Moving With Toddlers

Moving anytime can include any number of problems, but when moving with toddlers the problems may stop the progress of a move dead in it's tracks. Crying fits, bumps and scraps, and dozens of potential dangers can make a move a nightmare quickly. The best way to move when a toddler is involved is to make certain the child has as little exposure to the event as possible.

If practical, have a family member watch the child at their home on the day of the move. If this is not possible, designate one person on your moving team to be exclusively responsible for watching the child. This simple action will keep the toddler safe and out of harm's way, and give the parents peace of mind. Make certain there are plenty of activities to occupy the child time and imagination, more stimulation equals less toddler problems.

Since toddlers can seemingly move at the speed of light, use care in the way you move. Don't leave boxes stacked high that can fall over causing injury to the child. Cleaning supplies and tools used in the move should be closely guarded, and put away immediately upon finishing the task at hand. Don't allow toddlers, or any children of any age for that matter, on or around vehicles used in the move. Even though you have a person designated to watch your toddler, check on them frequently to ensure their safety.

At the end of the moving day, it is probably a good idea to let the toddler sleep with the parents in their bedroom for a night or two. Unfamiliar surroundings can cause fear and nightmares very easily in a toddler, and this extra measure will provide a sense of security for the child. Let it be known to the toddler that this is not a permanent situation, only temporary until everyone gets used to the new home. Play up the excitement of a getting a new house, and get the child enthused to be there.

After getting settled for a little while, like a day or two, gradually incorporate the child into the final touches on the house. Let the child help to decorate their own room, and ask and follow their opinion if practical. By doing this, the child will feel a sense of ownership in the new home, as they have had a voice in how things will be. Walk the toddler around the house and let them know where things have been put away that may pertain to them. Also, let the child know what dangers are present and what areas they are to steer clear of. Now you can relax and settle in to the peaceful enjoyment of your new home, secure in the knowledge you have done everything you could to make a smooth transition for your toddler.