I wrote an article Friday letting you all know my husband, Eric got a new job. Well this morning started that new job. Last night I fixed his lunch and had it ready so all he had to do was grab it. I as well made him some crystal light that he loves in a thermos.
He tried calling me on first break but James and I was still in bed. At noon he called me and told me how he was so happy. He said the job isn't really that hard but does have some heavy lifting, nothing he can't handle though. I am so proud of him he has tried so hard to get a job and get us of TANF. While this is on a temporary job for a few months its still a step in that right direction. I can't help but think between this and his GED he is working on that he will find something permanent after this.
I think what lifts his spirits the most is what he said to me last night. "I can handle anything as long as I am not working for $1.50 and hour any longer." Some of you may not understand that statement. However, if any of you have been on TANF recently you know that they no longer allow you to just have it handed to you. You are required to work 30 hours a week, and put in 5 job applications to get it. Eric has done this ever since December even when we had no car. I am very proud of him and all of this shows how determined he is. Even more it shows how much he loves his family. Tonight I am making him a special meal, steaks, baked potatos and I'm not quite sure what else. He deserves that after his first hard day at work.
May I add one thing all of us SAHM mother's know how hard it is to be a homemaker. We all have a hard job as well no disagreement there. But tonight when your husband walks in the door just kiss him and tell him thank you for working for your family. You never know when that job won't be there any longer even more they work very hard to put that meal on your table, they deserve to hear a thank you once in awhile and know you love them.
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I am so happy for you! You must be so proud of your man. And thanks for the reminder. I always try to remember to thank my boyfiend for working so hard so I can stay home with our girls.
Congratulations to Eric and your family!! I'm so happy for you! I'll take your advice and give my hubby a big smooch!!
I dont know what TANF is or how it works.
But you tell Mr Eric we are all proud of him.
Lori TANF is state aid, the money not foodstamps. We was getting $399 a month through the state while he wasn't working. Gosh it is so wonderful to be typing was instead of is.
I sure will tell him and thank you.
Thank you Alicia and Janie, sometimes we just take them for granted.
I am so glad that he is excited and motivated at his new job. That is really half of the battle, attitude:)
I couldn't agree with you more about making sure that he is appreciated when he comes home. I do that everyday when Art comes home. I also try to keep the ranting about my day to myself for a few minutes. You know, the dog ate this, or so and so drove me nuts today. I usually succeed in keeping the negative to myself for at least a few minutes and not barrage him with whining as soon as he drives up.
Thats some good advice too. I always have to watch myself from complaining about my day.
I'm glad it is all working out for both of you!
great advice. you are your husbands best asset!!! :)
Congrads to Eric... Hope your luck has changed for the best... God bless you and the family... Smile Missy
You are so right! It always seems that it is easier to get a job when one is working too... just keep pluggin' away for him and better things will come your way.
Many Blessings!
Great attitude Renee! you guys are doing so well!
So happy for you, this is just wonderful :) Hugs to you too, you're the other half and deserve them too!
I'm glad to hear that he has a job and you're making your way up through life.
Bless you dear.
Thanks for the reminder Renee. I rarely tell my husband that I appreciate him working for the family. I need to make an effort to do so.
Happy for you.
I'm so glad for both of you. Way to go Eric.
That is totally awesome news!!! My hubby already knows how much he is appreciated, we have been on the financial rollercoaster before and it is great to have a steady income! :)
I am so glad things are changing for you guys for the better!
This is wonderful news.
What great news. You are so right and we tend to forget that at times. Thanks for the reminder.
what a wonderful post and the love for your man s right there in front of the whole world and i am so proud of eric and you as well
congrats to you &your husband, i am still pat myself on the back,from time to time still single!lol!
Thanks for the reminder.
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I think you are so right about thanking your mate for all the hard work and love they show. I tell my hubby thanks all the time. BE BLESSED
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Awwwwwwwwww! Congratulations!
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