INNOCENCE SOARING
...our Lord come to earth
in innocence shared
in humble birth,
to herald the place
in Heaven prepared
offering this gift
in grace from above
given to man
with the purest of love
the gift too, of will that remains
allowing belief, or from it refrain,
born to the world in humility
symbol for all eternity
and too, the forgiving
when man has forgotten
on his fellowman trod
has innocence ruined
gift of life so defiled
Christmas remains in the gift
of Christchild
our Lord come to earth
in innocence shared
in humble birth,
to herald the place
in Heaven prepared!
As a mother watching mothers and fathers and other loved ones as they struggle through
the loss of their children, whether actually one of the twenty children, or in the persons of
the teachers, administrators and others, I found it striking in listening to the hearts
of these parents as they spoke, even as they shed tears in the speaking, of FEELING the
depths of darkness that must have overcome the one who commited this deed.
Emilie Alice Parker's mother, through tears, exclaimed that hate was an emotion for which
she had no room, "It would completely overwhelm me!" Instead she chose to celebrate,
even in her anguish, still having her husband and Emilie's two younger sisters.
Never did I hear the word HATE but only hope in changing the situation that would cause
such suffering. I heard of the concern and wondering what the father of Adam Lanza, is
feeling, knowing his son is responsible for the grief of the world.
There is commonly talk about the good that always comes from out of bad. I could not think
in terms of good, only that attention will be paid more to what may keep the bad from
happening.
Greater attention to better systems dealing with ANY kind of emotional or mental condition
that is a detriment to the ones suffering these conditions, so that their feelings of inner pain
will become more evident and dealt with so as to free them and not to cause harm to
themselves or others.
One young man somehow caught in the down spiraling of the evil within his mind has made
an imprint on Sandy Hook Elementary School and the entire future of a Connecticut town
but has given an entire nation pause to consider what has not, up to this point, worked.
12.19.2012
Barbara H.




















Comments: 27
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I keep thinking how we will hear much more in the next year or two about how he was brought up. Plenty of autistic children never commit crimes. It takes a very special family to be able to spend their emotional resources on loving and accepthing a different child so that he can love himself, too.
Clearly, there was a lot going on in the family we don't know about. Mental health issues that result from a neuro-biological condition like autism aren't inherent in the condition, but are a result of how the child is treated.
In fact, when I came into this family by marriage I did not realize the older son was any different than his brothers or sisters (six children in all) I think it was because the same thing was expected of him with the same loving expectations as his siblings. The family remained aware of repetitive behavior and considered it as "it is what it is," and always encouraged proper behavior with great love and appreciation. John's siblings never displayed any shame because he was different and he grew to adulthood , graduated from college, has fraternal twin daughters who are very intelligent and he is a computer systems analyst.
I believe you are exactly right Kathryn, it is in the treatment....the tragedy is that
autism diagnoses has grown in frightening ratio and many parents are still living in fear and shame because of lack of support and misunderstanding...there are parents and groups working to provide information but all are still not privy...
Featured in the Triple Name Club.
And get rid of the guns.
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"Greater attention to better systems dealing with ANY kind of emotional or mental condition
that is a detriment to the ones suffering these conditions, so that their feelings of inner pain
will become more evident and dealt with so as to free them and not to cause harm to
themselves or others." Your thoughts echo mine exactly. Write on!!