I have two children. My daughter, Haley, is six years old; she'll be seven next May. My son, Parker, is four years old and will be five come January. So I've been a mother for just over six years. In that time, sure there have been a few injuries - a scrape here, a cut there, a splinter (or six) - but nothing very serious. Parker once knocked a big place out of his face between his eyes by falling off the pew at church and hitting the rack on the pew in front of us that holds the hymnals. He's still got a scar there. Then there was the time he rammed his tooth through his mouth; still a scar from that one too. Haley once cut her eyeball with a piece of paper, and we took her to the emergency room, only to discover that things were fine and the eyes heal very quickly. Of course, there was the time the kids were running like wild animals around the yard and slammed right into each other, busting Haley's lip pretty good, which then swelled up to about twice its usual size. As you can see, all injuries have been slight. Not much blood involved, and overal, not a great deal of pain. There were tears aplenty, but in the end everything was alright.
These injuries certainly didn't prepare me for my most terrifying mommy moment yesterday evening. Haley and Parker were outside jumping on our trampoline with one of the girls I take care of in the afternoons after school. I had all the windows open in the house, because it was such a beautiful day outside, and I was sitting in our living room talking to the two older girls I take care of. Suddenly I hear both Haley and Parker screaming and crying, and I know instantly that these are "hurt cries"; real hurt cries. If you're a mother you know what I mean. If you're a dog owner you'll understand too. You get to know your dog's barks. You know what an "intruder" bark sounds like; you know what a "let's play" bark is like; you know the "I need to go out and pee" bark; etc. Same thing with kids. I know what their cries are - the fake ones, the real ones, the slightly hurt ones, etc. These were hurt cries - hurt and scared.
I jump up and run out the front door and onto the front porch. Parker is in the lead running around the corner of the house from the trampoline. He's holding his chin and screaming and crying for all he's worth. Haley's in bethind him, coming more slowly, and holding the side of her head. Parker gets to me, and I pick him up, asking what happened and what's wrong. Then I look at Haley and blood is all over her shirt, the side of her face, her hair, her head, and it's still pouring from the side of her head. I mean literally pouring - dripping everywhere. She's screaming and bawling and saying her head hurts. I cannot even begin to describe my feelings at that moment - fear, concern, worry, terror.
I'll spare everyone all the details, but it took me like an hour to get the kids calmed down and cleaned up. Took even longer to get myself calmed down. Parker has a pretty good sized chunk out of his chin, and Haley has a rather large gash in her head. I'm still wondering if she might need stitches or something. I was sure we'd need to take them to the emergency room, but hubby convinced me that they were probably okay. All that blood was just so terrifying. I'm not squeamish or anything like that, and I'm usually pretty calm in an emergency situation, but the sight of all that blood pouring from my little girl's head is a sight I hope to never see again.


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Two years ago, over the weekend where Hubby was changing jobs (IE: without insurance for 2 whole freaking days), the neighbor boy threw a grill brush at Raegan- the kind with the metal scraper on the end. Split her head open, she had a goose egg the size of a golf ball instantly, and blood was just pouring from it. She was terrified, the other kids were terrified, and I'm sitting there wondering how we're going to pay the ER bill. Thankfully, the ER decided for us. They let us sit in the waiting area for over 4 hours before I finally had Nick look info up on how to treat it online, and we walked out. I was livid.
Some tips- make sure it stays clean. I used gauze, tape, and antibacterial gel 2x a day. If the cut is longer than an 1.5 inches, get it stitched, because it'll take longer to heal. Be careful with the hair brush ;)
I hope they are feeling better.
Trampolines scare me. My oldest fell through two of the springs one time and got a huge gash below his chin, behind his jaw. If it had gone further or had been back further I think it might have cut through to the inside of his mouth. I don't know what he cut it on but just the fact that my (then 6 year old) son could fall through those spaces made me wonder how safe they really are.
I hope both the kids will heal quickly.
My thoughts about trampolines: they should only be used when there are adequate spotters around the trampoline to push people back in toward the center if they are in danger of falling out.
I got a scalp wound a few weeks ago, when I was looking for books at the thrift store. A few huge kids books fell down from the top of the shelf system, and while it only gave me a one inch wound, it scared the heck out of everyone in that store myself included. I managed it with good cleaning, neosporin and no hair brushing at the spot for a few days. It healed very fast.
As far as the trampoline goes, anything can be dangerous....geez, Pher tripped over another Boy Scout's foot, fell and broke his wrist. Pher was pushed out of a tree (at age 6) by a neighbor boy (long story) and broke his arm in 2 places. Pher's broken 23 or 24 bones now and not once was it on the trampoline....and he's on it quite a bit.
Sorry not on line much lately. Swine flu has hit here in MI. Schools are all closed down. My daughter had strep throat and the flu and now I have caught it from her. Saw the doc too and am on antibiotics..miserable...ugh!
The other time with Seth was when he was in 1st grade. I always walked up towards his classroom when his teacher popped his head out. I was still a good distance away and she did the hurry motion. I hurried and Seth was sitting at one of the desks, another boy at another desk. Seth was holding something up to his head with blood. It turns out that Seth had hurried out of the classroom after school and another boy had already been running in the hallway (against the rules) and they slammed into each other. Seth's eyebrow split open. I took him home and then took him to the Urgent Care because I thought he'd need stitches but they were able to use glue instead. He still has a big scar there but luckily it's in his eyebrow and the hair covers it pretty well.
I'm glad that Haley and Parker are ok! Sometimes it's nerve wracking to have children!