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Parenting Success: An Easy Approach to an Enjoyable Experience
If I had my child to raise all over again,
I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I’d finger-paint more, and point the finger less.
I would do less correcting and more connecting.
I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
FI’d take more hikes and fly more kites.
I’d stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I’d do more hugging and less tugging.
~Diane Loomans, from “If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again”
What a child doesn’t receive he can seldom later give. ~P.D. James, Time to Be in Earnest
Parenting is a gift; it’s a blessing to be eternally grateful for. It is an opportunity to mold, take care of and shape the experiences and environment of another being. Parenting gives us that opportunity to make this world a better place one child at a time.
Children are the perfect form of true innocence; they are born as open as you can get to perfection. Each child is born with unique interests, abilities, skills and talents, it is our responsibility as parents to foster these uniqueness and create an environment that would allow them the opportunity to be who they were born to be and do what they were created to do. To live that life they were brought to this earth to live, making a difference.
Children Learn What They Live
If A Child by Amanda Carter
If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to feel shy.
If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,
he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,
he learns justice.
If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
he learns to find love in the world
Parenting is a fulfilling experience that so many are still trying to grasp. Channeling our energies in the right direction with accurate understanding of our roles as parents and the expectations we need to let go of, with an open Mind parenting success can be achieved and fostered daily.
Parenting by Modeling
Acceptance and Unconditional Love
Refraining from Harsh Discipline
Energy and Limitless Patience
Nutrition and Good Health Practices
Taking Responsibility for our Roles as Parents
Independence
Negating our Negative Upbringing & Implementing our Positive Upbringing
Guidance & Gratitude
Structured Schedules and a Stimulating Environment
Uniqueness of Every Child Fostered
Clarifying Boundaries through Open Communication
Creating Frequent Focused Quality Family Time
Establishing Balance in Family Life
Students of our Children
Slowing Down and Child Proofing


Comments: 2
It's sad as I worked for Headstart, you can tell how a child's home life is by the way they talk and act at school...and these are 3 and 4 yr olds!
A simple 'yes you can' rather than a 'how stupid are you?' changes everything. Children don't ask to be born.. they don't choose their parents..they don't put themselves here. If all parents would realize what a phenomenal experience it was the world truly would be a better place to be!