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Pick-Me-Up Chat Transcript. How do you keep your busy schedule straight?

April 30, 2009 02:12 PM EDT (Updated: May 29, 2009 02:53 PM EDT)
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It's only 4PM, and whether you're a stay at home mom, working 9 to 5 or just busy with life, you probably feel that you've already accomplished a lot with your day. Take a moment to relax, recharge, and join the weekly Pick-Me-Up chat, a time to focus on you and to get a boost of energy and motivation from your Gather friends.

The Pick-Me-Up chat takes place TODAY from 4-5PM ET in the comment section of this article. Today's discussion questions are:

  • How do you keep your busy schedule straight?
  • How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc)

Share your thoughts on this topic and provide helpful tips to other.

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Comments: 199

karen h. Apr 30, 2009, 2:15pm EDT
i really wish i could be here but i have a pressing engagement a night out with my mom
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norene t. Apr 30, 2009, 2:22pm EDT
OH Steph!I hope I can get the computer from the teen!
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golds g. Apr 30, 2009, 2:23pm EDT
I have class drats
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Pam H. Apr 30, 2009, 3:07pm EDT
I tried Cranergy for the first time yesterday. I thought it was great, I felt great and was really impressed with this beverage. I will most definitely buy it again for myself. My family did not care for the taste of it, but I thoroughly enjoyed it.
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:01pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?

I write out my goals for a day the night before. Somehow it gets in my brain and I find myself working on projects without even checking the list. I also carry a calendar with me all the time and a small notebook where I keep track of all kinds of things. One book and not all the little notes that used to get lost.

How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc)
Too many sometimes! I am a writer, wife, mother, friend, seminar leader, organizer of a monthly event at the arts council and Gatherer!
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:02pm EDT
Hello everyone!
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Barb (Gather Site Ferret) Carlson Apr 30, 2009, 4:03pm EDT
I'm here.
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:03pm EDT
Hi I am here has it started?
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Barb (Gather Site Ferret) Carlson Apr 30, 2009, 4:05pm EDT
As for keeping things straight, I just muddle through. I don't always do so well.
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Mary G. Apr 30, 2009, 4:05pm EDT
* How do you keep your busy schedule straight? I have a calender and write down everything that needs to be done and at what time it takes place, if its something that needs to be done at a certain time.
* How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc) I'm a mother, wife, business owner, and have a job. There are days I'm not sure how to do it all.
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Barb (Gather Site Ferret) Carlson Apr 30, 2009, 4:05pm EDT
Yo, Kimber!
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Sandy M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:06pm EDT
Hi everyone.
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Barb (Gather Site Ferret) Carlson Apr 30, 2009, 4:07pm EDT
My hats are: secretary, wife, mother, Director of a ferret shelter and a ferret council, and resource for people with sick ferrets. I write my appointments on a calendar at work.
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Mary G. Apr 30, 2009, 4:07pm EDT
One tip I have for others is not to beat yourself up when you can't do something that day. Your real friends will understand that you can't do everything.
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:07pm EDT
I'm talking with my daughter as I write! Talk about several hats.
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:08pm EDT
* How do you keep your busy schedule straight? I have an organizer I carry with me and I set alerts to go off on my cell phone too!
* How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc): Mother, Stepmother, Sister, Aunt to be (sis having a baby in sept.) Administrative Assistant, Grandaughter/help to Alzheimers patient, Daughter (to mom who is a cancer survivor), Domestic Violence Survivor, Wife, Writer, VOLUNTEER (volunteer for relay for life, and walk for alzheimers), Donor (Donate clothes and food items to battered womens shelters and other worthy causes), Soccer Coach, Friend, Motivator, Guardian Angel (honestly one of my friends calls me her Angel), Optimist, and hopefully sometime soon I can add student to be followed by counselor/psychologist. LOL
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:08pm EDT
Hi to everyone who joined in
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:08pm EDT
I also wear the hat of quilter as I am making a quilt in my spare time too!
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:08pm EDT
I agree with Mary about not beating yourself if you don't do everything!
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:09pm EDT
I am also a Dance Mom, Soccer Mom, Boyscout Mom, Basketball Mom, Acting Student Mom, Baseball Mom, etc with all the activities the kids are in!
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:10pm EDT
I have a calendar I carry faithfully with me everywhere I go and we have a master one at home that hubby and i both write in so we can coordinate better
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:11pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?

I don't...LOL...I do have a calander with big spaces that everything gets written in on the right date in color coded markers....BUT, I still manage to miss and forget things.
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Sandy M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:11pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight? I try to accomplish the most important things first. if I do have a lot of things planned I will write it down on a calender.

How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc) I`m a wife, mother of a grown son, housekeeper,gardener,take care of 4 dogs, shopper,cook,etc.
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:11pm EDT
OH also add Bridesmaid to my hats, friends getting married in September I am definitely in the wedding party then another wedding in October I am pretty sure I am going to be asked to bein the party
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:12pm EDT
We have gotten very good at keeping schedules/budgeting time! LOL
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:12pm EDT
Kimber, I've never mastered meshing our calendars together. Maybe next year. My husband is going to design a calendar for everyone at work. Maybe we'll post it and I can add my dates on it. I get rather used to, "oh by the way . . ."
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:12pm EDT
How many hats do you wear???

Hmm...way too many. When one comes off, another one goes right on. I'm also a dance mom, a Boy Scout mom, a wife, a taxi service, a chef, a caterer, etc...
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:12pm EDT
Hi Barb - I noticed you said "yo" in earlier post sorry I didn't see it right away - acknowledging now with a wink and a hug!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:14pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?
Many ways...white boards, chalk boards and software to remind me.

How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc)
Wife, Caregiver, Sole Proprietor, Computer Trainer, and much more.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:14pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?
Don't schedule too much, make sure you keep a calendar and check it periodically


How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc)
mother of two fabulous young adults, part time student at aeronautical university where i work as an administrative assistant for many, wife to a husband who just retired, grandmommy to two adorable doxies, sister to 3, aunt to 5,
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:14pm EDT
Have fun with the bridesmaid bit....we have 4 weddings this summer already. Thank goodness I don't have to be in any....I refuse...I was in 2...mine and my best friend's....everyone else...nope....hate it...
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:15pm EDT
My small notebook comes in so handy. I keep track of notes from meetings, grocery lists, projects, etc.
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:15pm EDT
Trish we have a big one that has room for everything. Alot of nights we head seperate directions one with each kid BUT we always make time for each other EVERY night when the kids go to bed we have a "date". It might just be playing cards, or talking, or even watching a movie or tv show together but we have "us" time every day
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:15pm EDT
I have to keep my busy schedule straight. I work best under pressure. LOL! Many people depend on me to do alot of things.
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:15pm EDT
I am happy for the friends getting married Janet! LOL I introduced two of them - one has been my friend for 24 years now
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:16pm EDT
I am happy for the other couple too - all are great friends I love our group of friends they are all wonderful people!
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:16pm EDT
That would be wonderful Kimber. My husband works in the theatre and when he's busy he's busy meaning I'm lucky to see him at 10 in the evening and then he's so exhausted!
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:16pm EDT
I'm with you JF.. i work best under pressure.. but don't all women??
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:16pm EDT
I enjoy all my friends on here too - I feel very blessed!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:16pm EDT
People tease me about being the Post-it Queen. They are stuck everywhere.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:17pm EDT
add mother in law soon.. my dtr. is getting married in December so that's keeping us busy!
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:17pm EDT
i'm big on post it notes!
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:17pm EDT
I do the post it thing at work JF taping them to my desk until i complete each said task LOL
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Sandy M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:17pm EDT
I use post it notes often too or I would never remember things that I have to do.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:17pm EDT
I'm with you Kimber!!
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
i three calendars on my desk!!!
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
Yes, I work better under pressure but not too much or I freeze. I've found that if I set up my own deadlines I do better. I started doing this because with my health I never knew when I would hit a bad day. So I started moving up deadlines. It's become a terrific habit. Often I forget that it's my deadline and not the real one!
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Kimber L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
Speaking of work duty calls - accountant just asked me to prepare deposit - he is too busy LOL
I wear many hats at my job too! LOL Talk to you all later!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
Yes, there are alot of nice people on here. And great groups and different interests. That helps. Take a break, be on here, then get ready for the next task at hand.
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
That's great Kimber...I happy for the family and friends getting married here, but I just want to be a guest...
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Nana to Seven Cutiepies Apr 30, 2009, 4:18pm EDT
Well, it's 4 pm here and this is my busy time actually. All day I can schedule things and have a routine going on for my regular chores such as taking care of the house, appointments, and even me time. Come 4 pm though I have to be sure to have the time to start preparing dinner, nothing can stand in the way of that. All the other things during the week can be divided up among the hours of the day. I think I learned to be disciplined when I had children, from the time they came home from school until bedtime, I was busy and knew better than to have any plans for anything else.
So my answer to it all is to have a schedule that works for me and the family being sure to take the time during the day or evening that is just for me. This is usually when I am home alone. When the kids were very small it was nap time and when I worked outside the house it was that hour after I put the kids to bed.
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Susan B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:19pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight? - I have my calendar program for appts, but I keep my wrting schedule on a spreadsheet
How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc) wife, mom, writer, blogger, buck club leader, book reviewer...
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Sandy M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:19pm EDT
have a great day Kimber.
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Kari L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:19pm EDT
I heavily rely on a planner (about the size of a checkbook) and my cell phone. Those items are on me at all times when I'm not at home. I also keep a calendar on the fridge so others in the house know what is going on. Every night, I'll check it so I know what's going on the next day.

My hats are full-time college student, girlfriend, and volunteer. On campus, I'm also a member of three different student organizations.
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:19pm EDT
Hi Nana!
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Kari L. Apr 30, 2009, 4:19pm EDT
I keep a lot of to-do lists with dates too!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:20pm EDT
My hubby found me one time, writing notes on the shower door while I was sitting in a hot bath. Hey, I got the problem solved for the job. Worked for me. LOL!!
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:20pm EDT
We have everything color coded here....one color for dance, another for Scouts, another for school...etc
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:21pm EDT
Hi Gloria! I love your gosling and duckling photos....so cute.
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Tabitha M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:21pm EDT
I live out of my planner. I can make notes on my daily pages to keep track of everyone's plans. I would love to have a handheld electronic device, but I'm cheap :)
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Pam H. Apr 30, 2009, 4:21pm EDT
How do I do it? I keep a to do list, it helps alot. I have a 20 year old that I take to work at 7:30 am, a 15 year old son that has to be at school at 7:20 and a 7 year old that has to be at school at 7:50. I seem to be in the car alot between 7am and 8 am. Then I hustle home to get myself ready for work as an office manager till 5pm.

I get home about 5:30 and start dinner, get them to ball practice and pick up oldest up from work. I keep myself very busy. A schedule routine helps me out alot. As does the Cranergy I tried yesterday, I was not exhausted when I returned home in the evening. I comtinued doing.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:21pm EDT
good idea "Jax" i relied on the school calendar on the frig door for years when my kids were young
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Heather ~of the Whippets~ M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:21pm EDT
Good afternoon, everyone.

How do I keep my busy schedule straight? My planner, of course. Modern technology is all well and good, but I prefer having something that won't crash, doesn't need a power source, is lightweight and is easily portable.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:22pm EDT
key is don't overplan!!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:23pm EDT
You are right Nana. I have my own business and people thinks it is easy, but it is not. You really have to discipline yourself or you will not succeed. Being in the business for over 22 years+ now. So, it is working.
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:23pm EDT
No kidding Diana....I know neighbors that have their kids in EVERYTHING under the sun...they are always go, go, go...and the kids never have a chance to just be outside and be kids.
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Pam H. Apr 30, 2009, 4:23pm EDT
the many hats I wear.

I help to care for my sick in laws, thank God they live beside me.

I help my own Mother who is recovering from shoulder surgery.

I am a Mother, Wife, Office Manager and I also help with light cleaning duties at work. I wear myself out trying to keep up with taking care of everyone else.
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:23pm EDT
Tabitha, I wonder how I would do with a handheld electronic organizer but I'm not sure if it might not frustrate me.
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colleen m. Apr 30, 2009, 4:24pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?
I have a pretty good memory - if I didn't I'd be sunk. I have so much to do every day. I make a lot of lists for everything and post-it-notes!

How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc)I am a doting aunt of three, soon to be wife, scientist, and wonder woman! I am the family confident for health information and employment advice. Of course, I am a blogger as well.
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Pam H. Apr 30, 2009, 4:24pm EDT
My Day planner also helps out alot. The next three months are jam packed with baseball stuff.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:24pm EDT
my kids were allowed in two activities per school year..
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:25pm EDT
Trish, I had one and I just spent to much time with it. It was a waste of time for me. Depends on how much you are on the go, etc.
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Heather ~of the Whippets~ M. Apr 30, 2009, 4:25pm EDT
How many hats do I wear? Sometimes, too many. While I am not a wife or mother (to human children, anyways), I do still manage to have a fairly busy schedule.
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Pam H. Apr 30, 2009, 4:26pm EDT
Tabitha, I did purchase an electronic organizer thru Amazon, it was great until it locked up and I lost all the info on it. All phone numbers and appointments were gone, I had to reset it.
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:26pm EDT
Seems like we all love the post-it notes. I think they are great!
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:27pm EDT
J.F. somehow I trust the written word more than a machine!
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Priscilla (wishing I was in Costa Rica) ~. Apr 30, 2009, 4:27pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight?: with a calendar that I carry with me!
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:27pm EDT
i'd be lost without post it notes!
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:27pm EDT
Diana...we limit afterschool activities here too. Angela has dance, and she stays for geo club once a month. Pher has Boy Scouts and crew, and he has 4-H once a month.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:27pm EDT
if i don't write something down i'm bound to forget it!
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Priscilla (wishing I was in Costa Rica) ~. Apr 30, 2009, 4:28pm EDT
How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc): Let's see, Mom, wife, daughter, sister, co-worker, travel manager, cook, laundress, cleaning woman...gardener, driver.
Ok, I think that is all of them!
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:28pm EDT
And to keep better organized, have everyone in the household have their own chores. You can't be super woman all the time. Although many think you are. :)
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:28pm EDT
How do you keep your busy schedule straight? I write it in a mini daily planner and I do a little at a time and do my best to finish one project before the next
How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc) wife and adoptive mother of a wonderful dog named Foxy and soon to be started a health product business
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:28pm EDT
Jax thats the way to go.. kids need time to be kids!
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:29pm EDT
oh i forgot bill payer, banker, choir member
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Trish A. Apr 30, 2009, 4:29pm EDT
Wow! What a surprise my husband is home early. It's been nice chatting.
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:30pm EDT
My husband doesn't really help me with chores. He says he will but usually doesn't come through for me. I get very overwhelmed taking care of every aspect of chores when he could atleast help me by rinsing the dishes, picking up his laundry and put in the basket, things like that....
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☀ Aunt Shanny Apr 30, 2009, 4:30pm EDT
* How do you keep your busy schedule straight? a Franklin planner

* How many hats do you wear? (e.g. mother, student, wife, etc) mom (to 3 dogs), wife (kinda), doting daughter, loving sister, favorite aunty

HA!
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:30pm EDT
LOL JF...I'm no superwoman...that's why my house is a disaster at the moment....and yes, my kids do have chores...
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Janet "Jax" B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:31pm EDT
Oh, have to go....Angela should be home from school soon....and dinner has to get put in the oven...have a good afternoon.
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:31pm EDT
I even take the trash out, take care of automotive issues etc. and it is often overwhelming. I know that he works full time and I appreciate it but nothing? no help?
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:31pm EDT
Yes, bill payer, cook, gardener, dealing with our attorney about workers' comp, doctors, etc. My life is very stressful. I manage to balance it all. I have to.
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:32pm EDT
Oh yeah, I am also a long distance daughter.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:32pm EDT
i do have to say now that hubby is retired he does most of the housecleaning, dishes, cooking.. its great!!
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:32pm EDT
Yeah, bill payer I forgot that one too and the cooking, etc. Yep!
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Eileen C. Apr 30, 2009, 4:33pm EDT
Diana, that is wonderful. Sometimes I think hubby is stressed out from work and doesn't tell me and just wants to veg in front of the tube. or internet but sometimes he brings works home and doesn't get paid overtime and that stresses me out.
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J F. Apr 30, 2009, 4:33pm EDT
Eileen, that's terrible. Better start trying to slide some of them in little by little. You don't want to spoil him. Then they will expect that the rest of their lives. I know many like that. Not fair and too overwhelming for you.
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DiAnA D. Apr 30, 2009, 4:33pm EDT
hubby doesn't do toilets tho :)
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Cindy B. Apr 30, 2009, 4:34pm EDT
I am mom, chief cook and bottle washer =p I keep it all streight by keeping a note book handy to write down the list of what I need to get done. As well as what I want to get done in a day.
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