So first things first do not judge my bestie. She is my sister for all intent and purpose and in every way but blood. Besides anything you call or tell her probably has already been said by me.
She called me last night, pretty drunk. It started out as just a fun thing but it became a pity party. She's been complicating her situation and I've been trying to simplify it. Last night though it got kind of out of hand. Her boyfriend Mark, started yelling at her because she hadn't text or called him all day. Well her son had her phone and he was at Otakon. That was when it started.
Then she got tired of everything being her fault. Somehow it went from that to his blown up car and how everyone blamed her for it. Of course he never told anyone he over revved the car to make it blow. They kept fighting and hanging up on each other, she's sitting there blaming herself what's going on. She seems to think that her being herself causes men to go nuts. And I mean she was bawling. I started yelling at her. Those who don't know us would probably think I was harsh on her but trust me I wasn't. She did stop crying and the next thing I know ten minutes later she's bawling even harder now. Mark said to her that he didn't care about her kid at all.
Now let me clarify this up. Mark is the one that has been trying to act like a father to him. Trying to be all buddy buddy with him driving him to chuck-e-cheese with her and he re-built her son's room. Like this phrase coming from his mouth was so out there I had to have her repeat herself a few times to be sure I heard her right.
When she gets off work today she's going to sit and talk to him and we're both pretty sure this is the break up talk. I told she should have done it way before now because she hasn't felt the same way about him in a while. My whole fear with it was he's like completely obsessed. I was scared what would happen if she stayed with him and this is what happened.