Many novelists, myself included, troll the news for ideas and inspiration, but there are some stories that should be off limits, no matter how captivating and intriguing.
For me, it’s the Diane Schuler story. When the story first broke that this devoted, hard working mother of two had somehow entered the windy Taconic Parkway in the wrong direction, and that eight people died instantly as a result, including four young children, there were no words. None. Like everyone else, all I could do was stare at the haunting images of those beautiful babies and pray for their souls, pray for their families, pray for the Bastardis and the Longos, the victims in the other car, and pray for everyone who had to clean up the carnage.
For days I tried to imagine how the Schuler and Hance families were enduring- what possible comfort family and friends could offer, how they were even managing to eat, sleep, function, care about living. I tried to imagine Jackie and Warren Hance, the parents who lost all three of their stunning daughters in a fraction of a second, walking into their girls’ rooms and seeing the litany of still possessions, the stuffed animals, the clothes, the music, the photos- and not begging God to take them as well. I thought about Diane’s husband, Danny, who lost his wife and best friend, his daughter, Erin, but was spared his five-year old son, Bryan, who continues to heal in the hospital. At least Danny had a living legacy in which to hold on, I thought.
Then word came that the tragedy was still unfolding. Diane Schuler was discovered to be drunk and stoned- well beyond the legal limits- when she crashed her brother’s minivan. It explained everything and it explained nothing.
What now should her family and the world make of Diane Schuler? What were the thoughts of all those people who had attested to her being a responsible, caring mother, aunt, co-worker? The people who said goodbye to her at the campgrounds and saw nothing amiss, including the woman who was swore that “she was as sober as a judge.” The friends and neighbors who never so much as saw her with a drink in her hand?
The demolished, half- drunk bottle of Absolut found in the wreckage tells another story- the truth. And you can be assured that more of that will be spilled onto the front pages over the weeks and months to come, all while the victimized families try to regroup.
I will continue to pray for them, and I will add another prayer. I hope that Jodi Piccoult, the best-selling Queen of Tragedy, and others who toil in this field, don’t go down this road with the Schuler and Hance families. I hope that they don’t find inspiration and ideas from the underlying causes- the hidden addictions, possible money and marriage woes and whatever else is revealed. All I know is that there is some material, as rich as it would be to mine, that should not be cannibalized for the sake of hitting the best-seller list.
Going forward, these families will suffer enough without having to watch the books and surely the movies, forcing them to relive the day their hearts were forever broken.
To these writers I say, long may your fingers fly across the keyboard, and long may you share your insights and stories, but please, don’t even think of giving this tragedy your revisionist’s touch. If not for the sake of the victims and their families, then for the sake of little Bryan Schuler. Who among us doesn't hope that he will somehow carry on; that he will have the love and support he needs to enjoy life; that he will discover the decency and goodness of the human spirit? He does not need to ever learn which child actor was cast to play him in the film.


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My heart goes out to these families. The loss is unimaginable.
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It is precisely those of us with dark secrets who are the stuff of novellas, but in reality life is more cruel, tragic and twisted than any writer can ever portray.
I didn't know about this story, but a little boy and his father will be hard pressed to find peace and solace. The same with everyone involved. Who has the strength of spirit to deal with such devastation?
And what do you mean by "Diane Schuler was discovered to be drunk and stoned- well beyond the legal limits . . . "? I take that to mean that you think beyond the legal limits is not necessarily drunk. It's obvious she was drunk; she was going the wrong way on the freeway. Jeez!
She killed her brother's kids. But before she did, she called her brother and told him she felt awful. Her brother told her to wait there, that he was coming to get them. She didn't wait. She chose to murder, instead.
You can sympathize with a drunk driver until you or someone in your immediate family is killed or handicapped by a drunk driver. Then you can't.
While it may seem that too much has been said about Diane Schuler already, I think probably not enough will be said about the real essence of the story, which remains hidden even in death.
Thanks for posting the article, Christine!
I hope this isn't sensationalized in books and movies. What passes for entertainment is often deplorable. Have we heard enough about Michael Jackson yet? Greedy grabbers don't think or don't care about the feelings of survivors.
If, instead of saying hands off and/or together in prayer, you had explained how writers could use this story without victimizing the families (that is possible), this post would have been a good fit for the group Writing Tips. As it is, I don't see any writing tips.
Since Bush Sr. got sick at the formal dinner in Japan (was it Prozac?), we have known that the meds are over used and abused by too many.
Lets stop being hypocritical about this.