“If a man hit me, I’d leave him. Why do women go back to a guy who abuses them? What’s wrong with them?†Well, here’s part of your answer… Chris Brown’s crying performance at the 2010 BET Awards Sunday night. Check it out. The crying part is after all the very well executed Michael Jackson dance moves, during Brown’s attempt to sing “Man in the Mirror.â€
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Did you see how many people were moved by Chris’s tears? How many women were moved by his tears?
Twitter lit up tonight with all of the people who were moved by Brown’s tears and choked up attempts to sing “Man in the Mirror.†Scores of folks are ready to forgive him everything he’s ever done. Look! He’s clearly a changed man. Look at him breaking down at “Man in the Mirror.†Chris is ready to “make a change.†Brown was practically bawling up there. He must have been wiping away gallons of tears.
Gallons, eh?
Look at the pictures. I don’t see any tears. Brown didn’t produce any genuine tears. But, he did score a huge PR coup tonight. Would we be talking about his performance if he hadn't cried? Probably, but not for as long as we are. He tugged on our heart strings, and pulled us in. Chris Brown made what should have been a tribute to MJ, a tribute to himself. He became the center. All else fell away.
This is why women go back, dear readers, because the emotion of their abuser seems genuine. It draws them back. Like Brown’s emotion tonight seemed genuine, drawing us back. Welcome to the “honeymoon phase,†folks. Let's hope it lasts.






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Those pictures posted above are one sided -taken before he began to cry when he was holding back tears; if you look at the other pictures including the one I just posted a link to, they verify the fact that he DID cry. It is an emotional performance; how can one not be moved ESPECIALLY if he's performing a meaningful song.
But I love how everyone STILL tries to show Chris Brown as a bad person. Chris Brown is human, there are MANY guys who have abused women, and it's not fair that because Chris is a celebrity, he has to take a huge blow for it. We all make mistakes, but we learn from them.
This post was intended to expose how easily manipulated people can be by displays of emotion. I'm speaking about all of the people who were on the fence about giving him a chance or forgiving him until they saw him cry at the BET Awards. A few tears, real or not, and we're all "Oh, Chris Brown, you're the greatest." Those people were easily manipulated by emotional displays. Thus, if you are moved by this to forgive him, you should understand, at least at some level, why women forgive and go back to these types of relationships just to get abused again.