Colonel feel good on a Saturday morning! Say, my comment to Cheryl got me thinking about that book on computers (see above). Do you know what it might have been?
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Colonel Possum
I appreciate your comment very much. The pasing down of stories keeps us human. I hope to spin a few more tales. Enjoy your age!
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Colonel Possum.
When Tom Brokaw coined the phrase "Greatest Generation", I think he hit the nail on the head! Everything about the 1940s look was great.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment,
Colonel Possum
Thanks. I hope to write a few more. When are you coming over to the OHC?
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Colonel Possum
Your mother was a strong woman, and I am enjoying meeting her.
Gee, I wish I'd seen this comment a few days ago. Ironically after we were chased out of the valley by the crush of home development, the family bought a ranch in Ventura that had walnuts and our Valley chickens.
My mother would have been pleased by your comment! Thanks.
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Colonel Possum