I’m starting to believe that the women in my family may have a "hoarding or stockpiling" gene that kicks in when we reach 50 or so.
Back when I was a kid, our pantry was generally and thankfully well-stocked. But Mom also had a sweet tooth and had a habit of squirreling sweets away. We kids would periodically discover one of her secret caches of Hershey bars, cinnamon candies or lemon drops--which she'd then be forced to share with us. Except for the occasional treasure trove of sweets, it was a typical middle-class family of 6 pantry.
As the years passed, Mom’s urge to amass stores of foods increased. In our college & hippie days when we'd come home to visit, my siblings and I would stand open-mouthed contemplating the delectable treats hidden in every possible corner of her kitchen pantry. We'd look at each other wide eyed--wow, have you visited mom's pantry yet?!
By the time we were in our 30s, the treasure troves extended to a large freezer tightly packed with goods and goodies—from Swanson’s potato pillows to ice cream bonbons and Omaha steaks—in other words, abundance at its finest.
Naturally, it was a delight to visit home. One never knew what new and novel food item would emerge from the pantry or freezer. Trying to fit into one’s bell bottoms later was another thing altogether.
My passed away a few years ago and we must have made a charity very happy with all the foods we donated.
Then, a couple of years ago, my mom’s sister, Aunt Kay (90) fell ill and I made the long trek to Wyoming to help out. Intending to bake biscuits, I noticed the flour had weevils. Aunt Kay directed me to a metal container fastened to the inside of the garage wall. After uncovering the receptacle, I lifted the lid to find at least a twenty 5lb bags of flour.
Soon thereafter, I opened the oven to discover two large bags of Dove bars; one semi-sweet, the other regular milk chocolate. I teased her about having chocolates everywhere-- but I had yet to discover the BASEMENT!
In the basement, I discovered two upright freezers and a refrigerator. The refrigerator was stuffed with chocolates of all types, the freezers packed with all manner of foods.
But that was just the beginning:
Aunt Kay sent me to a room in the basement for a can of tomatoes.
There I found two rooms, one crammed with dry goods (paper towels, cleansers, cleaners, etc.) and the other fitted with floor to ceiling shelves full. There was case after case of canned goods, cereals, oils, packs of raisins, soups and myriad of foodstuffs and quite a few sweets too. Ironically, Aunt Kay maintains a slender and lively 95 lbs.
The room was so well-stocked it could have been a retail outlet. Later I discovered even the attic held vast stores of paper towels & tp.
I asked her about the need to keep so many things on hand, she simply says she buys things on sale so she doesn't run out.
So did the fact that Mom & Aunt Kay lived through the great depression have bearing on this stockpiling behavior?
Possibly.
But then again, over the past few years, I’ve begun to buy certain items in bulk to stockpile—such as paper towels & tp for economy. The list is fairly small because we have small house.
Recently I found we were running low on paper towels and felt a slow panic rising. Suddenly it felt as if we were two rolls from being destitute! I needed to know that we had at least four extra rolls!
Recognizing the urge, I stopped and made a list of things I feel the need to stockpile or experience panic when they are low:
Paper towels,
Toilet Paper
Canned Tomatoes
Dishwashing Soap
Shampoo & or conditioner
Hand soap / bath soap
Printer Paper
Printer Ink
Glues of all kinds
Scissors
Does the stockpiling instinct run in your family, and if so what do you stockpile? ;)


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My Mom was a child of the Great Depression and she had a pretty well stocked pantry as well, although it wasn't overly stocked. My mother-in-law used to hoard chocolate candies in her underwear drawer so she could grab a bite when the urge for a sweet grabbed her. Seeing that she didn't have children in the house at the time seemed a bit odd, but she didn't want to share it with my father-in-law. We humans are a quirky lot!
At 33 though, I feel 'safe' when my pantry is over flowing. Maybe, it's starting on me now! Oh NO!
I'm not laughing-- cause I'll be going to Target tomorrow for the super large pack of extra mega jumbo big rolls--- or some such thing!
We looked around the other day and Gaaaaahhh, look at all the clutter!
I do think a lot of people that lived through the depression tend to both stock pile food and also be pretty tight with their money. My grandmother is also this way.
Some people stock pile so they don't run out but other stock pile because of dementia or a need to shop. I have relatives in all categories...
After my MIL went in a nursing home I was amazed with all the food I found in her fridge and freezer...dozens of boxes of stick butter..some in the fridge some in the freezer...pies, cakes, frozen dinners...all out dated by a couple of years...Shampoo out the ying yang...it seemed that every time she went to the store, before I stepped in, she bought the same items
And then I have a family member that has so much stuff in the house that you have to walk a path through the house...boxes and bags stacked up of stuff, almost every available inch of space is used up with stuff they don't use, she just has...bought because is was on sale or she thought someone might want it.... she can't stop buying even though they are on a fixed income...
and yet another family member buys bulk of paper goods because they are on sale..and not just enough to get through the month...but so much that they have to find places to store it...in the clothes closet or under the bed
ME
I only buy bulk from Sams when I have maybe a roll or two left...lucky for me I don't have a whole lot of space and refuse to buy just because it's on sale...BUT ..I still have my mind, no telling what will happen if I start to forget what's at home...scary