Life is challenging enough without having to associate with apathetic people. My inclination towards being kindhearted makes it difficult for me to understand the motivating force behind such people. Avoiding individuals who possess this type of personality is an action I practice diligently yet at times I find myself in one’s path. Limiting exposure to callous, dispassionate and unscrupulous people is easier to accomplish when it concerns our personal friendships than it is when we venture out into the business world. What kind of business person would be apathetic, callous, dispassionate and unscrupulous? Who else but the car salesperson?
Understandably car dealers and salespeople need to sell cars if they wish to have an income. This does not make unethical sales practices acceptable. Often the tactics employed skirt the law and come dangerously close to crossing the line. The object of the game is to sell cars regardless of the potential buyer’s circumstances.
Being persuasive, suggestive and skillful at manipulation are essential attributes to a salesperson’s persona. One can assume that these characteristics are extensions of the seller’s moral philosophy. The responsible consumer would be well advised to obey the Latin rule Caveat Emptor: Let the Buyer Beware.
Falling prey to emotional manipulation is difficult to avoid. Maturity allows humans some mastery over their sensibilities but the control is not guaranteed. My daughter allowed her emotions to victimize her this week and as her parents we proved that our emotional discipline was also fallible. Earlier this week I posted an article Holding The Reins On Your Emotions regarding Michaela’s need for a new vehicle. Over the course of the past week we have become increasingly aware that the car dealership was employing dishonest means to persuade us into purchasing a 2009 auto from them. Upon her initial contact with the dealership, Michaela was led to believe that her age was the only obstacle preventing her from obtaining a loan. My husband and I agreed to co sign for a loan after being told that we were pre qualified. The finance manager assured us the loan would be granted and the car was placed in my daughter’s hands. Through out this long week my daughter was forming an attachment with the vehicle while we were battling to find financing. Monday we were informed that the loan would be in my husband’s name only and my daughter would not be able to be included until her 18th birthday this November. Tuesday brought the news that due to our already having a car loan we would need a co signer. “Merely a formality” was the statement made to us. My daughter was distraught over the possibility of losing the car. Her disappointment weighed heavy on us. We sought out a solution but our options were eliminated one by one. Thursday we made the decision to opt for plan B which was purchasing a used car. The dealership offered us “guaranteed financing” if we selected an older car but agreed to the same conditions as when purchasing the 2009. Not willing to fall prey to their manipulations again we informed them we would not be doing business with them and the car would be returned Friday. The dealership contacted my daughter and informed her if the vehicle was not turned in by noon Friday the car would be reported as stolen to the police. Work and school were not factors they were willing to make allowance for. Terrorizing a 17 year old girl is not what I consider ethical sales practice. My husband professed our displeasure to the dealership and requested our deposit be returned to us as well as the car used as a trade-in. The business manager exerted that a check would be issued after ten business days. Our online banking statement assures us that the check was cleared Monday morning. My husband and daughter will arrive at the dealership in a few hours prepared for a battle. This dealership will never be utilized by my family again and we will strongly urge others to cease patronizing them.


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That's one of the problems of Capitalism, that I find so distasteful. I have an extreme sense of fairness to all. OK.. ya want to be a millionaire.. fine. I'd like a new truck and so would all my neighbors. Tell ya what. Lower the prices by about 75 percent, sell more cars. You'll be rich anyway, but we'll all be a little happier. Sorry... I know ya want to be a billionaire, but you'll have to settle for something LESS... just like the rest of us.
Sorry to hear of your probs. Greed is a nasty thing.
So, now I am stuck paying for a rental car for 2 or 3 months until the lawsuit from my accident is settled. Hopefully I will have a sizeable enough down payment that I can go buy some sort of a car. I hate the deceptive ads. The reason I went to the dealership I did was because they were offering up to $10,000 off new cars, which would have been right in the same range as the used car I left with. But, no they could not sell me a new car due to my credit scores. It is all so wrong.
After that experience, we will never cosign for anyone. I felt it was pure manipulation, so my son would not pay for the car ever again....which is what I think would have happened. My son was working so there was no reason for him not to pay it.
Hope Michaela gets another car soon and discovers that not everyone is as these folks are.
All my best!
tomorrow is vague
Have you read Dave Ramsey's books? He has very good ideas, and action plans that many can put into play in their everyday lives quite easily, and his ideas changed my life in very big ways, for the better.
The interesting thing is my daughter just got her trade in back. The reason she needs to replace it is because the head gaskets were blown. They had sent the car to another dealership and she thinks they may have fixed it.
Sorry it was so rough on you guys. Car dealers suck.
HH
once w/ an ex, he went to buy a car and while he was negotiating inside one of the car salesmen ACTUALLY asked me out for dinner THAT night, while my boyfriend was inside the dealership!!!!
some ppl are just natural a-holes, unfortunately it seems a lot of these ppl end up working at a car dealership!
HH
I so wanted to call to let him know I chose a bigger car from another dealership, but controlled that impulse.
Extending Helping Hands.
I dislike car dealerships that do not do what is right for the customer.
Today, with all the financial issues in the automobile industry; I now realized they have created most of the issues themselves.
Americans are still the buying and loyal customer for car sales and not the prey to unethical tactics.
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HH
I am sorry you had to go through that.
HH
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