I met someone once that was so afraid he was being cheated on, he had cameras installed in his home. His fear had him convinced his wife was sneaking around behind his back. hell, he was the one sneaking around behind her back - secretly watching everything she did. that's just creepy! what a painful way to live your life too. to live in such paranoia every day. good grief. Why would you even want to be with someone where all you felt was constant fear..? that's not love.
anyway, come to find out , he was doing the cheating. and that's why he knew she was too.
it was the old, "hmm. i'm always making excuses to be home late or unavailable for my secrets....come to think of it, she always has an excuse too. she's been home late a few times.... i'll bet she's cheating on me..?!?" he was just looking for something - anything - to catch her in the act of, so that he could feel justified for his affair... "well, i need to get it somewhere - you're the one getting it somewhere else. what am i supposed to do?" which doesn't even make any sense. lol
I've had my share of unhealthy, insecure relationships... i know what it's like to be watched... questioning everything that was said or done.... it destroyed the trust and the relationship. and when you aren't the one doing anything wrong... it's infuriating!!
if i knew then what i know now... i'd have handled things differently.
To start with, i would change all the names in my phone book to: None Of Your Business. and then wait to see how long it takes you to ask about it... i'm not snoopin through your phone why are you snoopin through mine? stalker. Ha!
This post is dedicated to those secretly watching, and for those being innocently watched....
if this were a (hidden) camera, I'd be barking like dog every time i walked past it.
I dare you to ask what i'm doing.... LOL
oh, and as for the wife, yeah, she was caught on camera. Too bad it ended in divorce, they were perfect for each other. I guess they both got what they deserved.
*the names and places have been changed to protect the innocent. lol.