Yesterday was the last dance. The last dance recital my daughter had at the studio where she studied dance for 8 years. Eight years of recitals. The studio where she studied is not just ANY studio, but her aunt's studio, my husband's sister, which she opened on September 10, 2001.

Yes, the day before the day we all remember with such pain, the day we celebrated the opening of something wondrous - my SIL's dance studio. We posted flyers all over town and I was going to submit an article for the local paper before news of dance studios became less important than global tragedy. Rightfully so.
That year, I also took tap and jazz with my daughter. We practiced in the kitchen. My daughter was 10 and soon would blossom into the woman of 18 she is today, a dancer who excels in tap, jazz, ballet, ballet pointe, modern, lyrical, hip hop and flamenco.
No, she did not take all these this year, but each year she took most of these. Her schedule was 4 times a week around dinner time for 1 to 2 hours, including Saturday and including a month during the summer.
This year, my daughter was Captain of the Dance Team, the Dance Team that danced in the pre-game show for the Boston Celtics one night this past April, a feat they have accomplished for the last 4 years.
The Dance Team at the Studio also danced before Senior Citizens in Nursing Homes and other groups.
My daughter has been a busy bee, and has also been enrolled in a special foreign language program on Wednesday nights for the past 8 years, learning Japanese, Mandarin, Spanish and French.
In 2005, my daughter, husband and son spent two weeks in Tokyo on a homestay with the global foreign language program, a program started in Japan but has a base here in town when the current Empress of Japan, Masako, was studying at the high school here.
Last summer, my family spent two weeks in Shanghai, also on a homestay with Shanghai members of the foreign language program.
My daughter will go to art school, majoring in fashion design come September, and will be taking a dance program, (not her major), but as a side interest.
At the recital yesterday, my lovely daughter was in 7 numbers in 90 minutes out of the total of 24 numbers.
She had a pointe solo, danced a modern dance number , one in tap, jazz, but my favorite by far was the pointe number she did with three other members - Fashion Week, in which each dancer made their own ballet costume in a rather avant garde style in pink and black, then appeared on pointe during the entire number strutting up and down as if they were runway models. This was done to avant garde music.
The studio had students from 3 years to adult, with one woman who appeared in recitals most other years, a woman now in her 80s.
Tears and flowers, flowers and tears were presented at the end of the recital.
We then drove a few blocks to the studio, where we partied the next several hours, with pot luck dishes in salads, tacos, nachos, pasta, meatballs, fruit, brownies, cookies, and Rice Krispie Squares my daughter and I made.
Not to mention all the beer and wine and soda for everyone.
The tiny studio, brightly painted in pastels, with paintings and photographs of dancers adorning the walls, was full to capacity with dancers, friends and parents.
We hated the see the evening end.
Next year, it will be on to other events for us.
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Comments: 51
congrats..... happy recital
She deserves apreciation because as amulti linguist she can learn the many dances Ifever she goes to India i recommend Kathak
Thank you, Dr. Saxena.
*applauds*
Sounds like your daughter is an incredible dancer as well as an excellent student. She will do well in any area she pursues. It is sad when they leave home.
Thank you. Yes, sad.
congrats
How wonderful! I danced for around 12 years... mostly tap. The recitals were always so exciting; truly the culmination of everything!
Congrats to your daughter on a job well done, both with the dance and languages.
Dancing is one of the most exciting things there is.
Congrats to your daughterand you for doing such a great job raising her!
Kathryn, you are blessed with a beautiful and talented girl.
she is beautiful as are her talents......... she has a widows peak...how enchanting.....
The last recital must have been semi sweet. Your daughter has brains, beauty and talent going for her. She will go far in life. I wish her luck and happiness as she embarks upon this new path.
very pretty daughter Kathryn. I hope she does well, in her career...
Well deserved pride.
I am gald that you have fun
that was lovely Kathryn, but it's not the last dance for her...it's only the beginning!
Congrats to her, she is a very pretty girl.
Wonderful!
Talent runs in your family. Now she can explore more. Congratulation.
the shelf life of sunshine
A very bittersweet moment for you, and your daughter, I am sure.
Wow, she resembles mom. This is a great pic and a wonderful brag about your child. Tell her job well done. :)
what a wonderful culmination!
Congrat! She is beautiful! :)
Beauty and talent she displays and it all started at age 10 in the kitchen with mamma practicing Jazz dances together. You should justly feel proud.
Congrats to her for all her hard-earned accomplishments, and to you and your husband for giving her a great start in life. She will shine!
And she has not YET had a boyfriend, or even a DATE, at 18, because, as you can see, as her at 17 in the photo, she is going on 21 and the boys are 17 going on 14. Watch out for college, here she comes!
Thank you all.....
To be so young and full of talent and drive! She is going places, Momma, just like you =)
You have a multitalented daughter and on this happy occaison I wish for her only what I wished for my own daughter. She has succeeded in all she strived for as I am sure your daughter will.
I, too, am certain....
She must be as talented as she is lovely.
She sounds like a wonderfully talented young woman. You must be very proud of her.
yes i am. thank you.
You're welcome
Wonderful story. Congrats and best wishes. She's beautiful.
thank you.
congratulations for success and of course all the hard work that was put into it. Your daughter is an amazing you woman and young talent
congrats, amazing that is something to carry with her for entired life!
Kathryn - she looks quite a bit like you - and is very pretty. I know how proud of her you are and I hope that she continues on the path of dance and learning...she certainly sounds creative and I guess you can look forward to wearing some of her designs in the future - how fun - tell her to focus on those of us 50 and over who like to dress in joy-filled clothes...congratulations and thanks for this very interesting post. Salud
thank you....she is wonderful and she might become a shoe designer, but I told her we ladies of a certain age need fashion WITH comfort!
meaning, I always had trouble with shoes....must have SOFT leather, meaning, NO CHEAPIES. Just very delicate feet....
for those Dancer to want to be a Best Dancer.