The real victim in Arnold Schwarzenegger's fathering of an illegitimate child is the child. Children need to feel secure about who they are, and Schwarzenegger's infidelity hurts not only his wife, but his own children; however, the one who is hurt the most is the child he fathered. Did this child grow up thinking his or her father was a different man? Did he or she think he was part of one family only to find the he is part of another?
The only solace here is money, and I hope Schwarzenegger pays through the proverbial nose to this child. What an awful thing to do. He has apologized to his wife and children, but the ramifications go far beyond his apology. People who are unfaithful are the lowest form of life.