by regina guthrey

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June 27, 2011 02:34 AM UTC

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Omg!!!

My so called husband should his A** the other night about 11:00 pm.

He came in from outside and started cussing and screaming at my kids and me and my cousin.

Told us we were all lazy and he has to do all the work around here.

Then he went on a cleaning spree throwing stuff away. Why do i have to put up with him.

Then tonight he came in the same time and did the same thing

My son leaves for church camp at 8:00 in the morning and he got him up to clean his room and the bathroom.

I dont mind him cleaning but dont cuss him and hollaring screaming acting a fool.

My mom and dad are here to watch our kids well we go do something on the weekends.

He started hollaring cussing her told her to get out of his house!

He forgot that I own this house too.

Told them they need to get there s*** and get out.

I think he has started drinking again not sure. Because he gets mad when he use to drink.

He has health issues and has no business doing that.

I told the other day to get out of the house and not come back.

I guess i will have to kick out for good now.

I hate too but i can not handle all this crap.

Prayers are needed.

Thanks for stopping by and listening.

Hope everyone has a wondeful day!

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Comments: 30

Darlene B. Jun 27, 2011, 3:01am UTC

Hello Regina, I believe prayers and a lot of marriage counseling by a ministry or professional advocate on angry management are in need for both you and your husband.
Much LOVE I send your way as you personally focus on keeping the family together.
God cares

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:48pm UTC

Thanks! We need to do something. He sees mental health doc and so do i
but as any ones knows beer and meds. dont mix

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Nancy O. Jun 27, 2011, 3:57am UTC

sorry to hear that you are having a tough time ...seems people in general are on edge with the economy , politics, health issues , etc.....I wish you and your family the best

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:48pm UTC

Thanks!

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wendy st. john-devereaux Jun 27, 2011, 6:39am UTC

hi...so sorry to hear about your troubles.....

please do yourself and family a favor, and do not put up with his abusive behavior.....do whatever is needed to get help, get him out of there, whatever it takes...

i will be praying for you and your family

blessings

Denise L. Jun 27, 2011, 9:04am UTC

I'm with Wendy. Do whatever is needed to get help. I put up with that kind of abusive behavior for years and wish I had dealt with back then instead of letting it ruin my mental health and my life. It's not worth it.

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:49pm UTC

Thanks to the both of ya!

He is gone today and I hope tonight.

Driving me crazy

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Rebecca P. Jun 27, 2011, 6:44am UTC

Sending many prayers your way. Personally there is never an excuse to talk to anyone as your husband is. I hope things get better/he gets help.

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:51pm UTC

Thanks for stipping by

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:53pm UTC

Thanks for stopping by

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Debbie W. Jun 27, 2011, 8:22am UTC

You must feel so sad about this. It has to be hard to deal with someone who won't do what is right. You have some difficult decisions to make, but keeping yourself and your kids safe is the number one priority.

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:54pm UTC

Yes i am sad and mad at the same time.

Guess he thought i was crying about him leaving but my son went to church camp today and I just did not want him to go because i will miss him.

But he will be fine for a week

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Pamela Marks Jun 27, 2011, 8:41am UTC

prayers coming your way

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:54pm UTC

Thanks

Pamela Marks Jun 27, 2011, 2:38pm UTC

your welcome

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Diane Huizenga Jun 27, 2011, 9:06am UTC

Drinking makes lots of people act like fools, hope things get better for you.

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 1:55pm UTC

Yes it does.

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Shannon R. Jun 27, 2011, 9:52am UTC

I'm sorry he acts that way espically in front of kids

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 2:11pm UTC

Thanks Hopefully if he comes back here he will have a different attuide.
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michele r. Jun 27, 2011, 11:17am UTC

I am sorry. YOU and your family are in my prayers. My fiance is a recovering alcoholic and it is not easy living with an alcoholic. Has he ever been in a 12 step program or anything? Some people like them and some people don't like them but the local one here did a world of good for my fiance. We just celebrated his 1 year sober a few weeks ago. Just remember you have to look after yourself and your children. If he is going to act that way he should not be around. Take care and feel free to PM me to vent!

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 2:14pm UTC

Thanks Michele! Well he and I have not drinked any thing since Jan 21 2007.
That is the day he had a heartack.
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\Then He also quit smoking!

But a couple months ago we were at the casino and he said oh we will just drink when we come here.

Well from then on he has been drinking. He buys Mike's by the case now.

I go talk to my therpyist Wed. I will talk to them about him.

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Lori A Jun 27, 2011, 11:29am UTC

I'm sorry to hear this Regina I will pray for him tonight -my second husband was an alcoholic and often did this too its really hard sometimes

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 2:15pm UTC

I know what you mean.

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Debbie T. Jun 27, 2011, 11:39am UTC

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. You don't deserve to be treated this way. I hope you find the strength to be strong and get through this tough time.

regina guthrey Jun 27, 2011, 2:16pm UTC

Thanks for stopping by. I have strength but do I use it.

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Otelia S. Jun 27, 2011, 4:03pm UTC

Don't you just hate it when you discover you are in love with a Mad man, I know it broke my heart when I discovered it. In his defense, he was on five different medications with more serious side effects than his condition but that doesn't mean I enjoyed being his personal, anger management and complaint center and so I told him that,,,,,threatened to leave him , take my kids and he stop acting out on us and start "Trying"to do better and even though he slips up still at times,he now knows that I'm not taking too much off of him. I do pray for your situation because I know even when they're like that.....we still love em, so I do hope he sees the light(damage) soon and treat you like the beautiful person that you are.

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Janet "Jax" B. Jun 27, 2011, 10:08pm UTC

That does sound like he might be on something...I hope it gets better for you.

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Junior (THIRDSTONE) L. Jun 28, 2011, 2:08am UTC

my guess is when he is not drinking, he is a completely different person. When someone drinks and is out of control like that, it is very hard to straighten them out. Will send some prayers your way.

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August Lady Jul 11, 2011, 9:00am UTC

So hoping things are better by now!

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