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Episode 118
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Here are some thoughts extracted from a review of
The Religious Case Against Belief by James P. Carse,
embedded in a larger article;
Holding the Center, by Doug Muder
Spring 2009 2.15.09
 
“God doesn’t move us by telling us the facts. He moves us by pains and contradictions. He’s given me a lack of understanding. Not answers, but questions—an invitation to marvel.â€
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In a nutshell, belief systems provide the comfort of clear answers; religions provide a sense of wonder in the contemplation of mystery.
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Belief systems are closed and strident, pretending to knowledge that they do not have. Lacking mystery, they do not invoke a creative response in their followers, and that makes them brittle.
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The great religions spin off multiple belief systems, each of which in time becomes rigid and crashes. But the creative mystery at the religion’s core survives each crash unblemished.
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The act of belief is always an act against; it requires an opponent who holds the contrary belief. . . . If believers need to inspire fellow believers to hold firmly to their position, they need just as much to inspire nonbelievers to hold to theirs.
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The greatest threat to the believer, then, is not the unbeliever, but the religious: the person whose appreciation of mystery causes him or her to see a world larger than the one that the believer has cleaved neatly in half.
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Where belief systems rest on “the authority of power,†religions rely on “the authority of poetry.†The religious captivates rather than captures.
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A religion is not a book any more than a pearl is the grain of sand that provokes its formation. Instead, a religion is the living community that is engaged and moved to wonder by a set of mysteries.
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 The demand that interpretation stop is precisely the moment when religion ends and belief begins. And the impossibility of satisfying that demand is why belief always eventually fails.
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The complete article can be found here:
http://www.uuworld.org/ideas/articles/129000.shtml




Comments: 269
Holding the Center
The "linear" view that causes the problems in this world is that of the "two ends" polarized in opposition resulting so often in conflict ... such as the dualistic view of God at one extreme (+) and Satan (-) at the other, (+/-).
In such a view, that in the very center then is considered a gap or void, the grey area of what our dominate religion tends to call "fence sitting" and so cautions against.
Thus it is the "linear view" based upon opposing extremes that causes a tendency towards extremism ... one reason being that for people in doubt there is much more "definition" seen in "comparison" when extremes are put up against each other, so much easier to "decide", which all too often results in "judgment" rather than simple discernment.
So seeking the extremes for understanding is good ... as long as one does not try to operate there. One needs to find the center balance point that works best for them ... not in a selfish way, but considering the greater picture of universal truth, that we are all interconnected by Spirit (=) ...
(+=-)>(+/-) ... IMnsHO.
The "greater than" sign (>) denotes an inequality, which is to say (+=-) / (+/-) . . . division !!!
Would not (+=-)=(+/-) , be the ultimate "equation" therefor? Would that not be the final reconciliation? Not the "trinitarian" view, which is still oppositional, but the Omnitarian !
(+=-)=(+/-) has arrived . . . evolution time, Jer ; )
I think that you could be very close to understanding the "mystery" ...
Welcome to LYR and thank you for your comment.
The comment you like is certain to generate controversy. I hope you come back to see what others have to say and weigh in again.
"I am not convinced that I even need to follow my own beliefs, just respect them."
That sure makes sense to me . . since we are living beings, and what we believe MUST result from what we experience, I say, it makes more sense to say that beliefs need to follow us ; )
This notion that people believe what they declare, is just not realistic. We believe what we have been convinced of in real life (including our mind's responses, and reasoning, etc). The very concept that what we say, or think, is the same thing as what we actually believe, bestows on the self, a power it simply does not have; One can try to believe something one has not been convinced of in reality-land, till hell freezes over ; ) But, the self cannot cause the whole being to believe anything by its will, I can see for myself anytime.
"I know that some feel a great comfort from clear beliefs."
Well, naturally. That is a very good thing . . . but I am not speaking of beliefs that are not clearly established as well founded, in reality. I am speaking of whatever it might be, that has been demonstrated to a convincing extent, in one's actual life. That would naturally include the belief that the Book is an actual Message to the individual human beings on earth, as was clearly demonstrated to myself.
Speaking of coyotes...we have quite a few in our area. I have been letting off a few rounds with my 12 gauge to scare them off...but when we have our animals I will have to be more aggressive.
Atheist Dictionary
Bible: A closed and strident belief system, pretending to knowledge that it does not have. (hell, that's what we believe, anyway.)
This thread will serve as a spectator sport for me. Y'all can 'take over.'
Have fun!
I believe my car is a blue/green '95 Saturn, no opposing view required . . .
Theory falsified.
"Does it make it any less than what it is?"
No, theory doubly falsified . . ; )
" . . . and a car thief may beg to differ with you there in his own opposing belief. If that car is no longer in your possession, do you believe you still own it?"
He didn't make out so good, seems the police have access to records and things, and phones through which I was able to convince them that my car had been stolen.
He over-believed a bit.
This fellow "owned" my car for about four hours, it seemed. It was spotted, parked, and they waited nearby. And sure enough the young fools got nailed getting back into it . . . no harm to the car.
I did have to pay an annoying amount of time and money with towing/storage and all, but it was basically just a teeny blip, on the vast radar of life . .
. . . for me, anyway . .
"The act of belief is always an act against; it requires an opponent who holds the contrary belief. . . "
Slices of a full text are often misleading when presented without the full text.
In the case of religion...the belief is not against..because the belief of the non believer is a lack of belief...not a belief.
Meaning atheists do not believe a god does not exists...we lack a belief that a god exists. Lack a belief..........
Theism makes a positive belief claim. Atheism refers to the absence of that belief. Again...atheism is not the conviction that there is no god, it is the absence of a belief that there is a god...or supreme being....which is not a positive claim.
The article in it's entirety, seemed to me to be suggesting a form of middle ground compromise, the spiritual (=) in (+=-) ... just saying.
Carse lays out a distinction between belief systems and religions in that belief systems provide the comfort of clear answers; religions provide a sense of wonder in the contemplation of mystery.
(http://www.uuworld.org/ideas/articles/129000.shtml)
A direct quote is "...there is a deeper vitality in the Christian faith, as in all the great religions, that no single belief system can fully represent.”
The "middle ground" is rather shaky if Carse does not believe in ANY god. This isn't a middle ground as far as faith in the supernatural. Carse's interest is his fascination with the unknowable. "...in the sense that I am endlessly fascinated with the unknowability of what it means to be human, to exist at all."
This fascinates me too Jerry. And yet I am not spiritual....not in the slightest...not by the broadest definition.
Many of our more pious and righteous religious folks fall into that area of considering themselves the more, if not most, positive (+) ... and the rest of the "heathens" more related to Satan (-) ... (their standards). IMnsHO
(see my earliest comment to ben on this thread).
Is this true? How does the author know this?
He advises us to embrace the mystery while he prattles off about twenty declarative and absolute statements. . .
Such hypocrisy. . ."There's no way we can know."
Well how do you know that big guy? Are you the only enlightened one in the room?
-Mark
"Better than if he thinks he knows something every one must, to my view..."
But, that's just what the author is doing here, is it not? He is declaring that what he considers not discoverable, must not be discoverable by anyone . . He goes so far as to make absolute assertions about what all people cannot know . . but, how could he know that stuff, if his own assertion is fact?
It's like a snake eating its own tale ; ) . . . The logical basis for his assertions are swallowed by the assertions themselves.
He’s given me a lack of understanding.
He must have given me the same gift, because I don't understand what this statement means. can anyone explain. . .
And, by the way, who's the He that's doing all the gifting or the lack thereof? Does anyone know anything about Him or is He like some anonymous donor?
In the dark, -Mark
Mystery?
can you give me an example Ben?
-Mark
Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?
Luke 1:34
Seems pretty cut and dried to me. . .
-Mark
with all due respect, I'd rather enjoy the union than your goofy metaphor. . .
-Mark
If you don't answer I will understand, suspicions confirmed. :-)
What would you have us learn Jerry?
When is it right to question God's Word?
"Hath God really said?" was the tempter's original ruse. . .
-Mark
Mark, "" When is it right to question God's Word? "" ... When God is an impostor for GOD ...
So rested he by the Tumtum tree,
And stood awhile in thought. . .
Thanks for that bit of poetry, Jerry.
-Mark
It seems you're mainly interested here in quick takes and smarty put-downs, that show your sharp wit and usually veiled acerbicness. Can you present anything not merely reacting to something negatively? This may be exaggerating, but mostly true, I believe. Your misplaced wit gets old, IMO.
Frank, your Don Ho "Aloha" gets old too. Deal with it. . .
-Mark
-Mark
After days of thinking, I've just come to the point where I thought I needed to say something there about the main topic of conversation (I didn't think so, initially, because Ann and yourself already know what I think). The thread is closed now, and I wouldn't want to "spoil" this one with comments that don't belong here.
I, for one, always enjoy hearing what you have to say about anything. . .
Why don't you have at it?
-Mark
I'd be happen to open the old one for you, but as it sits at 589 comments and is barely working, would you consider bringing the relevant comments and your reply over here? You'd in no way be "spoiling" this conversation.
The opening of a new episode has never been intended to cut off a previous disscussion. The primary reason we do this is because comment threads over two hundred comments slow things down and some with oldeer computers or slower connections are shut out altogether.
Ann and I have been remiss in allowing the comment stream to build to 500+ comments.
These offerings are intended as seeds of discussion that our commenters may or may not address. It is not intended to close out previous topics.
It does take me about ten minutes (completely frozen browser) to post a comment on those longer threads, so I know what you're talking about there. (It takes much less to just load the page--twenty seconds, maybe). Despite this, sometimes something really belongs on a specific thread and nowhere else.
No need to open the thread though. All of that's pretty much over here now.
Some feel persecuted for who they are and what they believe while others believe LYR is heading for hell in a handbasket because of the belligerent behavior of a few wascally wabbits. . .
-Mark
Sorry, I didn't mean to ignore your comment. I was out for much of the day (most of it, registering a kid for HS), and now may have lost my inspiration again.
-Mark
Have they instructed you, as well, to pick up your toys and bring them along home?
-Mark
I'll be back (at the bottom of the thread, I think).
It's good to hear from you again and from all the others too! Together we're better!
-Mark
IMnsHO.
I don't think it's true that belief is an "act against" and requires that someone hold an opposing view. I believe the sun will "rise" tomorrow. Does anyone hold the opposing view? Or, how about something personal: I believe a current story idea I have is stupid. I know no one holds an opposing view, since no one even knows about it.
It really seems to me, that what is being championed in this piece, is the notion that not knowing, is the same as knowing. This all hangs on the assumption that we humans are not valid witnesses of our own reality. By this logos, there simply is no point in believing anything, cause you can never be absolutely certain, you're not insane.
This is what I sometimes refer to as "the wisdom of the stones". . cause, within this pit, you might as well be one ; )
It depends upon the "time" stipulated, I believe the sun will "set" tomorrow. :-)
It depends upon the "time" stipulated, I believe the sun will "set" tomorrow. :-)
No it doesn't, genius. Somewhere the sun is rising and at the same time somewhere the sun is setting. . .
Have you missed the headlines? Earth Not Flat But Spherical
-Mark
Not so fast . . the really deeep ones can argue anything . . .
Let's whip up a few alternate universes, and just see about your smug conclusions then . .
It's good to see you again!
This is really the root of the complaints about your abrasive presence here that disregards the premise of the blog. You obviously are adamant re: what the bible promulgates as words to obey yet you callously dismiss the rules of LYR's heading as well. Your value here is to sharpen the wits of those who care to respond to your baiting and serves of value to shake up the bloggers here. Your comments are usually so vitriolic reading them inspires contradiction. If I may say, your disregard and disrespect for the premise of this blog shows you as an uninvited and very rude intruder. I expect you will not pay heed to anything I submit here but perhaps there may be a surprising attention paid and some thought given to your behavior. Aloha,
"If I may say, your disregard and disrespect for the premise of this blog shows you as an uninvited and very rude intruder."
The author has the option of not allowing just any old rag-a muffin to intrude upon the lofty discussions of the wise and knowledgeable "core group", if they choose. When they don't choose that, I'm rather sure it is the intention of Gather, that we little nobodies actually speak up, even if our contributions serve only to demonstrate the vast superiority of our betters ; )
Not true.
Gather allows for selective inclusion via the "friends only" option. There is no mechanism for selective exclusion.
You want a nice little closed discussion? You just make this a private affair, nothing stopping you.
Comments are of course restricted to "members only" in a private group. However, I'm not in favor of making LYR a private group because it's contrary to our goals.
We tread a fine line between promoting a rigorous and robust discussion and degenerating into incivility and contentiousness.
Oooh, that sounds so profound, so enlightened, so progressive. . .
Point in fact, however, the unbeliever is possibly more religious and dogmatic in their unbelief than a believer in his belief. An unbeliever is actually a believer as well. He just happens to believe in a different set of propositions.
As far as cleaving the world in two, what could be more limiting and constricting then the individual who says "If my net can't catch it, it ain't fish". . .
What would be left of the world if it were only limited to what we could grasp with our three pounds of grey matter?
-Mark
Perhaps, but I just think that it has become fashionable to be agnostic - you paint everything with a broad stroke and pride yourself in being open-minded and progressive. . . Check out this dialog from my new one act play:
curtain raises, house lights come up
"I love pop tarts."
"We can't know what your breakfast favorites are."
"I just told you; I love pop tarts - actually brown sugar cinnamon."
"Hush, we must embrace the mystery. Will you come to breakfast?"
"Sure."
"Oh dear, what shall I serve you? Eggs, no waffles. . ."
"I love pop tarts."
"Oh dear, I can't know."
"Brown sugar cinnamon pop tarts - I like 'em toasted with black coffee."
"Don't worry, I'm sure the creative mystery juices will stir inside of me and we will have an enlightened breakfast."
"How about just some pop tarts?"
prospective host goes out scratching her head. . .
curtain closes, stage goes dark
-Mark
Prospective hostess . . ; )
I'm in the process of doing a re-write now. I think it has Tony Award written all over it. Do you think it needs more action?
-Mark
You put me in mind of a strawberry with sprinkles girl. . .
-Mark
Do you know the muffin man,
The muffin man, the muffin man,
Do you know the muffin man,
Who lives in Drury Lane?
No I don’t know the muffin man,
The muffin man, the muffin man,
How can I know the muffin man,
And still embrace the mystery?
C’mon, you have to know the muffin man,
The muffin man, the muffin man,
you have to know the muffin man,
He lives in Drury Lane!
I simply can’t know the muffin man,
The muffin man, the muffin man,
I can’t know the muffin man,
And where d’you say he lives?
Author - unknown
Author - unknowable . . ; )
You're really beginning to irritate me with your red pen. . .
Where are the moderators?
-Mark
If by agnostic is meant to doubt the truth of religion, I don't think that's fashionable and I think many bloggers here would believe so as well. Losing belief in organized religions doesn't necessarily, in fact shouldn't include losing one's spirituality. I think more and more are coming to lose religion, dissuaded by the behaviors of believers in them that exhibit lack of understanding of compassion and spiritiual values.
I believe in God the Father Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth.
Whoa dude! I'm made in His image? How awesome is that?
You mean, I'm made to be creative too?
You mean, I, too, can speak things into existence?
You mean, I, too, can love and receive love?
He's my father? I'm actually His child?
He loves me so much that He would sacrifice His Son to reconcile me to Him?
Whoa dude!
-Mark
Oh, yeah, this is Thursday . . . By Saturday we'll be back to harping on how difficult it is to interpret the Book with certainty . .
Right now its pointless chit chat. But it appears that everyone is having fun. Maybe that is the point.
`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe. . .
from The Jabberwocky by Lewis Carroll
That makes perfect sense to me. . . I will wonder as I wander. . .
-Mark
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheeple
With all his frailty, Senator Kennedy (and his entire impressive family) has been a real exemplar of exercising his spirtitual (Catholic) values vigourously, leaving a legacy of service that's made the world a better place for multitudes of the grateful, lining up as well as memorializing him in thought to thank him. On balance, I believe his accomplishments far outweigh his failings. Many of that remarkable family, though not in Congress, are involved in public service. Bless them and all who thus are so, as well.
I wonder if Mary Jo Kopecne's(sp?) folks would assent to your eulogy.
-Mark
In the larger scheme of things, the Kopeckne family might. You note my use of the words (On balance)?
I'll give you this much on Kennedy; he, like any of us, has a checkered past. I just wouldn't waste a whole lot of type glorifying him though. I grew up near the compound in HyannisPort; I've seen both sides of the Kennedy legacy. . .
-Mark
the termSheeple:
It is often used to denote persons who voluntarily acquiesce to a perceived authority. . .
LYR's Bo Peep has lost her sheep
But I bet she knows where to find them
She's set the tone, said leave them alone;
They're precisely where she's assigned them. . .
Author - unknowable
-Mark
The Pope has claimed that atheism is responsible for the destruction of the environment. In a speech at the Vatican on Wednesday, Ratzinger said: “Is it not true that inconsiderate use of creation begins where God is marginalized or also where his existence is denied? If the human creature's relationship with the Creator weakens, matter is reduced to egoistic possession, man becomes the ‘final authority,’ and the objective of existence is reduced to a feverish race to possess the most possible.”
Terry Sanderson, President of the National Secular Society, commented: “This is rich coming from the leader of an organisation that has plundered the world to enrich itself. As he sits in his golden palaces, surrounded by unimaginable luxury and material wealth, he lectures the rest of us about restraint and greed. We have nothing to learn about environmentalism from this hypocrite.”
Here is the transcript of the entire speech: http://www.catholic.net/index.php?option=zenit&id=26693
Even my devoutly Catholic mom is getting disallusioned by the fact that the Pope appears to live in some past century.
Logically speaking, it makes about as much sense as the claim that religion is the cause of all wars and violence.
"Logically speaking, it makes about as much sense as the claim that religion is the cause of all wars and violence."
Only if one assumes the Book is not genuine. If it is, then naturally, marginalizing God, would mean the inevitable drifting further away from His advice, which would just as naturally result in real world consequences that are harmful to mankind.
It is simply not possible, logically speaking, that the Book is the Word of God, and yet ignoring what it tells us would not be to our detriment.
This is a rather sensational headline. It looks like a lead from the Boston Herald or the New York Daily News. Lest you think it is only non-believers who have marginalized God; in effect banning Him from His own creation - more and more Christian believers conduct their affairs as if God has no real involvement in the affairs of the world around them. They pay lip service to a God who little resembles the sovereign Living God Who reveals Himself to us in His creation, in history and in the Living and Written Word. . .
I am just as guilty of it as any - of living out a practical atheism, conducting my affairs as if God has no sway. I think this is what Ratzinger is driving at. . .
-Mark
-Mark
I'm pretty sure some of her harrier teammates are agnostic, perhaps even blatant atheists. . .
-Mark
Irish blasphemy law proposal
There is a proposed amendment to Irish defemation legislation including an updated blasphemy Libel law. Go here.
As TheObserver and Gary C point out. The article says:
"Minister for Justice Dermot Ahern proposes to insert a new section into the Defamation Bill, stating: “A person who publishes or utters blasphemous matter shall be guilty of an offence and shall be liable upon conviction on indictment to a fine not exceeding €100,000.”
“Blasphemous matter” is defined as matter “that is grossly abusive or insulting in relation to matters held sacred by any religion, thereby causing outrage among a substantial number of the adherents of that religion; and he or she intends, by the publication of the matter concerned, to cause such outrage.”
Where a person is convicted of an offence under this section, the court may issue a warrant authorising the Garda Síochána to enter, if necessary using reasonable force, a premises.
"Steelman said...
The publishing of the basic tenets of any revealed religion that bills itself as the only true route to the attainment of paradise, and the avoidance of eternal punishment, should qualify.
So, will the Catholics, Protestants, and Muslims all be taking turns on filing complaints against each other? That way the police could organize their workload by, say, regularly raiding in turn church and mosque offices on different days of the week. ;)
April 29, 2009 6:43 PM "
Existential intelligence can be defined as the ability to be sensitive to, or have the capacity for, conceptualizing or tackling deeper or larger questions about human existence, such as the meaning of life, why are we born, why do we die, what is consciousness, or how did we get here.
There are many people who feel that there should be a ninth intelligence, existential intelligence (A.K.A.: "wondering smart, cosmic smart, spiritually smart, or metaphysical intelligence"). The possibility of this intelligence has been alluded to by Gardner in several of his works. He has stated that existential intelligence might be manifest in someone who is concerned with fundamental questions about existence, or who questions the intricacies of existence. And while Professor Gardner has offered a preliminary definition as: "Individuals who exhibit the proclivity to pose and ponder questions about life, death, and ultimate realities," he has not fully confirmed, endorsed, or described this intelligence.
Perhaps the difficulty is that Gardner wisely believes that this will open a can of worms best left out of the arena of education. Or, since a great deal of the importance and credibility of Gardner's work rests on neurological evidence of site specific locations within the brain, it might be that it is a bit risky for any author or scientist to definitively pinpoint the exact biological seat of spiritual wonder or cosmic awareness without offending any number of people, or some cultural or religious groups. It is important to remember that part of the power of Gardner's work depends upon careful examination of the available data and scientific evidence. So, at this point in time, it might be safer to say that existential intelligence is the "half" in 8-1/2 intelligences that comprise MI Theory.
Despite this avoidance on Gardner's part to definitively commit to existential intelligence, there are many who have accepted the presence of this intelligence as fact and have attempted to clarify what it might look like if it were part of the MI array. For those who have met children who appear to have "old souls," it is often easy to accept the existence of existential intelligence as something very real and important. These are the children who appear to have a sixth sense, they may be psychic, or ones who pose, and sometimes even answer, life's larger questions. Like:
Why am I here? Why are we here?
Are there other dimensions, and if so what are they like?
Can animals understand us, or do animals go to heaven?
Are there really ghosts?
Where do we go when we die?
Why are some people evil?
Is there life on other planets?
Where is heaven?
Why does God live?
These may be those children who can be described as "fully aware" of the cosmos -- of its diversity, complexity, and wonder. Frequently, these are the children who persist in asking those "big" questions that adults cannot answer.
copyright Leslie Owen Wilson, 1997, 2001, 2003. 2005
I'm cutting the beginning, which is tongue-in-cheek and refers to my disqualification for being here, not being "spiritual" by my definition, and a couple of other fillers.
...But my serious response is that I don't see the "religious" as the problem on LYR. The problem I see is that people are completely ignoring rule #1. Instead of talking about their own beliefs, they're criticizing others' beliefs. It's a constant "What's wrong with..." rant instead of concentrating on what one's own perspective can offer.
And not only are others' beliefs criticized (which I'd have no problem with on another thread, where it wasn't part of the desired ethos not to do that and everyone would know what they were in for), there are frequent insinuations of character faults in those who believe differently or disagree with one's thesis. These ad hominems shift between indirect and direct references, and come from all sides of the nonbeliever-spiritual-religious triangle. That is what drives me nuts on LYR, and if you asked me what to add to the rules, I would say something about that. (There's nothing about not attacking people personally at this point.)
As for the idea of open-mindedness, I would say that we should have the ability to listen and learn from each other, even if our worldviews and foundational beliefs differ significantly and are not very likely to change.
[Re: the idea that the thread becomes a referendum on fundamentalist Christianity]... the attacks on Christianity that have dominated the past few threads are not against fundamentalists. Calling church-going people indoctrinated "sheeple" and suggesting religion was invented to control the masses--for example--is a slam against all Christians, no matter how modern or liberal they are.
They can take that personal or not, it is just a fact ... if the shoe fits ...
One wonders if they get it . . . ?
Makes perfect sense, to some, it seems.
-Mark
And of course that is just what I attempt to do here ...
"" LISTEN carefully and try to see other participants' points of view, no matter how different from your own. ""
I always do, that is why I can understand them so well ...
"" Please don't "preach" or attempt to convert anyone else to your viewpoint. ""
Other than because it breaks a rule, why the hell not ? ... anything worth believing in should be worth passing on to others ... nobody is forced to accept.