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by Ann Marcaida
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January 7, 2008

Losing Your Religion: The Word is Life

September 19, 2010 11:19 AM UTC (Updated: September 30, 2010 02:01 PM UTC)
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Guest Author: Elena Margo Gould

"There are as many ways to God as there are created souls." (Sufi saying).

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould

We are all standing in a different spot on the planet, seeing the world with our individual eyes, relating to God from our own hearts.  We look to creation for connection, scan the horizon for a sign, comb the sand for broken pieces of the truth.

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould




You turn inward, enter into the depths of your soul and (e)merge with the words God whispered to you in the dark still quiet.

 

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould

 

You can share with others the wisdom you have gained; you can write it carefully in a Book.  But no matter how much they study, they will only see the shadow of your experience.

 

I must speak to God myself.

Copyright 2010, Elena Margo Gould




My unfolding will not match yours.  I will not be the same color, the same size, I will not have the same number of petals.  Your Book can keep me company, but it cannot tell me how to unfurl into the flower that I am.

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould

 

 

We can walk together, hand in hand, but we cannot enter the water in the exact same spot.  We cannot hear the exact same Word.

 

 

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould

 

Your path is only one path.  Your Book is only one book.


Your hell is only one fantasy.  Your God is only one face of the Divine.

 

Copyright 2010 by Elena Margo Gould




Don’t let your Book trap you within its pages.  Don’t limit God to ink on paper.  Don’t mistake the map for the Way.


Live the Word that breathes and pulses and moves you to joyful Union.

 

 

"A donkey with a load of holy books is still a donkey." (Sufi saying).

 

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Comments: 354

Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:20am UTC
First-time commenters are always welcome! Just send me a friend request.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:23am UTC
Link to the previous episode.
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Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:27am UTC
I'm especially excited because this is the first poetry (or prosetry) post to be featured on the main LYR forum.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:46am UTC
Let's hear it for Elena!
Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 2:14pm UTC
Woo HOOOOOOOO!
Kathryn Flynn Sep 19, 2010, 2:58pm UTC
It is wonderful~
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:22pm UTC
It's always a pleasure to hear a new voice here at LYR.
Veronica Hosking Sep 19, 2010, 11:27am UTC
The pictures bring the words alive. I don't think my shadow would be that high off the ground. ;)
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:30am UTC
Only a child could fly that high. That image reminds me of Plato's cave allegory.
Veronica Hosking Sep 19, 2010, 12:24pm UTC
It is amazing how many people see the shadows as reality. Does it make life more simple and easier to explain?
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 12:39pm UTC
Thank you for your comments, Veronica. I do think that people cling to various dogmas in an effort to give some stability and security to life, whose ever-changing character can cause all manner of anxiety.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 12:46pm UTC
After seeing that image, I began to (once again) ponder the fact that we only see a shadow of reality because it's filtered through our senses. If there is an afterlife, I'll wonder if we'll somehow get to experience reality without our senses intervening?
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 1:10pm UTC
Are you all familiar with Plato's metaphor of the Cave as a way to characterize how many people perceive reality as the shadows cast on the wall of the cave by the light behind them? Those who felicitously turn around will perceive how things really are.

It remains to be seen whether this is an unmitigated benefit since it's like eating the fruit the serpent gave Eve. If you believe ignorance is bliss, I hope it works for you. I prefer to have eaten of the fruit though to be holistically perceiving life--warts, hard knocks and all--is something I value.

Why? It seems truth seems to set us free, doesn't it? I envy those simple and pious enough to be content to see life in that way. I prefer an "NPR" approach and feel I have more choices in my existence, if that's a plus. It's not absolutely clear, is it? Not for me--sigh!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:14pm UTC
Frank - I find lots of food for thought in Plato's cave metaphor! I am with you... I'd rather meet life face to face than have it filtered into a sleep-inducing elixir.
Veronica Hosking Sep 19, 2010, 1:21pm UTC
I'm a humanist so yeah I like to turn around and see what's really going on, too. Not to mention I like keeping my feet firmly planted on the ground.
Veronica Hosking Sep 19, 2010, 2:40pm UTC
Or sometimes it is just easier to turn a blind eye to all the strife in the world than it is to trudge through it?
Kathryn Flynn Sep 19, 2010, 2:59pm UTC
Sometimes we forget that the internet is the cave, speaking of Plato's allegory.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:08pm UTC
That explains why the internet can be so weird. A cave within a cave!
Kathryn Flynn Sep 19, 2010, 3:13pm UTC
yes, and so easy to forget... a discussion about this with my husband this morning, who spends very little internet time.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 3:15pm UTC
The internet as the cave... sounds like a post in the making, Kathryn! I look forward to reading it soon! ;)
Frank Luke Sep 20, 2010, 2:04pm UTC
Internet as cave:

There will be those who are seriously asking and finding answers about life and existence and then those who spend their time and lives finding ways to distract themselves and prevent them from self-understanding.

The upside is that all the time spent online is a manifestation of human interconnectivity. The downside is a way to touch antennae to discuss superficial things and not really learning that much.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 7:45pm UTC
The internet has got to be a godsend for those who are housebound.
WM H. Sep 22, 2010, 9:11am UTC
"The internet has got to be a godsend for those who are housebound. "

And parents of students. How much easier and faster is Google as opposed to fumbling through the "card catelog" or "Readers Guide to Periodical Literature". Do they even make that anymore?
Veronica Hosking Sep 22, 2010, 11:09am UTC
It's great for us parents who can't drive and are not able to get their kids to the library in the first place. Both my girls know how to reference websites better than Mom. Of course when it comes to referencing an actual book, Mom gets called in.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 11:47am UTC
Also great for grad students. I don't even want to think about writing a thesis in the days of typewriters!
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:10pm UTC
Re: Internet a godsend for the housebound

Spending most of my waking hours painting in the peace and comfort of home, I've taken to being a conduit for all the fantastically exciting ideas and solutions offered on media--TV, radio (mainly NPR and BBC, and whereever
--routing them on to LYR and the other blogs I'm posting on.

There are so many smart people thinking up solutions and ideas to the challenges we're faced with that deserve more attn and currency. I feel useful in re-broadcasting them on the internet and hope some of them live to grow wings and fly with the help of internet connectivity.

What are useful tools for me are the radio and TV, a ready pen and notebook to jot down the keywords and link to the ideas, and the computer. Away we go! I feel useful, hope I'm not wasting my time.
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:14pm UTC
PBS' Nova program last night "Wha Darwin Never Knew" was a knockout interesting show highlighting "the best idea humans have ever had". Darwin is acknowledged to have opened the door to the idea of evolution and now with computers, researchers are forging ahead to tease out the way DNA has furthered the development of humans to become the dominator of the planet. I was thrillingly elucidated to learn what they have come up with. Check it out. Wow!!
Veronica Hosking Sep 22, 2010, 1:32pm UTC
My mom gave me the book, Charles and Emma, because Darwin was UU.
Veronica Hosking Sep 22, 2010, 1:37pm UTC
Here is the author's website
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:41pm UTC
Frank,

I wrote briefly about the wide applicability of game theory and evolution (a type of game theory) here. It turns out that game theory governs more things (for instance, economics and sometimes psychology) than Darwin could have guessed.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:42pm UTC
From my article (I'm posting this mainly for Frank and Sy):

"However, if evolution favors certain morals, regardless of the species in which they evolve, doesn't this mean that humans didn’t invent morals so much as discover them?"

If morals are discovered rather than invented, this puts them in the same realm as mathematical truths. Instead of being artifacts of our brain wiring, ethics may be part of the extrinsic reality of the universe."
Nippy Katz (Not his real name) Demigod about Town Sep 22, 2010, 6:10pm UTC
I've always been interested in math idealism. I'm not convinced that mathematical theorems are discovered, i. e. exist independently of hypothesis and proof, but it's a really fun concept. It's hard to say whether ideas have a life of their own like the Platonic forms. I have a hard enough time deciding how real my day to day experience is. :)
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 8:05pm UTC
That's a cool question to ponder. I believe most mathematicians consider math to be discovered, not invented. When my husband writes a new theorum, he does not consider himself the creator of it.
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 12:06pm UTC
I remember reading Adam Smith, some years after I had gone through my Stephen Jay Gould phase and made sense of evolutionary theory. I remember thinking, "This (the "invisible hand" of the market" is the same kind of system." But Smith wrote more than 80 years before Darwin.

(I find it absolutely side-splitting that folks who are convinced Darwin was wrong, wrong, wrong! are also complete believers in the wisdom of the market...)
Veronica Hosking Sep 23, 2010, 12:16pm UTC
I agree both theories prove out survival of the fittest.
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:18pm UTC
Exactly, Veronica. I believe that's how life on earth was formed-- molecules competing for raw materials and eventually becoming complex enough to form cells.
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:20pm UTC
Shira, My favorite quip to climate change denialists is to ask them if they are investing heavily in coastal real estate, especially in Florida. Those who don't believe in science usually believe in the almighty dollar.
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 4:34pm UTC
What amazes me is that the "free market" fundies accept the idea that multiple competing agents can produce economic optimization, but these same people insist that there MUST be a controlling intelligence behind biological diversity.

Climate change is a harder problem, since it would require people to change their everyday behavior. (But you're right -- people can be denialists on one level, and still act as if they accept the basic premise on some other level...)
Veronica Hosking Sep 23, 2010, 4:49pm UTC
Of course there can be a flood of agents and too much competition for people's money. My husband thinks the government shouldn't have bailed out the car companies. He keeps pointing to Ford who weathered the storm without government money. Hubby wanted survival of the fittest there, and thinks there are too many car manufacturers. He's thoughts are if one went belly up, the others should have been able to fill the gap. *shrug*
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:02am UTC
I can see your husband's point of view, but I think the bailout was the correct thing to do. It's clear that our economy was about to topple like a row of dominoes, leading to a depression and unspeakable suffering for many. The credit freeze was an indication of just how bad things were. Obama chose the humane solution.
aniko    Sep 29, 2010, 3:05am UTC
Veronica, your husband is right--if an American company had gone belly-up, another company would have filled the gap. Probably a Japanese one.

(Ask him if he likes that.) :)

Regarding theorems, my feeling is that even if the hypothesis is invented, the proof is discovered, but it could be that nothing separates "invented" and "discovered" here except such feelings.
Veronica Hosking Sep 29, 2010, 11:26am UTC
Aniko, he knows it would most likely be a foreign company to step in and said, they have plenty of US plants who cares where their headquarters are?
Veronica Hosking Sep 29, 2010, 11:29am UTC
My husband is for a global economy and doesn't see how where a company has its headquarters matters as long as jobs are being created where they are needed.
Ann Marcaida Sep 29, 2010, 12:53pm UTC
"My husband is for a global economy..."

Me. too. We don't have much choice-- it's coming whether we want it or not. (Although I've seen that Obama is pretty good at doing things that help to secure American interests).
Veronica Hosking Sep 29, 2010, 2:12pm UTC
My husband's company sells aLOT of machines to China and they are working on opening a market in India, too.
aniko    Sep 29, 2010, 9:34pm UTC
The global economy is a given, I think. What it should look like is what we're talking about here.

Companies (large enough to move abroad) don't create jobs "where they are needed". They create them where they can pay the workers less, provide fewer benefits, pay less in taxes, and have fewer environmental and worker protection regulations to comply with. (Plus a few more things--the cost of energy, security, etc.)
Veronica Hosking Sep 29, 2010, 9:41pm UTC
true but car companies are a different beast because it is cheaper to build most of them on the continent they will be bought than it is to ship them.
aniko    Sep 30, 2010, 2:26am UTC
It should be that way. I don't know if it is.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:34am UTC
This is featured at Gather's Best Writers and Artists due to the beauty of its prose.
Mark M. Sep 19, 2010, 12:03pm UTC
Your God is only one face of the Divine.

Are you sure about this? I'm not sure I understand what you mean when you exclaim "Your God" Is there somewhere where I can read a description of His attributes?

-Mark



Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 12:33pm UTC
Precisely the point! I do not believe there is any text could possibly contain enough of a description of anyone's God to satisfy a person's need to have a direct connection with the Divine.
Mark M. Sep 19, 2010, 1:07pm UTC
of anyone's God. . .

There you go again! You keep using this term God, yet it is completely without any objective meaning for me. Can you describe Who or what you are talking about or point to some description of His or its attributes? Thank you Elena!

-Mark
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:24pm UTC
You've caught me, Mark! I really don't enjoy using the word "God." I resonate much more deeply with a Native American term such as "The Great Spirit," or a reference such as "The Tao" or "Oneness." I believe that we can't really ever achieve an objective meaning for the Higher Power, it will always be subjective. I can tell you that for me, speaking only for myself, the way I have come to experience "God" is when I sense a depth of connection and meaning between me and anything else. When I am aware of a ground of being, when I can feel the water that my individual wave is a part of, then I know that there is an all-encompassing oneness that I belong to. I think that's why I appreciate the term "Tao" because it is not a personification so I don't get tripped up in the "who" or "what" that I associate with the term "God" because I was taught to. I can relax a little with the idea that the All is truly beyond my words.

I have a sneaky suspicion that my description will not be satisfactory, but I've done the best I can for now! I apologize in advance!
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 2:08pm UTC
Mark, re: speaking of God

Would you allow others to entertain personal concepts of God and accept that that's OK, we're allowed freedom of worship in whatever way we find works for us and doesn't harm others? To quarrel may be interesting but I believe any insistence of only as limited view of (God, It, even He/She/IT) is just that--limited. If you don't allow that right to worship, then I believe that exclusivity is maybe necessary for those who want ultimate answers and though it would be comforting re: belief and religion, I don't believe that's possible or even right.

I prefer to think of God (certainly not antthropomorphic) as a force, a property of Creation and esxistence, like say gravity, electricity, etc.

I even go so far as to say Creation is like a developing organism in a big Petrie dish, developing merrily given continued appropriate conditions. The omega point of this evolution is indeterminate but it seems we develop modifications that further our further survival in an enhanced way.

When we castigate God for allowing bad things to happen, I see it that the hands that created us, if that was what indeed the case, those hands and that God backed off to allow us to duke it out or figure out how to co-exist without self-destructing, It's how I counter "God works in mysterious ways, his wonder to behold" when we have to accept all the bad evil things humans can do when nature doesn't also takes away beleagured people.
Jerry Kays Sep 20, 2010, 3:26pm UTC
Mark, in answer to your question, try: GOD, ultimate truth ... God and god(s), less and lesser truths. :-)
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:04pm UTC
Frank,

"I prefer to think of God (certainly not antthropomorphic) as a force, a property of Creation and esxistence, like say gravity, electricity, etc."

Interesting. Would you say that God preceded existence?
Frank Luke Sep 21, 2010, 1:31pm UTC
Can I suggest that God and Creation are both elements in the optimal conditions that manifested them? I'm figuring this out as I go but it seems plausible to me.

I do not envision God as any anthropomorphic being but simply a force, like gravity or light.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:36pm UTC
So God did not create the universe?
Jerry Kays Sep 21, 2010, 2:26pm UTC
So God did not create the universe?

Just as there are more than one "definitions" of God (GOD and god(s)) ... there just must be different definitions of the universe going around ...

I maintain that many, if not most, people view the universe as those things sensed by their 5 objective senses ... the "material" universe ...

In order to adequately address what GOD amounts to, one must see the UNIverse as ALL INclusive ... that which covers all prospects that make IT up ... including the yet unknown POTENTIALS ... ALL and NOthing ... (+) and (-) which includes the opposites of the OBJECTIVE, the SUBJECTIVE ... which, under WHATEVER classification would include the Black Matter, Black Energy and whatever else may be related ... especially the as yet little known QUANTUM realm... IMnsHO.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 11:48am UTC
Quite true, Jerry. I've often wondered if God could be called into existence simply because lots of people believe in Him.
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:18pm UTC
Ann, re: God the creator of Creation

(He, She, It) was party to it, and the stuff, the stardust was also. The fortuitous convening of the two (simultaneously) resulted in Creation. Without "God", no Creation. Without stardust matter, no "God", Creator.

Plausible or not?
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:43pm UTC
Simultaneous creation of God and the universe sounds fine to me.
aniko    Sep 22, 2010, 8:25pm UTC
Creation is what would explain how the stuff/stardust came about. If it has always existed (not the current scientific understanding, but conceptually still possible, I think), then no Creation occured (as the steady state model held)... Unless you mean the creation of life?
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 8:53pm UTC
No, I'm not referring to the creation of life. I very much like the theory of cyclical universes, however, and I think that would make the question of "creation" more remote and less important.
aniko    Sep 22, 2010, 9:42pm UTC
Sorry, I meant to address Frank--he seems to have "stuff" present at the outset, which would mean Creation (of the universe itself, or of this universe) would have already taken place, or never needed to take place.

Cyclical universes is an interesting idea, and for all we know, it could be true. (I don't know if we would ever be able to prove it, though, since all our science is defined by and operates within this universe). But ultimately, it just adds another turtle to the pile... Each additional turtle is further away from us, but it's still a turtle, and not an answer. :)
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 12:13pm UTC
One thing that surprises me, given the scientific wrangling over origins (at least as far as I understand it, which isn't very far, lol)...

People have strong, persistent and almost unbudgeable intuitions about how things are. Some people feel absolutely convinced that the universe has a beginning and an end. Some people are absolutely convinced that if the universe inflates, it MUST later deflate.

This kind of certainty baffles and fascinates me. As far as I can tell, cosmologists have the same sort of intuitions, and thus fall into various camps... Where do these intuitions come from? If we all had the same intuition (as, for instance, we all share the concept of "cause and effect", despite its shortcomings), I could posit that this intuition was adaptive. With several, competing (but strongly held!) intuitions, I begin to think of game theory...
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:21pm UTC
ALWAYS think of game theory!
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:23pm UTC
Aniko, I do love the turtle pile. But do you think we could have a cat pile instead? (That seems a bit more feasible).
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 4:35pm UTC
Maybe compromise on armadillos?
Frank Luke Sep 23, 2010, 4:49pm UTC
Aniko. I'm positing in Frank's theory of Creation that stuff/stardust and (the agent that we term "Creator" but is actually merely another component of Creation) were equally symbiotically resulting in Creation.

Can you accept this? As I say, I'm going along figuring it out as I go.

??
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:06am UTC
I like the idea of a cat pile holding up the universe because:

1. They seem to have no bones, so they pile exceedingly well.

2. Since we are not sure about the ultimate creation, we could put Schrodinger's cat on the bottom. He exists in an indefinite state and will remain there until observed.
aniko    Sep 25, 2010, 1:22pm UTC
But Ann, how are you ever going to get those cats to cooperate? I think a universe based on a pile of cats would have collapsed by now. (I'm sure a smarter person could use some elegant math to prove this.)

I like the idea of Schrödinger's cat at the bottom, except for the problem of there not being a bottom. But then maybe that can be swept under uncertainty as well.

Frank, I don't understand what you mean by "Creation" if matter (stuff/stardust) already exists--that was what I was saying. When people speak about the origins of the universe, they usually mean how the stuff/stardust got here.
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 1:27pm UTC
Oh, the pride pile/pride-sleep is a well established instinct in cats-- if they like each other and/or are related (which is always questionable). I have the cat fur on my pajamas to prove it.
aniko    Sep 25, 2010, 2:00pm UTC
I'm familiar with the instinct--it's the "if" part I was wondering about. (Probably because the cat we had when I was a kid didn't choose me as her pillow but my dad.)
Ann Marcaida Sep 26, 2010, 7:45pm UTC
If the cats were black, that might explain the dark matter in the universe (shed fur).
aniko    Sep 29, 2010, 9:37pm UTC
You've got a complete and elegant theory, Ann--a wide range of observations explained in a single unifying framework. :)
Hilda Rivera Sep 19, 2010, 12:18pm UTC
This is incredibly beautiful writing, Elena. I'm curious to know if you had to edit much. Or was this more a stream-of-consciousness flow?
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 12:35pm UTC
Thank you Hilda! I wrote it rather quickly and then went over it carefully and changed a few words. I think it came out so easily because it is a theme that I have been mulling over for many years, so perhaps it had already had enough time to compose itself!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 12:39pm UTC
That's exactly what happened on my last post, "A Sermon to the World's Religious Leaders." It was a relief to finally put some of those feelings into words.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 12:43pm UTC
Shameless self-promotion: A Sermon to The World's Religious Leaders.
Kathryn Flynn Sep 19, 2010, 3:00pm UTC
It is very beautiful, Elena, and just what I needed today...
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 3:05pm UTC
I'm so glad to have been of assistance, Kathryn! :)
Hilda Rivera Sep 19, 2010, 3:12pm UTC
Currently #2 on Gather's "Most Discussed" list. It's such a pleasure to see great writing on that list.
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:25pm UTC
Ann, as "resident scientist" here, can you give your take on the contaminated eggs lately? Don't know who or where else to ask:

Would the idea of an earthworm farm underneath the cages to recycle all the waste be a help or not? Can earthworms do that? Then the earthworm waste could be recycled as fertilizer?

What do you or anyone say?
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:47pm UTC
Frank, if you're worried about Salmonella contamination in eggs, just make sure that your eggs are cooked all the way through. (It's also possible to vaccinate hens against Salmonella, but I don't know if this is ever done in the U.S.)
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 12:23pm UTC
I would offer a different answer than Ann's, Frank. If we take care of the hens, we will have negligible infection rates in eggs.

The problem isn't in the natural environment of the hens, so earthworms wouldn't help. (Hens and salmonella reached a modus vivendi long ago.) The problem is that the hens are kept in unnatural concentrations and dosed with antibiotics. Just as pre-sanitation cities and modern-day refugee camps breed epidemics among humans, so do industrial egg operations among hens. And to make matters worse, each gigantic operation has a substantial market share, so a single outbreak can hit thousands of people.
Jerry Kays Sep 23, 2010, 2:54pm UTC
sort of like too many eggs in one basket ...
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 4:35pm UTC
lol, Jerry. Yup. Or one battery cage...
Frank Luke Sep 23, 2010, 5:00pm UTC
Yes, of course the concentrations of hens is horrid and big contaminations are liable to recur but if we need to go with that model, can we maybe control it better with say earthworms?

There's also those hog and cattle concentrations where the runoff into rivers and bodies of water is also a big threat of disease spread.

But capitalism being what it is, can we turn the clock back. It seems we need to but money and politics will often (usually) trump doing the right thing, humane treatment of the animals we farm and eat.

As I hear, the hen farmer is saying hen feed is maybe the culprit.

??
aniko    Sep 25, 2010, 1:30pm UTC
Shira, the infection rates would be lower under non-factory circumstances, but Ann's advice about handling eggs would still be good, I think.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 12:40pm UTC
Thanks for the recommendation, Atticus. These words rock!
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Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:27pm UTC
Oh, I need to write that down! "How to clean the doors of perception? What works for you, without self-deception." Are those lines from a poem? I know that "the doors of perception" is from William Blake, right? And then Aldous Huxley went on to write a fantastic book of that title about hallucinogenic visions. But I like these lines as a kind of mantra-reminder!
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 1:31pm UTC
The lines are from the onging blog I conduct, sharing my wisdoms as you do yours. It's fun isn't it, when you find someplace, someones who get what you try to offer to them? It doesn't always happen so thanks for your feedback.

Aloha, Frank
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:48pm UTC
Frank - please feel free (unless it goes against a group rule I am unaware of!) to link your blog here so we can check it out!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 1:57pm UTC
We encourage people to post links to their writing here.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 2:11pm UTC
Great! Thanks for clarifying, Ann.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 2:42pm UTC
You must have suspected as much when I linked in my own work. We're shameless with links here at LYR.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 3:13pm UTC
I thought perhaps you, as the tireless moderator, were allowed to take some liberties! ;)
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:15pm UTC
The only liberty we get as moderator is to take more abuse than anyone else. (Okay, I'm joking. But with a grain of salt).
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 1:13pm UTC
Elena, a fond embrace for having shared all the wisdom you've gathered. I imagine you've lived long enough to have recognized truths communicated thusly, concise and to the point.

Aloha, Frank
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:42pm UTC
Received and reciprocated!
Simon P. Sep 19, 2010, 1:39pm UTC
Elena

I love this post, and I think I am falling in love with you. (Dont be alarmed. I fall in love with practically everybody. Im harmless).

I hope that everyone sees and understands the important message behind your words. They apply to so many issues and situations. Of course they do fly in the face of the concept of an objective reality, which all must agree is true, and that allows for no subjective interpretation or nuance. But I think the more we learn, the more we find that in many cases (not all to be sure) what we think of as objective reality.... really isnt.

Thanks and congratulations. Lovely job.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 1:45pm UTC
Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment, Sy!
Granny Janny Sep 20, 2010, 10:13pm UTC
I'm like Sy too...I tend to fall in love a lot with people. I love this post and the apropos photos. I don't understand why it's posted under Ann's name rather than your own....but I'm feeling rather clueless today.
For example, I had no idea that Losing Your Religion was a group. I merely thought it was an ongoing posting subject of Ann's. But now I'm a member and think I may have some writing that would fit.
I keep learning from the unfolding lotus that is Gather.
Kathryn Flynn Sep 20, 2010, 10:16pm UTC
jan, i loved this group and joined recently. for the longest time, i got panicky every time i visited this page and didn't comment; that was only because of my ... family things.,.. ancestry.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 12:12am UTC
Hi Jan! Great to see you here. I'll answer your message about the posting via private mail. We would welcome your writing in this group!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 23, 2010, 1:18pm UTC
Thanks for reading and commenting, Jan!
Rosa See Ya Sep 19, 2010, 1:54pm UTC
"Don’t let your Book trap you within its pages. Don’t limit God to ink on paper. Don’t mistake the map for the Way."

This part really caught my eye! Elena this is a lovely writing with great visuals!


Ann, thanks for the invite!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 2:12pm UTC
Thank you very much, Rosa!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:09pm UTC
Thank you for coming by, Rosa. Your presence here is always a pleasure.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 2:01pm UTC
First-time commenters are always welcome! Just send me a friend request.
Tonya Scott Wyandon Sep 19, 2010, 2:34pm UTC
Amazing! Yakoki (Thank you), Elena, for sharing.

Just this morning, while listening to commentary regarding a political issue, I detected an underlying theme of spirituality. I could not help but to wonder..."why not?"

Why not allow yourself to see a situation with a fresh perspective? How often do we, mostly out of conditioning and habit, allow our perspectives to be dictated by society?

There is so much available for us on our journey, an abundance of discoveries, all waiting for us once we allow the shift to a new perception.

An endless supply to the Divine connection, the Great Spirit, where anything is possible...

Yakoki!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 2:50pm UTC
You ask some good questions, Tonya. I think conditioning and habit are often the causes a narrow perspective, but I think fear is another main factor. If you open to the world, you open to a lot of potentially scary things, such as change. For this reason I try to be gentle when I address other people's dogmas, but I believe that a life fully and deeply experienced, out of the box and off the page, so to speak, is worth the risk!

Thanks for joining the conversation!
Jerry Kays Sep 19, 2010, 3:37pm UTC
Amen !
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 2:40pm UTC
Thank you for the recommendation, Bill!
Tonya Scott Wyandon Sep 19, 2010, 2:44pm UTC
Ann, great conversation...thank you! T.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:07pm UTC
Thank you for coming by!
William Dotani Sep 19, 2010, 2:44pm UTC
I love this quote, 'Don’t let your Book trap you within its pages. Don’t limit God to ink on paper. Don’t mistake the map for the Way.'

Yes, we all have our own unique thoughts of God, but still we are interconnected just as the feet are interconnected with our ankles, our hands or thoughts of walking. I believe God is Everything and within Everything, but that we have freedom of thought that is easily influenced by our culture. There are basic precepts in every religious scripture I've read from B'Hai to Hindu to Christian. The basic precept is to take care of other people both friend and foreigner. If we don't follow such precepts, why do we seek God's blessing? God is life and I believe respects those who love both their own and other life. The Holy scriptures are a guide for helping life and not for condemning life that way too many so called Christians in the USA either do not understand, do not believe or have their mind controlled by some cult leader.



Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 3:12pm UTC
Thanks for your wonderful comments, William. Two in particular struck me: "If we don't follow such precepts, why do we seek God's blessing?" And to carry that thought onward, if we DO care for friend and foreigner, then why would be seek God's blessing, since our whole life at that point would be a blessing!

The other point that really jumped out at me: "The Holy scriptures are a guide for helping life and not for condemning life." YES!!! I have every respect for what someone wants to share, I am ready to receive the wisdom contained therein, but por favor do not beat me over the head with a weighty tome! :D
William Dotani Sep 19, 2010, 3:31pm UTC
So I take it you do not want the Pope to reinstitute the Inquisition Priests to visit women named Ann.
As a seminary student, I really wondered about the hypocrisy of my church leaders. I wondered so much that I finally quit the church in disgust. I look at the Lord's Prayer and one part I think is often overlooked. "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.' For those wanting forgiveness, but filled with unforgiving hatred, I do not see any blessing deserved.
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 3:59pm UTC
Hey, Elena, re: "why would be seek God's blessing, since our whole life at that point would be a blessing!"

Yes, true but strokes are always welcome and feel awful good and one from God--what can we say? Compliments, especially sincere or even blarney if not meant to deceive (get out your BS meter).

I love to compliment people esp. if they're cute or they can reciprocate (oops, I mean with appreciation, not anything mercenary...!)
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 3:21pm UTC
"Your hell is only one fantasy."

Amazingly, after a couple of decades as a lapsed Catholic and about 10 years as a Buddhist, I still need to hear those words. Childhood programming is potent.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 4:07pm UTC
I wonder at times if teaching children about hell isn't some kind of mental abuse. So many of us still have our lives negatively influenced by this concept turned nightmare. Even if you believe it, children should not be exposed to certain "truths" at inappropriate stages in their development. For example, I believe in the "truth" that sexually transmitted diseases exist, and that there are things we should do to prevent transmission, but I'm not going to tell my young children horror stories about it and prematurely destroy their attitude toward it. Why similarly scare them off of God?
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:11pm UTC
Where's Shira? She and I had a discussion about this very topic not long ago. She pretty much convinced me that no matter how much one might believe in hell, that concept should not be taught to children.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:14pm UTC
If I may repeat myself here, hell poses a logical conundrum. How are we to suffer physically without a body? I think there's more than enough Hell here on earth. No need to postulate another.
Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 4:38pm UTC
Suffering without a body? No prob, lol... as long as there is a mind. Now granted, I don't think a mind exists in nature without a brain, but it's not theoretically impossible...

And yes, I believe that coercing people to believe or think something is wrong. (Coercion of action may be acceptable to prevent harm.) Hell is simply a coercive fable, imo. (And yes, Buddhism has it, too, so I'm not just hitting on Christianity here.)
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:50pm UTC
Yep. Those Buddhist devil images are pretty scary!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:25pm UTC
Shira,

As far as science has been able to show, the mind is part of the body. Which brings up another question that's been bothering me.

I frequently hear (particularly from psychologists) that "We are not our bodies." It seems to me that this statement assumes the existence of a soul or an afterlife, which are not normally subjects for psychology. What do you make of this?
Kathryn Flynn Sep 19, 2010, 11:37pm UTC
I think I am butting in on this convo, and if so, I apologize, but I caught Ann's statement (with which I agree) that 'As far as science has been able to show, the mind is part of the body.'

Ann has also accurately described what psychologists say in response to this:

"We are not our bodies."

My husband is a psychologist and we never, ever agree on what I consider to be obvious:

we are bodies; our mind, our soul, our emotions, which have a proven physiological place in the brain.,.,.

but my husband insists that our mind is not our brain.

I did read in a book on Children''s Near Death Experiences that the father of Neurology, Wilder Penfield, of McGill, believed in his old age that he had in fact found a physical location for the soul, that it exists in the temple area.

I crossed over in '96 duriing a very ill time.

my husband has always believed in some possibility of an afterlife, despite what he said most science does not,

i thihk that physical scientists, like my parents, in neuropharmacology at mcgil, that hard science is evolving, like all other fields,

this laptop keyboard is so difficult still even after two months, because i bang the heck of out it, from years of practice on the piano and typewriters and desktops,

Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:42pm UTC
"I crossed over in '96 duriing a very ill time."

So you experienced an afterlife, possibly your soul traveled there? That would tend to support what your husband says.

PS: "Butting in" is welcome here!
Kathryn Flynn Sep 20, 2010, 12:26am UTC
yes. i was raised by marxist atheist scientists... and i went into english rather than science in high school because i realized i was cut from a different cloth than say, chemists... even though my father was self taught in music and loved fiction and poetry and philosophy.,.. my husband had believed in an after life and i still doubted it, but wanted to believe,.

my soul traveled there, most definitely and it came back.

i was pushed through a fast rollercoaster speed tunnel- i never go on coasters - and the light blinded me and i tried to hide my eyes but had no hands with which to hide my eyes.

i got dumped in blackness, i looked around i looked down, no body, no hands no arms, no body. i was in blackness, it was warm, no stars, and i was very very very happy, i knew then i was in the afterlife., my father who died 20 years earlier spoke to me, he was a filmy face and bust and said

this is not your time Kathryn, ( my father actually said kathy, my family name) you have much work to do with Stephen and Kristina. you have to go back.

i tried to tell him i wanted to stay but i had no mouth with which to speak. i wanted to reach out to him to hug him but i had no arms.

then i was put back in the speeding bullet coaster light tunnel.

i was in my bed and thought

that was not a dream.

i had been putting notes under my pillow for my kids who were then 6 and 8 8in case they found me dead.

i had had a bad brain injury 3 years earlier and still exper9encing a lot of swelling,. i had ice packs on my head and was in 55 degree room in the summer.

i knew i had crossed over,

i didn't tell people for a few years, but so many have experienced similar exp,. and not always in a hospital environment.

my baby sister in California had a cardiac arrest in July in the hosp, and saw herself above her body as they put the paddles on her,

i said, absolutely. people see this and people go through what i went through.

there is also a reason people have seen ghosts for centuries. some pe9ple see them,. i have not but i know pe9ople on gather and in real life who haeve seenb ghosts and who have crossed over,

i have no fear of death or the after life now, it is very sad for those left on earth but it is a happy peaceful place full of bliss for those who are no longer on earth, it also makes grief much easier to deal with,
Jerry Kays Sep 20, 2010, 1:45am UTC
The mind /body relationship is more like the station signal/television relationship ... they are not the same, one is more external and other more internal ... each needs the other though to complete their mission. IMnsHO
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 8:26am UTC
Thanks for sharing your experience, Kathryn! It's fascinating!

@ Jerry - that is an interesting metaphor - it makes sense to equate the mind with an ephemeral signal that can't be pinned down, but can only be received and broadcast through the instrument. Perhaps when we die our signal can be rebroadcast!
Shira C. Sep 20, 2010, 10:40am UTC
Ann -- I sort of think of the mind as a program running on the hardware of the brain. (But then, I suppose it depends what, exactly, you mean by "the mind".) This is, when you think of it, another one of those matters of perception (like the leaf poodle, lol: what is a program that is running on some kind of hardware actually made of?)

As for "We are not our bodies"... Jeez, this gets tricky fast. I'd absolutely say that our bodies are a condition necessary for our existence. (I don't believe in disembodied spirits.) I don't know, however, that a mind couldn't be run on some other type of hardware. Remember the meat story?
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:42am UTC
Kathryn, my mother-in-law also "crossed over" during a severe asthma attack, and had no fear of death right up to the day she died.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:45am UTC
Shira-- I love The Meat Story! I've never read that before!
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:48am UTC
Shira,

"I don't know, however, that a mind couldn't be run on some other type of hardware."

Sure. That hardware is currently called a computer. Are you postulating that our mind might simply move over to different hardware after we die?
Kathryn Flynn Sep 20, 2010, 11:51am UTC
Ann, that is very cool about your mother in law and I really believe these things are blessings... and with recent technology the past 20 or 40 years, more and more people are, so we pretty much believe - some of us - anyway - that we do have a soul within us that separates and goes to the afterwhatever - just like the religious texts always said it did; what I found fascinating in that recognition of the subjective truth I came to believe - that the religious belief in the afterlife was likely true - was that millions of people over thousands of years expressing a belief that seemed so incredible but was part of a common thread of existence, and, like ghosts, some or even many over time, have seen them. i know people on gather and in real life who see dead people and have seen and heard ghosts, both people they do not know and people they have. it is not cool when it happens so much as it is frightening and people don't want to believe it. my only purpose in diverting from the 'crossing over' argument is that over time, thousands of people experience something rare.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 12:18pm UTC
The "crossing over" experience is indeed common. Many people report leaving their bodies and being able to see what is going on below them.

The only problem I see with this is that their senses don't seem to go with them when they leave their body. A number of ER physicians have placed messages and bumper stickers on the tops of ER cabinets, so they can be read only from above. No one having a near-death experience has yet been able to read those stickers.

I should hasten to add that I don't think this fact in any way diminishes the spiritual importance of such experiences.
Kathryn Flynn Sep 20, 2010, 12:44pm UTC
hmm. interesting; my sister was looking down at her body.when she had her cardiac arrest and saw the paddles on herself.. i will ask her if she saw any messages on tops of the cabinets in the hospital room; she is 50 and now has a pacemaker; unusual for her age, but she has a lot of immune issues...
Kathryn Flynn Sep 20, 2010, 1:42pm UTC
i did ask my sister just now if she saw any messages on tops of cabinets; and she did not. she saw the ER docs and nurses and what they were doing and she heard them talking... i think if docs routinely place messages on the cabinets like

hi if you see this can you tell us?

that eventually people will probably report back that they saw some strange message on top of the cabinets.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:47pm UTC
That would be quite a breakthrough in the world of metaphysics.
Shira C. Sep 20, 2010, 8:05pm UTC
Are you postulating that our mind might simply move over to different hardware after we die?

Nope. I see no evidence of that. And I am against making up brand new complexity to supposedly explain existing complexity, lol.

But I gotta say, it isn't impossible, at least perhaps in the future.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 8:39pm UTC
Oddly enough, when I was in college I was taught that the most likely alternative to carbon-based life forms is probably silicon-based life forms, because silicon is able to bond to several other atoms at once like carbon can. It's ironic that the center of the computer industry is called Silicon Valley (because silicon is important in high-tech devices).
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 12:14am UTC
Oddly enough, when I was in college I was taught that the most likely alternative to carbon-based life forms is probably silicon-based life forms, because silicon is able to bond to several other atoms at once like carbon can.

It's ironic that the center of the computer industry is called Silicon Valley because silicon is important in high-tech devices, which of course include the computers being used to develop artificial intelligence.
libramoon .. Sep 21, 2010, 1:44am UTC
is reality virtual?

http://arxiv.org/abs/0801.0337

Jerry Kays Sep 21, 2010, 2:57pm UTC
http://arxiv.org/abs/0801.0337 ... seems to be as realistic a potential as any other.

Kathryn Flynn Sep 22, 2010, 6:51pm UTC
Ann, regarding your comment above: in the discussion of crossing over:



Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:47pm EDT
That would be quite a breakthrough in the world of metaphysics.

...not sure if we are communicating here,.

I simply mentioned that IF doctors and ER personnel routinely POST messages on top of cabinets, that people who DO crossover and are in a hospital room and are out of their body, so to speak, and looking down, that - eventually they would likely SEE those messages - since patients see and hear during their out of body experiences. My sister saw people work on her and heard them talking. She did not see any messages.

So I am not sure what you meant by



Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:47pm EDT
That would be quite a breakthrough in the world of metaphysics.

Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:26pm UTC
"Metaphysics is a branch of philosophy concerned with explaining the fundamental nature of being and the world..." (Wikipedia) I think of metaphysics as covering phenomena that are not explainable by science.
Kathryn Flynn Sep 23, 2010, 2:56pm UTC
Thanks for your input, here, Ann, but I still think we are talking about two different points. I do know the definition of metaphysisc, and took a metaphysics philosophy class in college.

You'd said that people who crossed over do not seem to have brought their s\nses with them because they have not reported seeing or reading the signs posted on top of ER cabinets. I know from my experience and my sister knows from her experience that we do have our senses - I saw my father and grandmother and heard my father speak; my sister saw the doctors and nurses and heard them speak; -- that my sister did not see any signs or messages posted on top of the ER cabinets speaks only to two or three possible explanations - that there WERE no messages, that there WERE messages but she didn't see them, that there WERE messages but didn't remember them.

People indeed do bring their senses with them when they have out of body - near death - clinical death - cardiac arrest - experiences; they see and hear everything going on in the ER room.

That has been observed as you know, many times and has been explained by various researchers as exactly what it seems - that people seem to leave their body on their cardiac-arrested body on the ER table while they are overhead in their soul, observing the goings on.

Hundreds of cases like this exist, as I know you are aware, since your own MIL crossed over during an asthma attack.

I just do not understand how 'metaphysics' or the phenomena not explicable by science enters in here. My parents were scientists, and they found it a perfectly reasonable explanation, as do many physicians, such as my physician. Physicians have been party to this phenomena for quite some time.

So I think we are approaching the point from different angles.

You and I agree that it is a very interesting phenomena, but it is, in fact, easily explained these days by science - not by a scientific fact - because it does not lend itself easily to empiricism - but by observation by practitioners.

Here in Boston, many doctors believe this happens because they see it.

My point about patients not reporting back about messages posted on the ER cabinets was to explain the following: either not ENOUGH ER rooms posted messages or posted them inconsistently or patients might not have PAID attention to them, or some other explanation.,

Jerry Kays Sep 23, 2010, 3:29pm UTC
I highly doubt that our Soul, the eternal experiencer, that which is our source of "being" ... really cares about "messages on top of cabinets" ... the Soul is not interested in convincing others of anything, it's sole relationship is with the most important personal matters of it's care ... IMnsHO

My own most "intense" spiritual experiences mostly happened with me alone in bed ... and during those, I periodically checked the time on my digital clock on the nightstand ... that being my way of confirming the reality (not "just" a dream) of it all ...
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:08am UTC
I have to agree with you, Jerry. I don't think those messages will ever be read by someone "out of their body."
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 3:55pm UTC
Ann, re: "The Word is Life"

May I submit that Word is half of it for those who go by thought expressed in word but I believe, pragmatist that I am that talking (writing and reading included) is half and walking the walk is the other half.

By that I mean that info in word is knowledge and the wiser the better but that it needs to be translated into action and the more expressing agape the better, though loving action of any sort is fine by me.

Best regards to all. Hoping the day is a beautiful one with time to rest and reflect.

Aloha,

Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:05pm UTC
Elena should probably answer you, Frank-- it's her title.
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 4:09pm UTC
Elena, I think you'd agree that Word requires Thought and Action bring Life into being, yes?
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 4:23pm UTC
Yes, Frank, I definitely think that if the Word is not lived, then what use is it? I stink at titles, and I struggled with the title for a few minutes before I decided to write something that would tie in with my last sentence. I was intending the "is" of the title to be like = so that word and life are two names for the same thing.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 5:01pm UTC
"if the Word is not lived, then what use is it?"

That's pretty much my Buddhist practice in a nutshell.
Frank Luke Sep 20, 2010, 1:39pm UTC
Just mentioning that it's also the thrust of EnlighenmentNext / talking and walking the walk / personal enlightenment married to responsible social consciousness.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:47pm UTC
Yes, as in Engaged Buddhism.
Frank Luke Sep 21, 2010, 1:37pm UTC
Shira, Ann, re: ""We are not our bodies"

I'm not sure in what context this was said but I submit that we humans are bodies and souls. I've heard and believe that the body is the house of the soul.

Maybe souls can flitz around without bodies and bodies can walk around with little acknowledgement of and even deny their soul/spiritual component.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:39pm UTC
I think many people would agree with you, Frank. We were debating how a soul that has "left" its body might be able to sense things without any hardware to do so.
Jerry Kays Sep 21, 2010, 3:00pm UTC
Our Soul is still brother and sister with other Souls ... and and in or out of body shares the sensing experience via their common mind(s) ... IMnsHO
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 3:09pm UTC
Now that would be cool! (It kind of fits in with the way people who experience near-death are often greeted in their vision by dead friends and relatives).
Tonya Scott Wyandon Sep 19, 2010, 4:02pm UTC
"Childhood programming is potent."

Yes, as adults, if we are brave, we must un-learn what we have learned as children...
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:04pm UTC
Which can never be done completely, if it's really ingrained. But we can still identify beliefs that are erroneous.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 4:27pm UTC
Which can never be done completely, if it's really ingrained.

Oh Ann! Leave me a ray of hope! :D Can I strive in that direction knowing I'll never get all the way there?
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:53pm UTC
I think a lot of stuff that's ingrained before age 4 or so can never be completely erased. That doesn't keep me from rejecting it, though. After age 4 I think things become more flexible as the child learns the difference between fantasy and reality.
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 1:57pm UTC
Yes it is ingrained very early for most children but not all. Here is a ray of hope, Elena. When my Little One was around 5 years old, she was outside playing with a few neighborhood children. She told them about the pony in our backyard and asked if they wanted to see it. One child came up to me and said, your girl thinks there's a horse in your backyard. I smiled and replied, Of course there is don't you believe her. I was amazed at how young some kids lose imagination.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:48pm UTC
I like to play imagination games with kids, too. It keeps my own imagination going.
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 6:51pm UTC
And that is definitely needed as a writer. One reason why I never squashed my girls imaginations.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:57pm UTC
Speaking of which, I'm looking forward to seeing some of your work at the Whetstone Poetry group!
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 7:02pm UTC
*looks around sheepishly* I know I keep reading and commenting on other people's pieces. The group started up just as my world got messy. I do need to write something or dig up something I want to revise.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 7:10pm UTC
Thanks for sharing the pony story, Veronica. Children are definitely encouraging in the imagination department! Freeing, as well.
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:09am UTC
Glad to see you work in Whetstone, Veronica. You chose a strong submission.
Veronica Hosking Sep 25, 2010, 3:30pm UTC
Thank you, Ann. Now to just get the opprotunity to revise and add to it. So much is going on right now. I really appreciate your comment. To add other colors would make it an even stronger piece.
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 4:08pm UTC
"Yes, as adults, if we are brave, we must un-learn what we have learned as children... "

Well yes, but don't chuck everything. The title of the book: Evrything I Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten"--sort of true but as mature adults we need to discriminate between what is useful and what's not so and then divest what you see you don't need any more.

I also submit there's positive learnng which is clear and given with kindness and then there may be negative learning that isn't pleasant and requires overcoming the hurt to either shape up and learn or else wind up "showing them!" Both pos and neg works well but I'd choose the kinder gentler anyday.
Tonya Scott Wyandon Sep 19, 2010, 4:08pm UTC
Absoultely correct!
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 4:14pm UTC
Re: "I wonder at times if teaching children about hell isn't some kind of mental abuse."

In presenting these ideas about belief and religion I think it's really wise to go about it in a Socratic dialogue, not to tell but to ask and listen to ascertain what the child understands and to inform them there are other ways to understand faith and that when they get more ideas, they are free and may change their mind. They shouldn't feel they have to form ideas that shut the door on finding out other ideas and as we get on in life, our ideas can change. I think we need to tell kids it's not a fighting matter, that even ideas about religion can be discussed, thought about, changed and maybe find something that really makes good sense to them. There's no hurry, truth awaits.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 4:26pm UTC
I guess the catch-22 for people who believe in hell is, they are so afraid of it that they rightly don't want their children to suffer that fate either, so they try to instill that fear in the child as a preventative measure. I get that, but as someone who doesn't believe in hell, it seems like vicious and pointless cycle.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:26am UTC
Exactly. I sympathize with believers in that respect. It's sort of like the fact that you have to tell your kids something about sexual predators (which will probably scare them) in order to protect them.
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 2:00pm UTC
Reminds me of another incident this time with my older daughter. She said something inappropriate and a friend looked at her and said, you should watch what you say or you might go to hell. My daughter looked at her and replied, I can't go to hell because we don't believe in it.
Frank Luke Sep 20, 2010, 2:09pm UTC
In discussing serious matters of anykind with kids involves question and answering and really listening to them to probe what they understand and point out other possibilities to what they may have concluded. This should foster the idea that ideas are mutable and need to constantly be re-examined and revised if necessary.

There should be no Catch-22 involved since there would ideallly be no dualism involve but a discussion of appropriate information of all sides.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:52pm UTC
Good for your daughter, Veronica!
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 6:55pm UTC
Oh when I saw the look on the other girl's face at the mention there was no hell, I had to bite my tongue not to laugh at her.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:59pm UTC
My friends have son in preschool in a heavily conservative Christian area, and they insist on teaching him all about Christianity in school, even though his is supposed to be non-denominational. I was shocked!
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 7:04pm UTC
It is amazing how much religion is brought up in schools even public schools. My daughter had a couple kids say they couldn't be friends when they found out she wasn't Christian.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 7:12pm UTC
Your daughter came up with the perfect response, Veronica! Sounds like she knows how to keep her wits about her!
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 7:47pm UTC
Yes, my young friend has been a bit ostracized because he is an agnostic like his parents.
Simon P. Sep 21, 2010, 10:38pm UTC
As an atheist who now considers himself a Christian, I have not been able to accept the existence of hell. That is the one part of Christianity that I simply cannot absorb. I am not sure about heaven, although I think there might some sort of afterlife, but if there is, I am sure it is nothing like we could imagine. But hell? Hell no.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 11:51am UTC
Hurrah for Sy! (And thank you). I suspect that most people discover, at least briefly, that hell is here on earth.
Simon P. Sep 22, 2010, 5:32pm UTC
Yes, I thought of mentioning that, but didnt. Im glad you did.
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 5:51pm UTC
I suspect that both are but a state of mind ... I believe that I have experienced relative impressions of both during earth life ... hell being the state I have experienced in nightmares and most impressive, what I experienced as an enlightened being contrasting that with the seeming loss of that status while near death in my three month hospital experience almost two years ago ... it was like being dropped into a deep hole below the level of the GOD that I had thought before that I knew somewhat ... I surely do not want to go "back there" ever again ... and I suspect that many have had similar or worse experiences ... those who have not, should count their blessings and hope to hell or heaven that they never do ... :-)
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 5:55pm UTC
PS ... the "irony" of my experience was also that in being basically anti-religious (concerning the orthodox kind), the hospital that I ended up in was a "religious" one, of the "Sacred Heart" ... and that probably had something to do with my imagined "evil" all around me ... I was probably paranoid.
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 6:01pm UTC
PPS ... in fact, after just now looking up the meaning of the word "paranoid" ... that may well fit most peoples condition of the non-egoic state considering straying into the realms outside of the ego "normality".

Paranoid speaks of both "poles", the good and bad, as being "delusional" :-)
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:10am UTC
Jerry, I'm guessing you got a taste of hell after your accident. Wasn't that more due to your body than your mind?
Jerry Kays Sep 28, 2010, 4:14am UTC
Ann, I have yet to figure that one out ... for sure my body was hurting ... but so was my mind ... I did not feel well enough to be interested in anything except eating (I was intravenous for 3 months with no real food) and getting the hell out of there ... and in not thinking about much else, I quit remembering normal things, I had trouble remembering where I lived when asked and could not even state the proper name of the hospital ... I couldn't watch TV because it was the political season and everyone seemed like liars to me ... everything seemed rather evil ... I had to have my wife cover the clock on the wall in front of me because it did not make sense to me, the numbers on it seemed all out of place and I could never really tell what time it really was ... there were other things that I had to have her cover, a couple pictures (painting prints) that seemed to have evil images in the shadows of the trees etc ... I did on occasion have some "dreams" that I had sympathetic people helping me to escape at times ... they were a great relief compared to all of the seeming "bad stuff" going on all around me, worse yet, to me, when I figured some of the religious ones working there were treating me like the Satan that some Gather Christians call me (accuse me of ) ... at the time, much of my paranoia seemed extremely real, and rather scary at times ... when I was near CRTs, as was often the case in ICU for 14 days, electronics seemed to have an audible frequency buzzing-ring that grated continually on my nerves, I felt that the whole hospital was "wired" to torture the patients ... really, I am sort of sad to say ... during my stay I felt that I needed to write a book when I got out "exposing" the whole thing for the general public ... now that it is all behind me, it seems rather foolish :-)
Ann Marcaida Sep 28, 2010, 10:28am UTC
I'm not all that surprised, Jerry, since the body and brain are inseparable. And from what I've seen, hospitals are set up to torture people. It was wise of you to alter you environment as much as possible.

(FYI, Terminally ill patients often live longer (and have unexpected remissions) if they opt for hospice rather than hospital care).
Frank Luke Sep 19, 2010, 4:22pm UTC
Any fans of the poet Rilke:

He's discussed on (Being with Krista Tippett) on today's show I believe.
Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 4:41pm UTC
Great post, Elena! I'm glad to see some Sufi quotes, too -- under-represented here, and very timely!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 4:54pm UTC
So true. I wish we could find some Sufis on Gather.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 5:09pm UTC
Thanks Shira! I pulled the quotes from Essential Sufism by James Fadiman & Robert Frager, which is a wonderful compilation of beautiful bits of Sufi wisdom, stories and sayings. I've drawn much inspiration from it.
Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 5:28pm UTC
Ann -- I think Sufis are rather rare among Muslims, so unless they are VASTLY overrepresented among those who choose to move here, there can't be many among English-speakers who would read and contribute to gather. More's the pity.

Elena -- I'll have to look into that book, thanks.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 5:33pm UTC
A quick Gather search reveals 88 people with "Sufi" in their profile and 686 with "Muslim" in their profile.
libramoon .. Sep 19, 2010, 7:11pm UTC
http://www.mythicimagination.org/Mine/Sufism.html

Sufism and the Ultimate Difficult Task
by Joe Good

Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 9:19pm UTC
Hey, I never thought of that! But if you pull up the people who have been on gather at all recently, it includes you, me and Ron, and I am pretty sure none of us is Sufi... Think there may be quite a few false positives there.

If you search for "religious affiliation = Sufi", you get 3 people, one of whom is Richard Lynn Livesay and the other two of whom are defunct.
Shira C. Sep 19, 2010, 9:24pm UTC
I did find 120 people for religious affiliation = Muslim, but only 25 have been on since January of this year...
Hilda Rivera Sep 19, 2010, 11:01pm UTC
Siiiigh.
Frank Luke Sep 20, 2010, 1:54pm UTC
I was fortuitously part of a band of Sufis in the 60s who met weekly to chant and dance under the dome of St. Paul's Chapel on Columbia Univ. chapel in NYC. The chanting and dancing amount to something like theater where the more you get into the mudras as you move in the circle of other chanters, the more you assume the attitudes of God (The Powerful, The Compassionate, The Loving, The Patient, The Wise, etc) in a physical physiological way.

I consider my Sufi experience a hight point among high points in NYC. It may seem counterintuitive thinking of spirituality as finding a haven in NYC but in the 60s there were oodles of opps to sit a learn at the feet of great spiritual teachers of all stripes.

After whirling and chanting at St. Paul's Chapel on the subway headed home, still grooving with the vibes, I envisioned myself hurtling toward nirvana. Zowie!
Shira C. Sep 20, 2010, 2:26pm UTC
That sounds amazing, Frank!
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:54pm UTC
Great story, Frank. I have a Sufi friend but I've never pumped him for the details of his practice.
Hilda Rivera Sep 21, 2010, 1:05am UTC
For anyone who hasn't seen the Sufi whirling dervishes, here's a great video clip.
Shira C. Sep 21, 2010, 10:17am UTC
Wonderful video!
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:17pm UTC
There's also a great clip of dervishes in the film Baraka, which is about the world's spiritualities. It's a great visual feast.
Frank Luke Sep 21, 2010, 1:42pm UTC
Shira, more than amazing--it was a marvelous experience. I learned so much from being in that group dancing, chanting and harmonizing, it felt like religious practice, experiencing authentic spiritual experience.
Simon P. Sep 21, 2010, 10:42pm UTC
OK. This is really weird. Frank. Exactly when was this? I was living near Columbia in the late 60s, and I do remember the Sufis. Is it possible we met? (stranger things have happened).
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:31pm UTC
Oh Shira, out of sight! Were you ever at St. Paul's chapel twirling around with us? I knew some of the names of the others but not many so I may have seen you without knowing who you were.

You see, great minds twirl in same circles!
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 12:27pm UTC
Think you mean Sy?
Frank Luke Sep 23, 2010, 5:03pm UTC
Sy, were you part of the Sufi group that met at St. Paul's Chapel?
Jerry Kays Sep 28, 2010, 3:11pm UTC
Recommended link ... the "mystical" aspect of it is the esoteric reality of all true spiritual relationships with GOD ...

libramoon C. Sep 19, 2010, 7:11pm EDT
http://www.mythicimagination.org/Mine/Sufism.html

Sufism and the Ultimate Difficult Task
by Joe Good


Hilda Rivera Sep 19, 2010, 5:41pm UTC
"We can walk together, hand in hand, but we cannot enter the water in the exact same spot."

Why is entering the water such a common symbol for spiritual development?
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 5:48pm UTC
According to Wikipedia, baptism symbolizes death and rebirth.

(I never knew that!)
Jerry Kays Sep 20, 2010, 1:57am UTC
"symbolizes" ... is very important ... far too many think it actually means it.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:26am UTC
Ah yes, a common problem!
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:49pm UTC
Water is so appropriate as a spiritual symbol of purification, washing away sins and the mundane, leaving a refreshed, reborn soul, isn't it?

There's fire but that would be uncomfy, to say the least! Low grade radiation work for anyone?

(- ;
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 4:50pm UTC
Frank, baptism by water is symbolic, baptism by fire is the real spiritual thing ... i do not know about the affects of earth and air ... (the four metaphysical principles) ...
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:52pm UTC
"There's fire but that would be uncomfy, to say the least! Low grade radiation work for anyone?"

Yep. Food.
Lawrence U. Sep 19, 2010, 6:49pm UTC
Wonderful write, Elena! Very inspiring!!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 19, 2010, 10:53pm UTC
Thanks Lawrence!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:31pm UTC
Thank you for coming by, Tigger.
libramoon .. Sep 19, 2010, 7:02pm UTC
http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474978263499
Basho's Footprints
Adrian Eve Revenaugh Sep 19, 2010, 9:03pm UTC
There's a depth of blue in the sky today that indicates unlimited stars in the heavens tonight. I'm practicing focused dissipation throughout. Until a very sizable deer fly lands on and exposed surface and brings me home with a bite.

This is a wonderful contribution, (personally, quite timely) and as always, a fine conversation that follows. Thank you!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:21pm UTC
Ade, we missed you here more than you know!
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:35pm UTC
Are you still on strictly rationed (e.g. expensive Alaskan) internet?
Adrian Eve Revenaugh Sep 20, 2010, 1:41am UTC
How nice, Ann.
No, it's not strictly rationed internet time, (though Gathering seems to be excruciatingly slow per page), just far more time being spent in farmstead-family pursuits. The season is slowing down now though so I hope to be more of a participant. Great to see things are still rolling, and richly so, here at LYR.

Thank you, Elena, for the beautiful posting.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 8:28am UTC
Thanks, Adrian, for reading and commenting! Most appreciated.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:27am UTC
We look forward to seeing more of you, as your time allows.
Ann Marcaida Sep 19, 2010, 11:27pm UTC
Elena, I have a question for you. Your article says that you sense the presence of God in your life. Is this something you've sensed from an early age? If not, do you remember when and where it began?
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 8:41am UTC
That is a fantastic question, Ann, and one which relates directly to the theme of losing one's religion. I was raised Catholic and was encouraged/coerced into practicing until I was 13. I always felt a connection to Jesus, Mary and the Holy Spirit. There was always a resonance, a certainty that they exist and are available. I never felt a connection to "God" until I felt empowered enough to redefine this energy/entity (force/form) for myself. The big scary vengeful guy from the Old Testament? Nope. The benevolent father/lord to whom we all must bow? Nope. None of the accepted representations of God ever made any sense, never felt right, never inspired devotion, nothing.

I really think it was studying Taoism (mid-20's) that turned it around. The very first line of the Tao Te Ching can be translated as "The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao." YES! Another person cannot tell me who or what God is! God is unspeakable! And though this idea was occasionally presented in my early catechism, in the next breath I would be told something very specific about that dude named "God," and I was not allowed to question that detail because it had been rubberstamped by the Pope or some such.

Phooey. (That is my rational adult conclusion on the matter. :D )

Once I allowed myself to pursue my own connection with divinity, which involved taking responsibility for my own trip, I recognized that God/Tao/Oneness had been there all along, even though it was hidden behind someone else's representation of it.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:35am UTC
That is very much like my own story, Elena. I became a "lapsed" Catholic at age 13, but it was at least 10 years before I started to think about Buddhism. (As you undoubtedly know, The Tao Te Ching plays a large role in Buddhism).

The Tao is a literary masterpiece in that it talks about "God" and one's spiritual path in the only way one can speak of the unspeakable. It spends a lot of time telling us what these things are not.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 1:51pm UTC
I wandered about in New Age spirituality, then some Native American (mostly Lakota) spiritual wisdom, then Wicca. Taoism, Buddhism and other explorations followed. I don't feel like I've settled yet, but I might be starting to be settled with the idea that I haven't settled... :D
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 1:56pm UTC
"The way that you can go isn't the real way. The name that you can say isn't the real name." (Tao Te Ching, LeGuin translation).
Frank Luke Sep 20, 2010, 1:58pm UTC
To explore and experiment with the many beliefs and faiths may be considered a kind of vacillation but I prefer to think of it as info gathering that will ideally lead toward coming down just where you ought to be after all that tripping. Just like Dorothy in the Wiz of Oz, home again!
Adrian Eve Revenaugh Sep 20, 2010, 6:23pm UTC
Elana and Ann,
Your reasoning of 'All That Is and Isn't', rings so accurately with what my experience has been and which has become not only a source of freedom, strength, and a honing of humility for me but allows for a fine appreciation of the world of humanity, (and the lack there of).

Bravo!
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 7:16pm UTC
Oh, Adrian, you said so many words that I feel describe the searching perfectly! Freedom to wander, strength due to drawing from multiple sources which tend to support each other, tempered with humility and an appreciation of all those sources. It is a good trip, after all!
libramoon .. Sep 21, 2010, 1:29am UTC
I am posting this whole article in case you need to be a member to see it online:

Why the Western Mystery Tradition Is Important: A Hermetic/Wiccan Apologia
Posted by Lykathea, Queen of Squirrels on September 12, 2010 at 10:00pm

While surfing the net, I came upon this article http://www.jewcy.com/faithhacker/wicca_and_other_fake_religions on a Jewish pop-culture site. Right below it, a commenter stated:

"From a personal perspective...yeah, Wicca's not my cup of tea either. It's not just because I believe in one God, rather than a
god-and-goddess. It's that Wicca lacks the same quality that I wrote
about in last weekend's comment about Jewish Renewal: a solid
intellectual basis. Unlike Jews, Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, and
Hindus, Wiccans don't have a tradition of sacred texts to study, debate,
or extend by writing commentaries and other works."

Expand the term Wiccan to where it comes from: Western Pagan, and there you have an intellectual tradition as old as Hinduism and Judaism. Kabbalah? Pythagoras enumerates to 864, suggesting his affiliation with the magical square of Mercury. He was addressed not by his name, but as 'The Master' - which is 864 in Hebrew (Hulse, 46). A tradition of sacred texts? How about the Book of Coming Forth by Day, Works and Days, Theogony, and the Poetic Edda. Commentaries? How about all the commentaries on the works of Greek philosophers and, for a more modern example, books like Initiation in the Aeon of the Child, Magical and Mystical System of the A:. A:., and many, many other commentaries on Aleister Crowley's channeled writings.

Wicca and mainstream neo-Paganism is the latest popular sect in the Western Hermetic Tradition. Wicca, Thelema, Golden Dawn, Rosicrucianism and older traditions like Gnosticism, the cult of Isis, and Neoplatonism are different sects of this tradition just like Reform, Orthodox and Conservative are all types of Judaism, or Theravada, Pure Land and Zen are all types of Buddhism. Moreover, neo-Paganism, unlike the Judeo-Christian tradition, actively welcomes change and innovation. Pagan faiths are also accepting of other traditions: Pagans accept Pagan-Jews and Pagan-Christians more readily than either Judaism or Christianity accepts them.

Neo-Paganism / Hermeticism is important in the world of religion because it posits the immanence of deity - the idea that Nature is Divine - rather than a transcendent ideal that sees earthly existence as inferior to Heaven or Nirvana, and offers theological openness much like Buddhism does: one could be monotheist, polytheist, pantheist or atheist. This is why I am not a Theravada Buddhist: I do not see myself as needing salvation. I understand that many traditions of Judaism and Hinduism also posit immanence, but Hinduism is arguably an Eastern Pagan faith, and most Judaism is strictly monotheistic. Neo-Paganism is arguably the most accessible major, multicultural religion in the West that posits both immanence and theological openness.

Another special feature of Neo-Paganism is its acceptance of magic and mysticism. Other religions, in particular Christianity and Judaism, seek to restrict magic and mysticism, either completely or only to one part of the population (such as men over age 40). I argue that the acceptance of inquiry into magic and mysticism gives neo-Paganism an intellectual edge: one is allowed to practice and verify magical and mystical results for oneself instead of listening to what others have written.

I am drawn to neo-Paganism - in particular the path of Hermeticism - *because* of its intellectual tradition. World mythologies sparked my youthful imagination. The study of comparative religion drew me further from favoring one mythos or the other and toward a comprehensive study with an emphasis on magic. Now, I am not averse to becoming a Christian, Jew, Buddhist or Muslim. But being a magician would put me out of favor with many members of these religions. I would have to put out debate in favor of 'faith'. I would have to accede to one cultural bias, one path of salvation instead of experiencing life's entirety from Hermeticism's mystical, interfaith perspective. Having been raised nonreligious, I cannot adhere to anything as a childhood tradition. But if I were raised Christian, Jewish, etc. I would also study & practice Hermeticism in addition to my birth religion. There's room for everyone in the syncretic world of Modern Witchcraft, Hermeticism, and neo-Pagan traditions.

aniko    Sep 21, 2010, 2:19am UTC
(So the Tao is not the Tao, if I understand correctly.)
aniko    Sep 21, 2010, 2:23am UTC
It's available to everyone, LM.
Jerry Kays Sep 21, 2010, 3:41am UTC
I will happily settle for the BET (+=-) ... just a natural generic spirituality.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:29pm UTC
Aniko, as you referring to the quote I posted? My personal interpretation is that one is easily led upon a false path that does not promote spiritual growth (for instance, a lifetime spent in pursuit of money).

LeGuin expressed this metaphorically in one of her novels (it might be The Dispossessed).

In it, a Taoist physicist named Shevek has his mind wiped completely free of memories. However Shevek instructs his assistant to repeat the first four line of The Tao to him after his mind-wipe. Eventually these lines lead Shevek back to his true path, the one he was on before he lost his memories.

Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:31pm UTC
Libra: "This is why I am not a Theravada Buddhist: I do not see myself as needing salvation."

I don't see myself needing salvation so much as improvement.
aniko    Sep 21, 2010, 5:39pm UTC
Ann, yes, I was referring to "The way that you can go isn't the real way. The name that you can say isn't the real name." (Tao Te Ching, LeGuin translation).

I took that to mean a lot more than the idea that "one is easily led upon a false path". I took it to mean the whatever path we humans can conceive of following is not the real thing--that remains forever ineffable, undefinable, and out of our reach. In other words, when any of us speak about the Tao, we're not speaking about the Tao. The details we fill in are all illusions.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 6:16pm UTC
I agree with most of what you say, but the Tao is in no way considered to be out of our reach-- just not definable by words.
aniko    Sep 21, 2010, 7:25pm UTC
What does it mean then that "the way that you can go isn't the real way"?
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 7:44pm UTC
I think in broad general terms it simply means "beware of false paths."

From my own point of view, however, there should be a sort of natural flow to life when one is on their Tao (and I think I'm off mine as much as I'm on it).

When I'm in the flow, I feel as if the universe is somehow cooperating with me. Decisions are made easily, synchronicity is common, and if I need guidance from my subconscious mind, it shows up.

When I'm "off" my Tao, I feel as if I'm swimming through some kind of heavy, resistant liquid to get things done. I may feel an overwhelming urge to do something different or unusual, as as often as not that action may push me back to my Tao.

(The question now is "Does this make sense to anyone but me?")
Simon P. Sep 21, 2010, 10:54pm UTC
This is a bit foggy for me, but I seem to remember from my own ancient past of dabbling in Eastern philosophy that the interpretation of that phrase is more like Aniko's comment, that the more you think you know, the less you actually do know. I could be wrong, but I think the idea is to point to the essential limit of our knowledge of the truly spiritual realm.
Shira C. Sep 22, 2010, 12:27am UTC
Aniko -- I think it's a map / territory statement. The map isn't the territory. In everyday life, we never get past the map, because everything is filtered through consciousness. But the tao suggests there is a way to get past this problem: let go of the map. (I don't think it tells you how, but Taoism and its descendent Zen Buddhism both offer techniques.)
aniko    Sep 22, 2010, 3:23am UTC
Okay, I'll try to merge and consolidate the responses (I can't seem to post any response here on time).

Ann, thanks. I'll continue to think that that first line means more than that, though.

I think everyone experiences the phenomenon you describe. The "heavy, resistant" thing sounds very familiar. Liquid sounds pretty good, though--those days are actually navigable.

Shira, I understand the difference between the map and the territory, but "the way you can go", for me, would have to include all those techniques of "letting go of the map". (A "technique" is much like a map, I think--a new one to replace the old one we're throwing away.) I don't see the process by which they could be exempted from the human condition and the imperfections and general bumbling that go with it.
WM H. Sep 22, 2010, 9:27am UTC
"Does this make sense to anyone but me?"

Yes.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 11:55am UTC
Thanks, Bill. I could state my experience of the Tao more simply. Going with it feels like swimming downstream, going against it feels like swimming upstream. (Then there are those inevitable side-eddies in the stream, where one gets caught swimming in circles until they find a way out).
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 12:02pm UTC
Aniko, I've thought more about what you've said:

"I took it to mean the whatever path we humans can conceive of following is not the real thing--that remains forever ineffable, undefinable, and out of our reach. In other words, when any of us speak about the Tao, we're not speaking about the Tao. The details we fill in are all illusions."

The Tao would be an illusion in so much as everything we perceive is an illusion. We don't perceive true reality, only the reality our senses represent.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 12:02pm UTC
I'd love to hear Elena weigh in on this.
WM H. Sep 22, 2010, 3:36pm UTC
"Going with it feels like swimming downstream, going against it feels like swimming upstream. "

Swimming upstream may feel no different than swimming downstream. It is only when you look at the shore that you notice you are not moving.
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 4:59pm UTC
I agree fully, and completely understand, with what Ann says here. (and as Joseph Campbell always said, follow your Bliss) ...

As to the "Paths" to follow ... their is no such thing, you must create your own, and then only in retrospect can you look back and see it.
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 5:12pm UTC
PS ... as for seeking GOD, or some concept of, one cannot hardly imagine, let alone really know, what that is in Truth ... there-for to seek a predetermined concept can most likely give you little more than the possible realization of only that concept ... whatever it amounts to in your mind only.

When I sought something better than life offered me, I sought Truth Only, as I did not find it on earth and I was finally open to it being available from a spiritual realm ... that is what I finally got ... IMnsHO ... it has more than satisfied me ... and thus I always recommend it to others ... yet I have also found truth to be relative on this realm, that being a part of the Greater Truth which can only be complete and absolute from the view of said GOD... again, IMnsHO.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 6:00pm UTC
For Bill:

"In a boat down a fast-running creek, it feels like trees on the bank are rushing by. What seems to be changing around us is rather the speed of our craft leaving this world." (Rumi)
aniko    Sep 22, 2010, 8:17pm UTC
"The Tao would be an illusion in so much as everything we perceive is an illusion. We don't perceive true reality, only the reality our senses represent."

Ann--that's exactly what I mean. I started with the idea that "everything we perceive [and pursue]" is imperfect (admittedly, that's an axiom for me) and saw a confirmation of that in the first like of the Tao Te-Ching, which seems to acknowledge that whatever we can say about the Tao , and the extent to which we could follow it, is subject to the same limitations. (Not the Tao itself, by the way, if one believes, like the writer of those lines obviously did, that the real thing really exists. That would be perfect. It's the human approaches to it that aren't.)
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 8:50pm UTC
Thanks for your explanation and close reading, Aniko. Of course I believe that everything is an illusion so I misunderstood. I thought you were saying that The Tao is somehow different than the rest of what we experience through our senses.
Adrian Eve Revenaugh Sep 23, 2010, 1:31am UTC
I'm glad to have checked back in. A very nicely fleshed out definition.
One of the things I like about the Tao Te-Ching are all of the contemporary renditions, shaped to reflect on particular applications.
Some years ago, the Easter Bunny left, in my teen daughter's basket, a version designed for parents. I think EB was hoping she might walk a mile or two with an altered view. It seemed to help a rocky time between us!
Shira C. Sep 23, 2010, 12:31pm UTC
Aniko wrote: (A "technique" is much like a map, I think--a new one to replace the old one we're throwing away.)

Indeed... and Zen emphasizes throwing away the techniques as they cease to be useful, until ultimately, no technique is needed.
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 1:28pm UTC
Oh, Ade, I must have a link to "The Parent's Tao Te Ching"! How funny!
Adrian Eve Revenaugh Sep 23, 2010, 2:37pm UTC
It's so funky to not be able to stick around. By the time I've read through all of the fine additional comments, I have to get to moving. But I always leave full of inspiration.
This is a sneak into The Parent's Tao Te Ching. It's a beautiful book and very useful.

Ade ~ (no longer housebound but once initiated to Gathering ... well ...)
Ann Marcaida Sep 23, 2010, 2:51pm UTC
Perfect gift for my siblings with kids. Thank you, Ade.
aniko    Sep 25, 2010, 1:44pm UTC
Shira:

"until ultimately, no technique is needed"

There's no Way, then. :)

My point here is not to "attack" any beliefs, of course--I'm trying to show how we always end up crashing into a paradox as we approach ultimate explanations/solutions. I still think that is exactly what the first line of the Tao Te-Ching meant, but of course I'm as likely to be projecting what I already believe into a text as anyone.
Ann Marcaida Sep 29, 2010, 12:58pm UTC
Hmmm. The longer I practice Buddhism, the less technique I seem to need. I think my practice is merging with my life. Perhaps that's The Tao.
Ron (Administering the Clear Channel Fox news gullibility test, daily) W. Sep 20, 2010, 5:37am UTC
Well, looks like those of us that have lost our religion are short some discussion fodder here, but nice discussion, anyway, folks. Just thought Id say hi since I was up and looking in.
WM H. Sep 20, 2010, 8:17am UTC
Thanks for stopping by.
Elena Margo Gould Sep 20, 2010, 8:28am UTC
Thanks for your readership, Ron.
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 10:29am UTC
What's your "official" status now, Ron? Last time I asked, it was agnostic, but I know you've been in a transition period. I hope you are doing okay with all the changes in your life.
Veronica Hosking Sep 20, 2010, 6:53pm UTC
I found this article interesting - Broken Budda
Ann Marcaida Sep 20, 2010, 6:55pm UTC
That's a great story. Reminds me of the LYR icon.
Shira C. Sep 20, 2010, 8:15pm UTC
What a wonderful essay, Veronica! I especially loved the idea that sometimes

suffering strikes like a tiger from the tall grass, snatching us from one life into another without cause or warning.

One thing I love about Buddhism is that it's all right to feel that the world doesn't always make sense. I used to waste so much time and energy trying to figure out how things fit into a pattern. Now, if I don't see a cause that I can do something about, I can just accept an event and deal with it.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:32pm UTC
Buddhism also had that effect on me, and I'm not sure why. Perhaps it was the repetition of that particularly maddening Buddhist phrase "Be with it."
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 1:33pm UTC
Which I interpret as "Let it be" or "Don't try to change things beyond your control."
Frank Luke Sep 21, 2010, 1:48pm UTC
Ann, re: Buddhism's appeal for me

Stripped of much of the mumbo-jumbo I experience with Buddhist dogma and tales, I feel it offers answers to some of the existential questions that other beliefs and religions do not.

I think Americans have interjected a more stripped-down everyday pragmatic Buddhism. By that I mean not so much dogma other than some of the basic precepts and teaching.

I can go into this in more detail but mention karma, rebirth, reincarnation, life/death.
Veronica Hosking Sep 21, 2010, 1:55pm UTC
In Wicca it's blessed be.
Ann Marcaida Sep 21, 2010, 2:38pm UTC
I like that site, Veronica:

“When one defines oneself as Pagan,
it means she or he follows an earth or nature religion,
one that sees the divine manifest in all creation.
The cycles of nature are our holy days, the earth is our temple,
its plants and creatures our partners and teachers.
We worship a deity that is both male and female,
a mother Goddess and a father God,
who together created all that is, was, or will be.
We respect life, cherish the free will of sentient beings,
and accept the sacredness of all creation.” --

Edain McCoy
Frank Luke Sep 22, 2010, 1:57pm UTC
Ann, re: "(The question now is "Does this make sense to anyone but me?")

It does to me enough to make me believe you have a good understanding of the Tao. It is something like walking on a path that's slightly mounded and easy to slip off but with continual attn and watching your steps, you'll be OK.

Like tightrope walking, the risk maybe as dire for those serious about "doing the right thing".

??
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 5:38pm UTC
The Buddha, to me, stands for a human individual who experienced Enlightenment ... the realization of his Oneness with ALL ...

That is to me just what the human Jesus experienced, only he attempted to tie it in with his Jewish beliefs of that day and age ... a natural and normal thing to do ... for him.

To consider such folks anything more than relative gods, is doing the whole concept a dis-service ... to worship them as God becomes a "religious" experience ... the natural generic Spiritual experience should be a relationship with the ONEness ... but through the Spiritual Soul that resides withIN each of us,our personal relationship to That ALL ... our eternal aspect that knows how we truly relate to it ALL ...

Said Soul should not be "worshiped" by placing a divine likeness to it attaching a specific "name" to it with religious connotations, other than a generic name that represents all such Spiritual Truths of the highest order concerning UNconditional Love ... which it really is.

Then when one makes that personal connection to IT ... it is as a heavenly wedding of the highest UNconditional Love where forgiveness is always available with due respect for the person who continually strives for the perfection offered by highest truth ... as relative as that is on this realm ... it is all about INtention ... I personally, in having such a relationship, cannot conceive of people settling for anything less such as a simple feeling of a simple Oneness only ... without wanting to use it to relate always with the ALL in Love and Truth.
Ann Marcaida Sep 22, 2010, 5:54pm UTC
I'm pretty sure neither Jesus nor The Buddha wanted to worshiped.
Jerry Kays Sep 22, 2010, 6:22pm UTC
I fully agree ...
Elena Margo Gould Sep 23, 2010, 1:24pm UTC
Jerry - I really like your comments above. They ring quite true with me. I think Oneness leaves behind the need for worship, hierarchy, begging, etc. and simply IS... in a whole, peaceful and loving state. Thank you for adding your wisdom to the conversation.
Jerry Kays Sep 23, 2010, 3:05pm UTC
Thanks Elena for the opportunity via your great article and wonderful pictures.
Frank Luke Sep 23, 2010, 5:14pm UTC
Veronica, re: blessed be

I think there's a big part of me that's pagan, how could I not be living in Hawaii?

To Whom this may concern (an open letter)

Thankyou for this blessing of my existence (the most part of my being).

I feel so blessed to be part of the band of all the others who believe as I do that the warding of this habitat is a sacred duty. To work for the wellbeing of all those who share our home/planet, including the non-human sentient ones and even the inanimate parts and the cosmos is vital to promoting Life.

TY for this wondrous Creation!

Sincerely, Frank
Veronica Hosking Sep 23, 2010, 5:36pm UTC
Frank, I think the same way living in an arid climate. How the creatures here survive makes one really appreciate and marvel at nature.
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 7:14am UTC
Frank, I like what you said about American Buddhism and The Tao. We are on the same wavelength.
aniko    Sep 25, 2010, 4:14pm UTC
I'm wondering if there's an issue here with what we understand by the concept of "worship". There seems to be an assumption that it's an enforced requirement, a demand one is put under, a form of servitude. But is that what the people on that Wiccan website mean when they say "We worship a deity that is both male and female,/ a mother Goddess and a father God,/ who together created all that is, was, or will be"? Is that what lovers mean when words like worship and adoration slip onto their lips as they think of their beloved? Or could it be that in the presence of true faith, worship starts flowing from the believer on its own, without a hierarchy applying any kind of force?
Ann Marcaida Sep 25, 2010, 4:28pm UTC
To me, "worship" has connotations of servitude, even though that's not part of the dictionary definition. I certainly wouldn't use "worship" with regards to my husband-- that's not at all part of our relationship.
aniko    Sep 26, 2010, 12:40am UTC
So did the word bother you when you read (and shared here) the Wiccans' statement (dare I say creed)? :) Did it stand out in that context, or did it fly under the radar?

I should probably phrase my question more explicitly: when poets speak about worshiping their beloved, are they responding to an external force or demand, or are they expressing an unavoidable internal reality?
Ann Marcaida Sep 26, 2010, 6:33am UTC
Yes, the word worship bothers me in the Wiccan creed. I have Wiccan friends, and they often feel a personal relationship with Gods or Goddesses, which I don't.

To me worship implies that the worshiper is "less than" the worshiped. This is appropriate for a relationship with a deity, but in my opinion doesn't bode well for a relationship with another human.

Personal experience tells me that if a man places me on a pedestal ("worships" me), he usually has bit of the "madonna/whore" complex and will be disenchanted when I fall off it (which I will, being human).
Ann Marcaida Sep 26, 2010, 6:37am UTC
"when poets speak about worshiping their beloved, are they responding to an external force or demand, or are they expressing an unavoidable internal reality?"

Either they are using worship in a metaphorical sense, or they are under the influence of that very powerful internal opiate called dopamine, which is responsible for the giddy highs of "falling in love."
Veronica Hosking Sep 26, 2010, 11:22pm UTC
Or worship flies under most people's radar because it is so common in our lexicon.
Jerry Kays Sep 28, 2010, 4:35am UTC
I am quite sure the word has different meanings for different people ... but to me it would mean undue respect in placing the object of worship (being) on too high of a pedestal ... such as GOD's Spirit in the form of my own Soul or higher Self, I would prefer to see our relationship more as the "equal but opposite", in that as relatively "low" as I am, compared to my Soul, we are still a team, a "loving marriage", with different related roles to play beneficial to each other, not necessarily one being "better than" the other, just different ... yet with UNconditional Love ... as best as can be expressed under the circumstances of less "connection" than would be preferred now.
aniko    Sep 28, 2010, 12:56pm UTC
Ann, I wasn't looking at it from the point of view of being worshiped by another (in which situation I would have much the same concerns that you do), but from the point of view of the person in love--but that is of course another word that's overused to the point of having had its meaning just about eroded. I mean here the kind of state in which concerns about who is higher or lower or what obligations are involved are not present--in the sense that they are overridden, eclipsed, made irrelevant by what you may call the power of the emotion (or the effect of dopamines), but to the person going through the experience it's the only truth that matters at that point.

That state seems to be what is described by many as a spiritual experience, and is frequently celebrated on LYR if it occurs while contemplating nature, meditating, whirling in a Sufi ceremony, etc. On the other hand, if a Christian church is involved, what many associate with the word "worship" is being forced as children to sit in uncomfortable pews and listen to boring sermons and old people's music for extended periods of time. What I'm trying to say is that perhaps in its original, primary sense, the word is supposed to mean much like what the whirling dervishes experience, and (other) religious people, even Christians, might just mean that when they use it instead of the moldy-pewed-stuffy-church-you-don't- want-to-be-in scenario.

(Regarding the dopamines, is there anything that happens in a human mind that could not be reduced to biochemistry (if we knew more, of course)? And if there isn't, does that mean there's no point in talking about anything else but biochemistry--that's all there is to us, and anything else is illusion?)
Ann Marcaida Sep 28, 2010, 1:05pm UTC
Oh, good clarification. I respect prayer, meditation, and speaking in tongues as altered mental states that can be important for spiritual growth. Are you placing "worship" in the same category? If so, how might it differ from prayer?
Ann Marcaida Sep 28, 2010, 1:10pm UTC
As far as your question about brain chemistry (and I presume you mean brain wiring as well), I think Jill Bolte Taylor would be better qualified than I to answer that. Did you mention that you were reading her book?