Well, on Thursday my sis and I got into it AGAIN. Over her guy friend making sexual comments about our younger sister. I got so fed up with this guy he is 22 and he honestly walks around talking like he is one of the girls on Jersey Shore. And he is straight because every time my 19 year sister has a bit much to drink he seduces her and no one sees anything wrong with this, I'm just afraid that he is going to start doing that to my 15 year old sister since he already is making these comments about her. So, my sister and I are screaming at each other over this because she just doesn't see what a nasty perv this guy is and she is so stupid you couldn't hit her upside the head with an iron post and knock any sense into her. And, yes, we did come to blows... well she did... I just smacked her like the little brat she is. So, then she went crying to mommy and I ended up homeless. Yes, just like that, and in 4 days I haven't heard anything from my mom she really doesn't care if I'm alive or dead.
Anyhow, so later that day I noticed the ring on my right hand (from my boyfriend) was a little tight and the finger was a little sore. I didn't think anything of it until that evening and then I realized I might want to take the ring off. I got out the dish soap and cold water but it would not come off. My boyfriend and his mother suggested that I try to get out the PAM and spray it down, but I didn't think that would help matters anymore. I decided to just leave it, I didn't think the finger could possibly swell anymore than that! So, I went to bed. The next morning I FLIPPED when I saw the finger, it was in severe pain and it was swelling more and a little discolored! I called my instructor and told him that I was pretty sure my finger was broken. Then I called my boyfriend and let him know I was going to the ER. I was freaking out the entire time imagining them needing to chop off my finger because I didn't take care of it earlier. I was so scared. My boyfriend got there not long after me. He was so great. He held my hand when they cut off the ring (that is a hot and painful process if you have never had it done... I cried like a baby) he promised to get the ring soldered back together for me as soon as the swelling went back down too. I love him. He even parked my car in the regular hospital parking and told them to give me pain meds because he would be driving me for the rest of the day. (His sweetness over this situation did not stop there, but I have to save the rest for another post because it that part gets kind of gross. Lol)
Anyhow, the whole point of this post was to mention that went I stepped on the scales I realized that I have gained 35 lbs in the past 11 months since my boyfriend and I got together. No wonder my mother has been trashing me for my weight! Yikes. But, oh well, my boyfriend claims to like fat girls so I'm not going to beat myself up about it. I have to much other stuff to worry about right now! But, I just though to update on my weight. Funny how that stuff creeps up on you!
Oh and my finger is NOT broke, just jammed, it should be better within the week.
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a) SISTERS: The guy pal is a perverted bastard, and needs to be kicked in his teeny-tiny-man-bits!!! The sisters need to be taught how to defend themselves. Teach your sisters how to yell "NO" loud enough that they can be heard a mile away, how to scream RAPE, even if it hasn't come to that, or FIRE, or anything else they can scream to get attention. Teach them how to scream things that will get attention to the situation, how to fight physically (I've got a few women's self defense courses under my belt, and Walker's a Viet Nam vet who knows "200 un-armed ways to make it looks like an accident"). Do whatever you need to do to protect those sisters of yours, since your mother doesn't seem to give a shit.
b) Ring: Did you break your finger fighting with your sister? If so, you've got a great story saying you broke it, depending your little sisters. Maybe you can find a way to legally stick it to the guy for acting up, causing your sister to act against you, and for you to fight back in order to protect your other sisters from his perversions. Hey, frivolous law-suits spring up in all kinds of ways, and that one's no so frivolous since you were defending someone. Maybe you'll get the money to get your finances back on track! LOL I would, if I were in that situation.
c) Weight. Go look at my pics and my videos. I a'int petit, but I sure am goodlooking!!! I've seen your pictures, and you look great, and will continue to look great regardless of how much you weigh.
a) I know, that guy is sick, I don't know why my 19 year sister acts like it isn't anything and my mom backs her up 100%. My mom is mad at me that the 15 year old called DFS on the 19 year old for beating her up, but you know what? As soon as my stuff is out of the house I'M calling DFS on my mom for letting a creep like that around her daughter.
b) no the finger isn't broken... I kind of wish it was. Like you said it's an awesome lawsuit, and it would land my 19 year old sister back in jail where she belongs instead of being out drinking it up and hanging out with folks that I'm sure are encouraging her to break her probation in other ways too.
And what about the weight thing? Don't get hung up on that. None of my friends look like typical models, and we're all very very happy with ourselves.
Just do your best to exercise right, and eat right, and you'll be fine, regardless of your weight.
Your problem inspired me to talk about Walker. Maybe we can get the cops, and the other Vets up here involved (we live right next to the police station, and the Veterans club), and start a course here in Guelph for teenaged girls, on how to defend themselves.
I think it's awesome that you can fight off a marine. That's absolutely brilliant!!!
Is this a joke??
And it's not like I'm the ONLY good-looking woman in the world. There are millions of us around, we just have to ignore the stereotypes, and appreciate our beauty for what it is, and not for the idiotic stereotypes of magazines, and the weight-loss industry.
and I bet you're dang goodlooking to. :)
I have a few larger friends, and they are all with guys who love their bodies too.
But, yes, I do tend to swell all over with too much salt as well.
If, by some miracle, I'm able to get to my Dad's place for Christmas (long friggen story there!!!), I'm going to take a bottle of Sljivovica, and give it to him. I am NOT going to tell the guys to drink it slowly, and I'm NOT going to tell the guys to only drink it one shot at a time. tehehehehe Then I'm going to sit back, and enjoy the show. :) I'm also going to eat a lot of bread, and drink a glass of milk (nah, I hate milk, I'll just eat a tub of sour cream instead!), and then take some pepto to coat my stomach, and I'm going to drink a whole big glass of Sljivovica, and it won't affect me at all, because of all the food, water, and milk I'll have in me. The guys will be passing out left and right, and I'll be dancing around on the coffee table. Maybe I should get some tap shoes. Nothing nicer when you're hung over, than to have someone dancing around on a hard floor, in tap shoes! haha Just ask my husband about the time his wonderful ex-wife did that to him, when he was lying drunk on the hardwood floor one morning. The lady and I have nearly come to blows a few times, but we both agree on how to tease someone with a hangover. tehehe
Ever tried Sljivovica before? You'll love it!!!
When I was pregnant with my youngest daughter, I got stung on my finger just above my wedding ring. I removed the ring, left it off all day, but my finger felt fine, so I put it on later that evening. Within 15 minutes, my finger swelled up to the point of not being able to get it off. I kept cold washclothes on it through out the night, and the next morning, went into the jewelry store. They have a little tool that slides a protective thing under it, then it has a little hand crank saw that they use to cut through the ring. I have had to have 2 rings cut off now for different reasons, and that was what we did both times.
It saved me the huge hospital bills.
First a question. If your mother starts BS'ing you, is your boyfriend willing to stick up for you?
I would go to the Brother's place for Thanksgiving, and be as N I C E as possible. Let your mother be an ass and you be nice. Let the world see what a nice person you are, and what an ass she is. If I were there, I'd lend you one of my many many many recording devices I use to trap people who annoy me. LOL I think you read my posts in the past about the idiot in this building harassing me... I just got a microphone today for my iPod, and I never go anywhere without my camera. LOL That said, find a recording device of some sort, and stick it in your pocket, or down your blouse, or something. Record your mother being an ass, record yourself being nice, ignoring her completely. Do whatever you need to do to show your Mom you're not going to put up with her $H!T!! That way you look good infront of your daughter, and your mother looks bad infront of EVERYONE.
As for the BF standing up for you, your mother says something idiotic, and he says something like "Wow! Not something a good mother would say about her daughter. I love Kimberli, and am not going to listen to someone talk that way about someone I LOVE" (or whatever he would say). So not only does your mother say something to make herself look like an ass, but you do something to make yourself look good, and someone backs you up, which makes you look even better. AND they'll all be jealous because someone genuinely loves you more than ANYONE loves them!!!
A couple of years Dad gave me some static about not being in the mood to see me at Christmas, and my attitude was "I don't need his crap, my husband bought me a diamond necklace!" LOL OK I missed the shit out of my grandparents, and the 6 little ones (step-sib's kids and a new cousin), but I gave Dad the gift of knowing that no matter what he said to me, someone was going to treat me like a princess, whether he thought I deserved it or not!!!
Mind you compared to your mother, my Dad is the jewel in the Queen's crown, but still, even the best parents can be potentially annoying at times!!!
Walker and I have won a few battles that way. We just didn't do anything, just sat there and looked better than everyone else, by acting naturally, while the world around us made total jerks of themselves. :)
And be as loving as possible. Brag about eachother. Every chance he gets, your man should say aloud how wonderful you are, now sweet you are, how important you are to him, and you should do the same for him. Not in a dependent way, but in a complimenting way. I don't tell Walker I could never live without him, rather I tell him how much NICER he's made my life, and how much more fun and wonderful it is to live with him.
Hell yeah I could live without him if I had to, but I love him so much, why would I want to? :)
See where I'm going with this?
Yes, I'm going to talk this over with my boyfriend today since I owe my brother and his girlfriend and answer today.