Â Why your teenager just doesn't get it! I recently discovered that asking a teenager why they did something is just like blowing spit into a fan. You get little back, and what you get back, you wish you did not get back.
A teenager does not know why they did something; they just did it! So stop asking why and start asking what. What do you want to accomplish? That's the right question to ask a teen who does not want to go to college, or do their homework. What do they want, and how do they intend to reach their goal?Â