I'm asking this question because frankly I'm curious of your answers and this is a situation that I am dealing with regarding my daughter and her father and step-mother. My ex and his wife have two young boys under four that they adopted.
They live in a house with four bedrooms and each boy has his own room. The extra room is a first floor master bedroom that has been turned into a play room for the two boys. They also have a family room, formal living room and a dining room on the the first floor. For the last year, since the second boy was adopted, my daughter has no longer had a room of her "own" at her fathers. All of her clothing and other items she had there were sold in a yard sale or given to charity. The furniture that her uncle custom painted for her has been re-painted and given to the youngest boy.
My 16 year old daughter has to either sleep on the floor in a sleeping bag or on the couch which she says smells like cat pee. When she came home from a visit to his house last weekend she said that her toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, shampoo and a few other items that she had her previous visit were gone. Her father got upset with her when she asked him to take her to the store so that they could get her a toothbrush.
I asked my ex if it was true that my daughter didn't have a bed or a bedroom to sleep in. He said that he and his wife were discussing getting a bed to put in the "play room" but other than that only the people that lived there full time would have a room of their own.