by little pixie
Member since:
September 12, 2009

Still care for my friend

March 11, 2011 09:21 PM UTC (Updated: March 11, 2011 09:25 PM UTC)
views: 0 | 2 people recommend this | comments: 14

well, i have had a nice long friendly conversation with my ex, now just best friend again.  yesterday he went into emergency surgery.  his appendix was very close to rupturing and i am happy to say he is okay, and is on his way to recovery.  he texted me today, which eased my worry.  i asked him if i could visit him while he is recovering at home.  he said and i quot "yes, indeed :)"  he is silly that way.  he thought i meant today, and was saying he would meet me on the front porch, because i have never driven to his house before.  i was sad to say i had no way of getting to his house.  he seemed so excited about the idea of me coming to visit him. it broke my heart to say that i could not do so.  i plan on visiting Sunday, hopefully.  he will be out for the whole week! school is not going to be the same without him there. he is like a sun ray in the misted of a fog, when it comes to that school full of boring repetition.

 

Comments: 14

Jeff G. Mar 11, 2011, 9:45pm UTC
This is good news, Pixie. At least you didn't lose him altogether. Just don't let it go back to where it was before.
little pixie Mar 11, 2011, 9:57pm UTC
yes, i still love him very much, but i understand that, that is not what fate had intended for us. i am his best friend and that means a lot to me. i plan on distracting him with stories and maybe some of my famous makeup tattoos and stuff like that.
Janet "Jax" B. Mar 11, 2011, 9:51pm UTC
Wow glad the docs caught it in time....that can be scary. I hope you're able to get over there so see him
little pixie Mar 11, 2011, 9:58pm UTC
you can beat your bottom dollar i will get over there as soon as i can!
Morgan Dunn Mar 11, 2011, 10:08pm UTC
That is wonderful that you guys have been able to remain friends! I hope that if my husband and I ever get divorced that we could remain great friends! Inspired!
little pixie Mar 11, 2011, 10:42pm UTC
yes, we have a strong connection even though it did not work out as an relationship.
Sandy Moore Mar 12, 2011, 2:14am UTC
This is great that you two talked and hopefully you get to see him. Remaining friends is a good healing for you. But I am keeping my fingers crossed.
little pixie Mar 12, 2011, 7:59pm UTC
i am fine that we are just friends, we acted no different as a couple than when we were friends.
Sandy Moore Mar 12, 2011, 8:03pm UTC
I am happy for you.
Nurse Nancy S. Mar 12, 2011, 6:22am UTC
Sometimes it is better to be friends than lovers. Not everyone was meant to be emotionally involved. Sounds like you have a wonderful friend. Keep that friendship close to your heart!!!
Bernard C. Mar 12, 2011, 7:14am UTC
Good friends should remain friends - they are hard to find wherever they may be - relationships are indeed something else - Its good to hear that he is recovering...school is as it always was, a place of learning, and can be a good overall experience. Chin up hey! Have a great weekend :-)

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lena k. Mar 13, 2011, 8:48pm UTC
good luck too him
Marysia M Apr 17, 2011, 2:30pm UTC
thanks for the post

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