Today, we had already filed for a resatraining order. Today we just had to appear with our attorney. The restraining order has a whole history of his batterring women. The judge took one look and granted it. That is the first step.
The Divorce papers are filed as well. Now he has to discontinue harassing us by calling 10 - 12 times a day. He cannot ask for or take anything else out of the house. This is such a relief, maybe now we can sleep at night.