No Birthday gift ideas for women -then dun give!

It must sound crazy, maybe even sucidal but this is exactly what I meant! I mean if your birthday gift ideas for women that you love meant giving her a present on that day, what is so special about that?

Everyone gives presents on birthday, so there is no surprise, nothing special and she probably expect it. I think it is John Gray that says that giving gifts on special days are no special.

Here is how it goes: he mentions that girls give men points for good things that they do, normal points for remembering special days (guys were meant to remember special occassions anyway right!).

But, if guys gives gifts during normal days and out of the blue (even just to utter a simple "I love you"), the ladies would be thrilled and award more points.

And it is this theory that I based on my no birthday gifts for her during her birthday -surprise her! Have the whole thing forward, a couple of days, so that she would not expect it at all!

In fact, getting the involvement of her colleagues and friends would be a superb idea -girls loves attention and no one would be upset about a caring boyfriend/husband.

Treasure hunt is the best way to involve the colleagues and spread the birthday joy to her. Give each colleague a small piece of puzzle and with each puzzle a little clue that leads to the next puzzle.

The final destination is of course YOU! The reward can be a meal, a gift etc. Throughout the process, she would enjoy the attention and best wishes of her colleagues.

Moreover, she would also enjoy the process of the treasure hunt then in the end, she would also enjoy her "prize":)

Most important, is because it would take place at a time and day that she did not expect, she would be pleasantly surprised, in fact, i would say that she would be shocked that you can involved so many people.

Trust me -regardless the birthday, this would be a year that she would remember and treasure for the longest time -never have anyone done this for her before...