I was really upset when I first read her response to me. I thought are you calling my daughter a Liar? Her response was basically to state that they have no aggressive kids. She also stated something that I already knew, which is my daughter does not take sh** from anyone. Someone takes something from her she gets in thier face and says "NO that is mine", but she will also take stuff from the other kids. Which is leading me to believe that My little brat had it coming..( I don't think she should have been hit in the nose, but I think she needed to be put in her place) I am working with her on not taking and sharing, but that is still a work in progress.
The part of the note that got to me was this. "You need to remember that Brianne has some language delays and though she has come along way, she is developing her language.
I took that statement as that even though Brianne clearly told us what happen she was wrong. Well we had speech today, and she reenacted quite of bit of what has happen to her in the classroom. She sent 2 out of the 4 boys to time out for "hurting her". So I talked to her speech path about and she believes that it did happen, but we also believe it is possible it happen because she took something from them too.
So I sent the teacher a note because she said she was willing to talk to me after school today. I told her it would not work today, but she will be calling me tomorrow. So I am not working on a list of questions for her. My bottom line is this, after last year I don't want to go through this again with her coming home bitten, hit and what ever else, all I basically want is for her to have an enjoyable day not a day like she had yesterday where she was crying and could not tell me what is wrong.
I am never going to be one of those moms who says "who my kid?? No way they are perfect". As a matter of fact I do realize my kids are pretty good, but they both have bratty tendicies.
So I will update again after tomorrow with the conference ove the phone with her.
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Will you keep my child safe?
Good luck!
My 14 year old is being stalked by an ex-boyfriend at school AGAIN. They dated in 7th grade and she broke up with him when he got controlling. He stalked her for a couple of months afterward, until he repeatedly groped her and tried to force her to kiss him at a 7th grade Valentine's dance. He was suspended and we thought all this was worked out, as he left her alone... until 2 weeks ago. I guess he figured that they moved up to the high school and that it was "fair game". Started all the stalking crap again and tried to physically hurt her (he lunged at her and tried to hit her when she told him to go away.) We met with the principal the next morning and she promised us that she was "handling it". The next week, Stalker Boy kept trying to talk to my daughter (he was warned to have ZERO contact with her or he would be suspended or expelled, depending on level of contact) and my daughter reported him. Another round of meetings and... he was let off with another verbal warning. I told the school any further situations would be reported to the police and my lawyer would be contacting the school about how to keep my daughter safe.
It's sick but it seems the schools promise everything regarding safety but, in our case, deliver nothing.
And the scary part? We're one of the best school districts in the country. We routinely rank in the top 50 in the US. Sad, isn't it?
I am the loiness and they are the cubs what do Loiness do, "protect thier cubs" I see this in you,, fight all you need to do and keep us inform
Its sad things like this happen...and like Mary says it does not get better.
Have so many different personalities together they will clash.
Good luck