I couldn't believe this when I heard on CNN this morning that some people are being refused Health Insurance because they have been involved in Domestic Violence Relationships. I, for one know first hand the life long physical pain of first being abused by my Paternal Grandmother and other family members. I went from that to becoming a battered wife. No surprize there.
I have chronic pain, it seems like somedays my whole body hurts from the numerous punches, slaps and weapons used to abuse me. I'd run for cover from high heel shoes being thrown with precision at my head as a child. The name calling and derogatory remarks made my life miserable. I got bullied at home, I got bullied at school. My back constantly aches as well and I take massive amounts of Motrin to make it through the day.
I've never told any medical Doctors about my earlier life. I've never divulged the extent of the abuse. Childhood friends saw it first hand, but were unable to help. All my PCP knows is that I have PTSD, and he has put me on Meds to help me deal with that. They must be working, because I am finally, after fifty years talking about it.
I say, make the abusers pay for any health-related issues involving their actions. If they have died, their estate should be held accountable. Someone, somewhere needs to do something about this.


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"Not Responsible With Your Money... Not Responsible on the Road?
Many are asking, "What does one's credit rating or credit score have to do with their insurance policy premium or insurance quote?" The answer may surprise you. Insurance companies feel that if you are not responsible with your money, then you are more than likely not going to be responsible on the road. According to his recent statement to CBS, Donald Hanson of the National Association of Independent Insurers agrees. Hanson stated, "Research indicates that people who manage their personal finances responsibly tend to manage other important aspects of their life with that same level of responsibility and that would include being responsible behind the wheel of their car or being responsible in maintaining their home." Some disagree with Hanson's ideas on insurance credit scoring and feel it creates a hardship for many who are already struggling." HERE
This method of determining personal responsibilities, in my opinion, lacks the attribute of allowing for certain variables such as loss of jobs, unforeseen expenses and in the case of our present situation...a collapsed economy.
and I agree with you~make the f***ers who cause physical and emotional damage pay for the treatment~
Like you I have PTSD~to this day when someone walks into the room and if I'm deep n thought I almost hit the ceiling from jumping~ I still can't be touched~ and the pain from past injuries is an ever present reminder~
I'm glad you are at last getting the help you need to be able to discuss it and in time move past it for yourself~
But they sure don't want to offer you anything in return.
There are two reasons I think this.
1. Staying in abusive relationships is irresponsible and premiums for insurance companies that continually have to treat injuries sustained in these repetitive incidents can be very costly. There is no reason for a new insurer to have to take on that liability so that its rates will also increase.
2. It is very difficult for some people to leave abusive relationships. The idea that there won't always be the necessary fallback on the insurance to pick up the tab for related injuries may serve as a catalyst for that person to rid him or herself of the perpetrator and leave the relationship.
I think that this type of proper consideration given to all aspects of insurance decisions can cut costs and make fairer and more affordable premiums available, but we are not a caring enough nation to painstakingly consider how insurance can be fairer in these ways, unfortunately. We just want to dismiss it altogether and give another entity the same scope of power. That's just mindless groupthink, and not the kind of thinking of a nation that is supposed to be a leader in the world.
If they did this no one in our country would be able to be covered if they are honest with the insurance companies. If they want to check all backgrounds...... one may get away with lying to them?
Domestic violence is so common (to what degree will have to be determined) . I will be shocked if insurance companies get away with this!!
Compassion and insurance companies never had walked hand in hand.....
The last accident I was involved in was in 1984 and I was hit when a man ran a light. When my insurance rates went up I raised hell and got it back to were it was. Then a few years later they raised it again to a whopping degree when I got behind on bills when my wife was seriously ill and the insurance maxed out. I think it stinks to punish people for changes in their lifestyle due to no fault of their own. To me its a sick way to do business and reeks of being immoral.
What about this analogy...if you live in a low-rent neighborhood where crimes happen a lot, anything to do with crimes/drugs/gunshots are pre-existing conditions. Just another way for insurance companies deny coverage...