by ♥Tinkerbell♥ ♥Princess♥
Member since:
November 23, 2008

I Had A Miscarriage :'(

August 09, 2009 03:39 AM UTC
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Remember when I was last on and posted I was pregnant at 3 weeks well between my computer not working right and all the doctors visits I'm sorry. Right now I'm at my mom's over night so I figured I'd catch everyone up to what's going on in my life. Well There not sure what caused it but they believe I stressed myself out too much because at 4 weeks I started spotting so I went back to the doctor and they told me they wanted me to take it easy and try to relax more. Well into my 5th week I started bleeding more and was rushed to the hospital and that night was the night my body aborted my child. My husband is sad to but says everything happens for a reason, I wish I could see it that way. So here it is almost 2 weeks later and I'm trying to move on with my life. I know it will get easier later on just curious how many others can relate to what I'm going through? If so what's the best way to get through this?

Comments: 16

Joe N. Aug 9, 2009, 4:27am UTC
sorry to hear me and my wife had one back a couple years ago at her 5th month, and I've had some in the past as well I have no kids of my own and may never so trust in god to help you through this time
~*~Danyale~*~ N. Nov 10, 2009, 2:43am UTC
yep as he said we have been there and its no easy task god be with you
Karen R. Aug 9, 2009, 4:48am UTC
I have had a stillborn baby, a premature baby with a heart defect who did not make it and I think I had a miscarriage once, too. I did have one good healthy pregnancy and that son is now 25 years old. It gets easier with time. You will always wonder what would have been if that baby had lived, but as the years go by, you will think about it less. I hope you are able to try again soon and that you are able to have a healthy happy full term baby.
d d. Aug 9, 2009, 7:56am UTC
I have never experienced what you have gone through, so I do not have any words of wisdom. I can only say that I am sorry for your loss. sending hugs.
Katie R. Aug 9, 2009, 9:45am UTC
Wow. I am extremely sorry.
Shirley ♡ ☮ M. Aug 9, 2009, 9:48am UTC
Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care.
J W. Aug 9, 2009, 12:53pm UTC
sorry for your loss
Peter Joseph Swanson Aug 9, 2009, 3:09pm UTC
Very sad
*LORA* M. Aug 9, 2009, 5:36pm UTC
I am sorry
Patty Mayonaise Aug 9, 2009, 6:51pm UTC
i had the same thing happen to me. Twin boys, loswt at 20 weeks. the only thing that will help is time. youve gotta cry it out-dont let yourself bottle it up and tak about it whenever you need. PM me if your interested in talking or if you'd like some websites that would be helpful to you as they were helpful for me. its been a year a nd a half, I still cry for them, but im alot better. take care hun
Jeff R. Aug 9, 2009, 10:01pm UTC
I am sorry for your lose...
Janet "Jax" B. Aug 10, 2009, 12:33am UTC
I'm so sorry for your loss. My SIL lost one at almost 20 weeks, but a few months later she was pregnant again. They now have a healthy 8 mo. old girl.... I hope everything works out for you and your hubby also.
Dena M. Aug 10, 2009, 12:39am UTC
I have lost a child to being stillborn. Lost another one due to my water breaking too early and he died a few hours after he was born. Then I had a daughter who died after she was born and was three months old. Best advice I can give you if your planning on trying again is give your body time to heal .. and your mind time to work through it all. I know I hated to hear it from people but it does get better in time.

Sorry for your loss.
♥Tinkerbell♥ ♥Princess♥ Aug 10, 2009, 5:10am UTC
thanks all so much I'm still staying with my mom she's been helping some thanks again
Kimber L. Feb 13, 2010, 2:25pm UTC
I am sorry for your loss. I have suffered two losses to ectopic pregancy. My prayers are with you that you have recovered physically and emotionally by now.

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